𝖔𝖗𝖌𝖆𝖓𝖎𝖟𝖊𝖉 𝖈𝖍𝖆𝖔𝖘

overcaffeinated writer, just vibing. this blog became hornyposting faster than i anticipated. MDNI, 25y/o. he/they 🇦🇷 eng-esp. sharing pfp with my wifey

[chaotic-castiel]

I realized I never did one of these presentation thingies so here we go:

Welcome to Cas' blog 💜

I'm Castiel, 20/04/2001, transmasc, Argentine so I'm very comfortable with both Spanish and English. Most of the content I post is in English though. I am also obsessed with my girl to the point where I'm learning Serbian.

Vampire enthusiast, worryingly kinky, anti-censorship. Sometimes I share random things I write (I write way too much smut ;^;). I am both bisexual and a switch, so the hornyposting can go literally any way depending on mood.

To see me suffer while finishing a novel, please redirect to @organized-castiel

Mandatory TW list:

I haven't been in fandom spaces for a very long time now, but I reblog art I like pretty often.

This is basically my weird little corner on the internet, please be polite and do not move my furniture without permission.

I'll start tagging my writing with #caswrites because this blog is a mess.

Asks are encouraged! <3

As formerly stated I am kinky af so if you're not comfortable around cnc, monsterfucking and primal play this blog is probably not for you. As I also said, I am anti-censorship which means I do not give a flying fuck about what people are shipping on the internet.

It goes beyond saying that minor I see, minor I block, so please do not interact with me if you're under 18.

[animentality]

[maltratamee]

Que fantasía escucharte gemir

[loonylupin2]

Drew Astarion like a La vie Parisienne cover

[mountaincripple]

there are disability aids for literally everything…. and that includes intimacy!!

its very important to me that you know this!!!

here are just a few examples:

18 and over post pls <3

first my credentials: i’m physically disabled (wheelchair user, chronic pain, spasms in extremities, muscle weakness, numbness and atrophy in all limbs, seizures, etc) i’m an ex SW and i used to work at an adult store (trying to get rehired again pray for me pls)

pillow forms:

my fave is the liberator wedge, but there’s a lot of shapes. can be used in a variety of ways to ease strain.

hand harnesses:

extremely helpful if you can’t grip for long periods of time. just like regular harnesses, you can fit it with a toy and use it on yourself or a partner.

hands free toy holder:

suuuper helpful if you can’t grip at all/if you’re like me and can’t stop your hands and arms from doing as they please. can be used on yourself or a partner.

intimacy chairs:

usually used by people with paralysis but also helpful for profound muscle weakness and if you can’t hold yourself up/produce motion reliably

sleeves:

generally most useful if you have a penis, fantastic if you don’t have steady hand motion but can grip semi reliably.

mount/toy mount:

these have a ton of variety. you can get ones that are a pillow with a spot for a toy, or ones that act more as a sling for your body (and can be used with toys or partners)

and remember these are only a couple! if you are disabled and struggling to be intimate in any way, there is a tool out there that may very well help you!!!

[dykeinspaceofficial]

OP thank you for this and this list and I am so sorry I'm kinda hijacking it to put more, plus some links. I don't have any images, so I'm not going to put it under a readmore, but be wary the links are all to adult stores.

While I am personally not physically disabled, I am an ally and I am a huge nerd when it comes to sex, sexuality, and sex toys. I believe in sexual liberation and accessible sexuality for everyone, and it kills me that disabled folks of all kinds are so frequently left out of the conversation.

First, I just want to give a shoutout to Cute Little Fuckers, which is a queer, trans, and disabled-owned business selling high-quality toys with all kinds of bodies in mind. Step, the founder, started the company after they were diagnosed with a neurological condition that upended their life. The toys are a little bit on the pricier end, but while I haven't personally owned any of them, I've heard nothing but good things.

Next: if you struggle with pain during sex that is caused by deep penetration (ie your partner going to deep into you), you might want to consider the Ohnut! It's a series of silicone rings that you put around the base of the penis or toy that control how deep it can be thrust in. (The company also has other pelvic floor related products that are worth looking into.)

Onward! Regarding pillow forms and position aids!

The Liberator wedge and their other shapes are classics. But there are also other positional aids! (Fair warning: the links I am adding to the post here are mostly from Extreme Restraints (but also a handful of other adult stores), and have explicit images in their listings, so... proceed with caution. Also, I know there are AI images in the listing, but I've been purchasing from this company for the better part of a decade and I do trust them. It pisses me off, too.)

This is a thigh sling to help keep legs up and out of the way.

Here's a kinkier version with handcuffs, if you're into that.

Here is a similar padded strap you can use during doggy, put under the lower belly/hips of the person on their hands and knees.

