IDGAFQUEER ..... stance where you just dont give a fuck. i dont care how people choose to labels themselves or what they do to their body. i dont give a fuck what ur doing as long as ur not ACTUALY harming anyone. i dont care what you ship this is fiction. i dont care. i dont give a fuck.
idgaf about queer discourse
idgaf about ship discourse
idgaf about system discourse
idgaf about kin discourse
idgaf about transid discourse
idgaf about para discourse
idgaf about kink discourse
idgaf about ANY discourse
"What about [X]" IDGAF!!!!!!!! WHATEVER DISCOURSE IDGAF!!!!! SUPPORT YOUR DAMN COMMUNITY
and remember to ask yourself: does this actually harm anyone or are you just uncomfortable and don't understand? think critically
no inherent "stances" but i will dropkick you if you use this ignorantly, this stance doesnt give a fuck about discourse but supports everyones choice in labeling oneself and expects you to be respectful and open minded. this stance also inherently hates bigots (yes this includes zionists fuck you) and is against non-consensual harm. cool emoji code if you want one 💢🦀.
crab symbol [link] credit and all that. regularly scheduled posting will go back to normal eventually. no theme dividers i got lazy and i just wanted to coin this rq to describe my feelings towards everything as a tired coiner ...... idgaf.
⟢ Moralqueer is when someone is extremely good faith. Moralqueers believe that if it is not harming anyone that it should not receive harassment. Moralqueer is a heavily anti-harassment term, a Moralqueer would never send threats/hate to someone even if they have done problematic things. Moralqueers do not however believe in simply "letting people be," but rather they believe that problematic people can/should be redeemed and get help. Moralqueers believe in recovery and researching before disliking.
FYI This is not based on radnormal, this was made in March of 2026 while radnormal was made in May of 2026
⠀➜⠀Full list of support and against
⚠️— (Support and against can be changed or removed to your liking but this is what OP intended for the label)
Edit: Literally the only thing you cannot change is the pro recovery, anti harassment, and pro re-education parts
DeviantQueer is a blankqueer ideology based off of nihilism (life is meaningless), somewhat hedonism (so do what you wish to achieve your own contentment), radqueer and xenosatanist ideology.
Emoji combos: ❌💢, 💢🌈, ⁉️🌈, 🪭🌈
DeviantQueer is PRO:
Every transid, including cisharmful/cishatefuls.
Paraphilias
Any contact stance, but DeviantQueer is pro-c aligned.
All identities, even ones that are rooted in spite, fetishization, romanticization, etc.
Destigmatization of sex and sexual expression.
Normalization of nudity, nonsexual in nature.
Full bodily autonomy
Education for sexual and romantic relationships, paraphilias, etc.
Fetishization/romanticization of anything as long as you do not express it in a way that is harmful towards others.
Youth liberation
The belief that teenagers are able to consent to experiences with proper education.
Consang
Dark fiction and the freedom to engage in it
All forms of plurality
Every form of disorders, and people who do not conform to their own disorder(s).
Kink at pride
Abolition of the death penalty.
Conabuse
Communism, socialism, and anarchism
Freedom in your own mental health, allowing people to get worse if they wish.
Legalization of sex work for consenting individuals of all kinds.
Legalization of drugs that show medical benefits.
Reproductive rights
Harassment towards antis
Delusion
Pro non-harmful non-con
Parasocial behaviors
Reclaiming terms
Going against most if not all societal norms, and/or what is "biological fact", including birthdays, sex, age, etc.
Using slurs as long as they are not used to attack the group they were created for
N.I.N
Self diagnosis.
Xenosatanism
Radqueer
DeviantQueer is NEUTRAL:
Religion
Harassment
DeviantQueer is ANTI:
Nonconsensual sexual/romantic interaction
Nonconsensual physical interaction
Purity culture
Homomisia, transmisia, ableism, sysmedicalism, right wing ideology, capitalism
"Radnormal"
the names comes from the words "education" and "radqueer"
an inherently radqueer term, used by people who heavily research and slowly and carefully think through their stances. they usually won't make a decision on wether they are for or against something until they are solid in their perception of wether or not in harms someone.
can be any consensual contact stance, including anti c, pro c, complex c, and any other contact stance that is viewed as consented to by all parties involved!
this stance stands for everything radqueer stands for, including but not exclusive to:
• pro para
• pro fic
• bodily anatomy
• consensual acts
• etc!!
this stance is ANTI:
• making moral decisions or decisions that could effect someone negatively, before researching HEAVILY and THROUGHLY, from studies, others perspectives, different angles, etc
• being biased when it comes to research
• close mindedness
• unacceptance based on fear/immaturity/etc
• using fear, biases, trauma, etc to justify being against something as a whole
• non consensual acts
• using this label to be viewed as morally superior
• insincerely using this label
• etc!!!
might add more information if needed or requested!!
any radqueer is free to use this blankqueer term!!
flag:
it's blue and that specific purple because i view research as that blue and that purple and cause its pretty
comqueer, also called communityqueer, is a blankqueer stance in which the individual holds feelings of freedom for all and radical acceptance, while also striving to keep beings of all ages safe. this blankqueer stance is very intertwined with harmless personal identities so long they do not stereotype, make fun of, or degrade other groups. example: you may be dissorace, dissoabled, etc, while also not stereotyping the groups and listening to those who actually have the traits & the community to relieve dysphoria and be considered family / proxy of that community by its members.
