hello! it is i, the majestic faerie! i decided to create a blog dedicated to being non-human in a human world, and my experiences with that!
i am part of a mixed-origin autigenic system, the chaos collective (@wellthatschaotic) if you want to check out our main blog!
this can also function as a sort of "questions about non-humanity" post, go ahead and submit asks about us and our experiences and/or clarification as to what we mean by certain things! please be respectful and genuine in these asks, harsh/harmful questions will be deleted!
some info about me:
my name is isla, and i am a faerie! i am proud of my non-humanity and fairly open about it! i come from the innerworld/paracosm (we have MaDD) where i grew up<3
my favorite color is gray, my favorite food is probably pasta (specifically alfredo!).
i have wings and horns, and i get phantom wings the most/wing dysphoria more than anything else.
DNI and rules under the cut!
rules:
1) please do not tell me i am not real/i am human because i am not and anything that says/suggests this will be immediately deleted
2) please no negativity on this blog, i am trying to spread positivity only! any negative submissions/asks will be deleted and not answered (sorry not sorry)
3) humans, neurotypicals, and singlets are welcome on this blog, as long as they are respectful of us and our experiences. disrespect will be blocked (i'm not afraid of blocking people)
4) all non-humans are allowed, as long as they do not criticize other types of non-humanity
5) if you don't understand something, either ask politely or DNI. it's not your job to understand fully, just to be a decent being.
DNI list:
- transphobes/terfs/queerphobes of any flavor
- people against m-spec lesbians & gays
- exclusionists of any sort
- racists/misogynists
- anti-endos/sysmeds/anyone who fakeclaims systems
- ableists
- people who don't believe in non-humanity (and aren't willing to learn)
•I know there's been a lot of talk about fighting back against racism and discrimination in the alterhuman community (which is statistically a mostly white online community). Though I cannot stress enough that most of the racism I and other poc folks in the alterhuman community see is not your average gun toting, right wing extremist racism. It's racism that most white people wouldn't see as a real issue, it's racism that flies under the radar because most other than those targeted by it don't see an issue with it.
•I've been the target of both intentional racism and what many white people would call """"unintentional"""" racism. The latter is much more prominent in the alterhuman community, and what I have been the target of the most here. I've mainly retreated to my own poc alterhuman server as a result of being mistreated in this manner, the wider alterhuman community is not a safe space for poc folks unless white folks recognize and call out racial discrimination that flies under the radar. I don't feel that the wider alterhuman community is a safe space for my being as an indigenous mesoamerican and ethnically jewish individual. I don't even talk about being the latter much because being two things the current political climate really hates is downright dangerous for my being and makes my being a major active target. The fear is real. Though anyways.
•Racism that I have seen more commonly these days in the alterhuman community are as follows, (I'll explain these as well in case the initial statements aren't already self explanatory).
•Bodily white people using words like "mutt", "mixed breed", "savage", and "half breed" to describe themselves or their 'types. (These are words that have been used to maliciously target people of color, myself included. People claim to use those words in non offensive ways, 'savage' can sometimes be used in non offensive ways, however words like these have an incredibly dark history for folks of color, and are used in a negative, racist context towards us. I have been called all of these things with the intent of being dehumanized and harrassed. They're not to be used lightly, and they're certainly not for white people, who have never been the target of these words, to use).
•Thinking dehumanization and being called an animal is always a good and positive experience in the otherkin sense. (It's not for everyone, especially those who have been the target of racially charged dehumanization, who have negative experiences with being seen more as an animal than as a human being with rights and feelings. There's a positive way for someone like my being to be called an animal, and there's a negative way. Sometimes I can't tell what's positive and what's negative. I don't want to be dehumanized, despite being nonhuman, that's not a positive experience for my being. I don't want to be called an animal by others, and don't assume that many poc have a positive experience with being called that either).
•Arguing with and/or dogpiling alterhumans of color for bringing up problems about certain slurs, concepts, imagery, and beliefs. (This has happened to my being on more than one occasion, specifically regarding the word 'savage', a derogatory term used to target people of color, though used a lot to dehumanize indigenous peoples. Some think that just because it decribes their kintype, it's always an okay word to use. If someone doesn't want you to use an offensive term around them, don't go 'erm, actually!!!!!' and proceed to defend your right to use it around that individual. If someone doesn't want you to talk about something racially charged around them, don't fucking talk about it, and certainly don't argue with them about semantics. Leave it be).
•Blatant cultural appropriation, such as claiming to be entities from closed cultures. (One example is the unspeakable spirit, I'll call it the wendy's double bacon and egg cheeseburger for laughs. Spirits from closed cultures do not interact with people other than those of direct lineage to said culture. I've seen a lot of Native American and Voodoo practices, concepts, and entities stolen by white people who just don't care. They just like they aesthetic and the look, it's incredibly shallow. Respect the beliefs and wishes of people from closed cultures, or you're just a fucking racist, simple as that. Quit pretending to be something that you will never be).