Related to the hand harness: did you know you can get a thigh harness? (Here's one from Sportsheets, another company I love) It does exactly what's on the tin, it holds a toy to the wearer's thigh, allowing the other person to ride it or suck on it or whatever. (This can also be put around a pillow to similar effect!) If you need to be sitting upright and a normal strap-on isn't comfortable, doesn't fit right, or doesn't hold the toy the way you want, this is a great alternative.

For some reason, Lovehoney is either sold out of or is no longer selling the hands-free mount that OP has listed in her post, and I can't really find anything comparable, which sucks. The only ones I can find are specifically for Fleshlights, which is great if you use those, but it's a brand name, and an expensive one at that. THAT SAID, you can get double-sided suction cups to put on suction-cup-less toys, and then go from there. A small tray or plate you can suction cup that to will get you pretty far, tbh.

Ultimately, the toy mounts that are pillow-shaped are going to be able to do a lot of the same thing as the strapped mount. Liberator and copycat companies also usually have a pillow designed to hold strokers (Fleshlight brand or otherwise)

Okay, finally: ERGONOMIC HANDLES.

Look, thrusting a toy in and out of yourself puts you in a weird position, usually, and it isn't always comfortable to maintain. There is a solution.

Here are both suction cup and vac-u-lock compatible handles AND ACCESSORIES for toys from Silc Arts.

If the position itself isn't too bad for you to maintain, but the grip on your toy is hard to keep or you could use a little more to grip onto, here is a suction cup grip from LustArts.

And finally, here are some other links to the stuff that OP listed, should you be so inclined:

Liberator cushions

La Palma hand harness

IntimateRider chair

This isn't that exact specific sleeve, but it is close. There are a lot of options in this department though

A sex stool similar to the second to last one in OP's post, which lets you ride without putting so much pressure on your knees.

Alright, that's all I got, but I hope this is helpful to someone!

[etoilevega]

Also you can and SHOULD use these even if you’re not disabled or don’t think you’re disabled. Plenty of people do, to have better sex. Go forth and have better sex.

[thecollectibles]

Succubi by Aleksandra Wojcik

[manicpixiedreamgalpal]

Plane tickets should be free if you really want to make out with someone who lives on the other side of the planet

[circawontsurvivee]

truth

[yamada-ryo]

Post: maybe american defaultism on the internet is bad

Very Smart Person on the Internet That Understood the Post: Oh so you want european defaultism? Huh? You know that's just as bad? You're just as bad for wanting european defaultism. Because that's what you want, isn't it? Because you're european, obviously, the whole world is just america and europe

[osidius-el-enfatico]

dios, por favor toma todo el sufrimiento del tercer mundo y dáselo a la selección de futbol masculina de los estado unidos

[maltratamee]

Pues si me encanta coger, pero también, el arte, la música, las movies, comer mucho y que me quieran

[quieranse]

[billymayslesbian]

imagining a universe where porn is a marketable genre so you have to deal with raycon ads while trying to jerk your shit

[torchichate]

You’re an easy slut, aren’t you kitten? Almost as easy as dinner with Hellofresh

[roycohn]

there's an old anne rice interview circulating on twitter rn that i remember reading ages ago where she makes a pretty salient point about how submissive men who have bdsm fantasies etc will go to a sex worker and basically order the ala carte version of their fantasy to be performed in real life but women don't really have that same option and certainly not at the same point of availability so they read her horny books instead. and honestly that argument has been in the back of my mind every time people get on their high horses about the popularity of booktok romantasy novels or heated rivalry or whatever the "women are horny and we're upset about that" cultural property du jour is ever since. women, especially straight women, have so few outlets for their sexual desires, especially if they have a partner who doesn't share them, and i will never understand why "someone ELSE'S private sexual fantasy makes me uncomfortable and therefore they should not be allowed to engage with it, even if i am in no way being affected by it or even aware of it at all" is such a popular party line among allegedly progressive young people.

[pitviperofdoom]

I try not to fall into the "I never liked their work anyway" ditch when an artist/creator reveals themself to be a terrible person

BUT

a feeling I do have and will stand by is "While I enjoyed their work overall I did have some gripes that I overlooked out of affection and whimsy, but now that my loyalty is gone and my affection tainted there is nothing holding me back from enumerating my many grievances, to which the revelations of the creator's shittiness may or may not provide a new and infuriating context."

[theowlburrow]

Video games 🎮

[marywshelleys]

frankly, if there's a conversation about oppression within the imperial core and in the global south, and you, as a "leftist" or liberal or whatever, chime in with an unrelated little comment like "except for argentina" or anything of the sort, suggesting it's a uniquely racist, fascist, evil country, I automatically discount everything else you've said. I just do not believe you can have anything worthwile to say about mechanisms of oppression when you're parrotting fabricated narratives like they're a scientific truth of the universe just because you relish having a socially acceptable outlet for xenophobia, and you're not even capable of recognizing what you're doing. I don't trust your thought process or biases regarding anything else when you can't even interrogate that.

[thebestbloodsckr]

There's no such thing as a heterosexual vampire and it's bold of you to believe there is