EMOJI COMBO: 🥂🌈
PRO:
HARMLESS PERSONAL IDENTITIES: associd / associ[x] / associx, dissomei, etc. com-queer surrounds this concept.
mogai, liom, radinclus
contradictory labels / good-faith
recovery, but shouldn't be forced upon someone who truly does not want to get better after multiple attempts at recovery
consent
bodily autonomy
rehabilitation
proper education on mental & physical health.
con"abuse" relationships (preferably with the use of a different term other than "abuse".)
non-disordered systems
self love
safe contact
coping mechanisms
yumeshipping
roleplay of any kind
protecting minors/children
mad pride
consuming dark media critically
harm reduction!!!
critically consuming media in general
realistic portrayal of abuse
de-sexualization of paraphilias (platonic, romantic, intellectual, emotional paraphilias...)
safewords in all kink/paras/etc
recognition of all mental illnesses (schizospec, cluster a, b, c, psychotic spec, neurodevelopmental disorders that isn't just ADHD or ASD, BIID, etc)
NEU:
transids (keep transids (dysphoria) related to race, able, harmed & harmful in private between close ones, and when publicly speaking of it, be objective in your experience without glorifying the experiences you have dysphoria of not having. harmless transids are free to be posted online wherever. we still encourage those with taboo IDs to use terms like dissomei and similar to be distinct from those who identify with taboo IDs for fun.)
ANTI:
abuse
harassment
pro/darkship community (1)
radqueer community (2)
ableism, saneism
"narc abuse"
stigmatization of disorders & paraphilias
"MUDs" or "medically unrecognized disorders" (3)
psych
bigotry
non-consenting acts of any kind (no matter how small!)
real incest (always csa or grooming, the internal family structure is something you cannot undo and coercion is VERY VERY common due to the power the family structure has.)
censorship
the label "thought crimes", no thought is a crime.
romanticizing abuse
xenosatanism
center wing, right wing
using sociopath, psychopath, psychotic, schizophrenic, etc in a negative context.
minors publicly in kink
agegap relationships (2+ years in child/teenhood (0-19), 3-4+ years in adulthood unless over 25/30 years old, where you are mature enough to enter any kind of relationship.)
generative ai
feel free to ask about any other stances comqueer holds. please READ everything thoroughly before asking questions.
(1) pro/darkship communities tend to publicly romanticize abuse and crimes, and while engaging in dark media isn't bad in itself, the presence of this romanticized/fetishized media in FANDOM spaces have high risk of children being groomed into pro/darkshipping, which can then permanently traumatize them. engaging in your paraphilias in private/with close friends isn't bad and even encouraged in therapy, but publicly romanticizing such will cause a lot of harm. always remember to consume dark media critically aswell! also, darkshipping MAY be damaging to your health. if it is, you should stop.
(2) radqueer as an ideology is... almost fine on its own (i.e the VERY original coining post of radqueer, aka old radqueer), but is far too vague and allows people who think chronominors can consent to chronoadults, aswell as "pro-contact" for paraphilias where one is completely unable to consent. this label was made to be VAGUELY similar to radqueer, but safer for children and fragile people to use and HEAVILY encourages consent before anything.
(3) MUDs tend to be already-defined disorders, and also tend to describe Normal Traits but make it into a disorder even though it is not inherently disordered. a lot of MUDs we see typically describe a form of Autism anyway, or any other disorder that exists. otherwise, it could also make people think that their normal traits are disordered, and waters down the meaning of "Disorder" in the first place. HOWEVER, making subtypes for disorders is fine, so long it still fits the criteria.
these opinions have been formed and curated with the help of medical professionals, psychologists, psychiatrists, psych articles, community experiences, and victims. such professionals are against forcing neurotypical standards on neurodivergents & persodivergents and general ignorance in the medical field, hence the anti-psych stance.
just because we heavily discourage public (romanticized) darkshipping doesn't mean anti-censorship opposes it. doing stupid things is legal. this goes for public romanticized darkshipping too.
We do allow and encourage archiving of our terms, but please do not reupload our flags and/or terms on any other platform without our explicit consent!
SelfComfortQueer
[Self-Comfort-Queer]
SelfComfortQueer is a blankqueer stance where a being priorizes their own comfort and happiness over what others think of their identity, no matter if it makes sense to or upsets other beings! It is not inheriently for or against anything, this is just for those who wish to use it and identify as what they feel most comfortable with!
This is a reclaiming of another term on Tumblr known as 'Newqueer'
This is our first time coining a term and making a flag! We hope everycreature enjoys! ૮ ˶ˆ ﻌ ˆ˶ ა