•Claiming to be the subject of an indigenous person's reverence because of your kintype. (I have seen this around, I have seen bodily white people making these claims, and no, you are not the subject of our reverence, fuck off. We don't 'honor' white people, you're not involved in our ceremonies, you're not the subject of our prayers, and you're not sacred. The very thought of white people genuinely thinking this makes my stomach turn as someone who actively participates in indigenous culture. You're just an ignorant, self centered pos if you think indigenous people should honor you).
•There are other types of under the radar racism in the community that I haven't covered, and feel free to point other things out, though none of the above is okay. None of the above should be present in spaces.
•Virtue signaling is not enough. Making posts online that gain some traction is not enough. Real, lasting change needs to happen on the wider community level and the smaller community level. Call out any kind of racism whenever you see it happening, remove offenders from communities and don't try to defend their racist behavior. When a person of color has a concern about something that may be racially offensive, fucking LISTEN and don't automatically think that their feelings are invalid. White folks in the community need to be more mindful of what they say, racism should not be happening in this community to begin with, though it happens because it flies under the radar, because privileged people aren't mindful of what they say, because it's just 'not a big deal' to those who aren't the targets.
•Don't say "It's not that deep" when someone brings up that something is offensive towards people of color, especially if you're not the one being targeted by a statement, an action, or an image. That kind of racist thought process is what makes many poc alterhumans feel unsafe in majority white alterhuman spaces. That kind of shitty mentality is why unchecked racism is allowed to thrive in some alterhuman spaces, that shitty mentality is why many poc alterhumans don't feel safe around majority white spaces, that shitty mentality is why you don't see my being around large alterhuman spaces anymore.
•Yes, some of my words are aggressive. Yes, I am vauging at racists in the community. Yes, I am angry. Because I and many other folks of color have been essentially pushed out of the wider alterhuman community because of racist behavior, because our feelings weren't considered worth hearing, because community admins prioritized their favorites and best buddies over the concerns of people of color. I don't get to be a real part of big communities anymore because of anti indigenous racism. I don't get to be a real part of big communities anymore because of antisemitism. I don't get to be a part of many big communities anymore because some would rather see my being as the angry latina stereotype rather than confront their own racism and make a real change. I don't even get to be loud and proud about being as mixed as I am because I'm the active target of right wingers and an entire government administration that would do anything to see my being beaten and deported.
•People like myself are angry right now, we're being targeted right now, some of poc are in downright dangerous and life-threatening situations. The LAST thing alterhumans of color want to see right now is racism in a community that's supposed to be safe, that's supposed to accept us with open arms. Being the target of racism in communities that are supposed to be safe, when there's already a viscious political climate targeting us is a horrific betrayal. I'm not here to sugarcoat this, I'm not here to be nice about racism, I'm not here to gently walk you through things you should already know, I'm here to raise awareness. If you're intimidated by my words, if you're intimidated by my reality as a mixed indigenous person, or if you're even angry at my words, then maybe you need to reevaluate whether you're an actual ally to people of color or not.
•I just want to see change in this community. I just want myself and other alterhumans of color to feel welcome in the wider alterhuman community again. So many of my poc friends have brought up instances of racism they've faced in the alterhuman community, and it's infuriating that they were targeted in such a way. Real change isn't going to happen unless a community wide shift happens. That change isn't going to happen until white folks in the community really start minding what they say. That change isn't going to happen unless individual communities take a much harder stance on racism. Take my words how you will, look at my being how you will, hate my being if you must. Just make a real change so myself and other poc alterhumans can feel safe here again.
Decided to go ahead and create an interest form to see if this project is even possible. Please reblog, especially if you are interested
What is the project? It is an idea to create a published book anthology of alterhuman short stories, poetry, etc. I will also be looking for artists for page illustrations and covers
This is not a guarantee you will get in or that the project is currently launching, it is simply to gather interest to see if the project ca
I feel like lots of you who claim to be accepting of nonbinary and otherwise atypical identities still cannot process it beyond the level of "a metaphor for a complex relationship with manhood and womanhood".
Sometimes someone is just a dog, in a literal sense, as species. Not a human who leans into dog aesthetics because they feel alienated from binary genders due to trauma.
Sometimes someone just actually lacks gender or has an alien gender. And they're not just a man or a woman but in a way that's especially complex and nuanced.
And these aren't experiences inferior to or more shallow than binary genders.
honestly sucks when you want people to compliment your wings so bad but nobody can ever see them... smh. Those people are just ignorant. For those who need to hear it, your wings are really pretty Ok? Ok
