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let's talk about Bridgerton tea, my ask is open
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i rly…like..that phantom thief/detective au stuff..w them…. anyway the first one is a probably not accurate quote from b 99 i was watching that while doodling this and the other stuff is just one of them accidentally (or was it) handcuffed together plots
bro…we r teenz
trans mlm and wlw solidarity
what if we 😳 were protagonists stuck in killing games (and we were both lesbians)
The homophobic pride flag !! 🥰🥰🥰
i just realized we should probably explain what the colors mean!
Red - Chick-fil-a !
Yellow - Piss, which we use to scare gays away !
Ivory - To represent our skin tone !
Green - For the gamers !
Blue - For the stripes on Mike Wheeler, our homophobic icon’s shirt !
Black/Dark Brown - To represent the hair colors of the homophobic gods themselves, Millie Bobby Brown and Finn Wolfhard !
The homophobic pride flag !! 🥰🥰🥰
Mike Wheeler from Stranger Things is homophobic!
You are homophobic!
Millie Bobby Brown is homophobic!
Oh Look, Another Ask Game!
I made a character ask game! Send me a number and a character to learn a little bit more about them! ^^
Who do they look up to?
Who do they look to for guidance?
What would it take for them to betray the person they love?
Who is someone they’ve hurt?
What is a secret that they have?
Would they trust anyone with their secret?
Any family scandals? Does your character know about them?
Is there anyone that they currently aren’t speaking to? Why?
What is something that would break them emotionally?
Sacrifice the one to save many, or save the one no matter the cost?
Do they have any illnesses?
What is the fastest way to upset them?
What is something that makes them uncomfortable?
What is something that never fails to make them excited?
Have they ever had their hair washed by another person?
What is the most romantic thing someone has done for them?
Who is their favorite person(s) to spend time with?
Neck kisses or shoulder kisses?
How do they feel about public displays of affection?
Would they be the one to propose, the one hoping for a proposal, or no interest in marriage/the equivalent thereof?
Do they prefer giving or receiving gifts?
How indecisive are they?
What do they want most in life?
What do they think they’re good at, but aren’t?
What is something they think they’re bad at, but are actually pretty competent at?
What is something they’re legitimately bad it?
Do they have any cool scar stories?
When left to their own devices, how would they spend a free day?
What do they do to relax?
What is their ideal sleeping situation?
Do they have a comfort food?
What is their favorite thing to drink?
Do they have a signature accessory?
How do they generally wear their hair?
What color would they paint their nails?
Are there any holidays or celebrations they dislike?
Are there any holidays or celebrations that they go all in for?
How would you describe their decorating sense?
Would they rather have a picnic in the woods or a picnic on the beach?
Blanket fort or tree house?
the wellbeing of children is more important than your weird ass fucked up ships. Stop defending paedophilia. Stop normalising paedophilia. Stop trivialising the shit I and countless other kids have gone through for your pointless fucking garbage.
and no, “I was abused too!” is not an excuse.
Reblog the Frog.
Reblog the Frog.
Reblog. The. Frog.
REBLOG. THE. FROG.
Reblog the Frog.
Reblog the Frog
REBLOG THE FROG
@tamarinfrog
Reblog the frog
REEEEEEBLOG THE FROG
Reblug the frug.
@frogsuggest
REBLOG THE FROG
In your darkest hour,
REBLOG THE FROG
@mitzusart
reblog the sleepy frog
@scrawlingskribbles
Aaaaw what a cutie!!!
Why "doing something relaxing” does not help your anxiety
A lot of the time when people give advice intended to relieve anxiety, they suggest doing “relaxing” things like drawing, painting, knitting, taking a bubble bath, coloring in one of those zen coloring books, or watching glitter settle to the bottom of a jar.
This advice is always well-intentioned, and I’m not here to diss people who either give it or who benefit from it. But it has never, ever done shit for me, and this is because it goes about resolving anxiety in the completely wrong way.
THE WORST THING YOU CAN DO when suffering from anxiety is to do a “relaxing” thing that just enables your mind to dwell and obsess more on the thing that’s bothering you. You need to ESCAPE from the dwelling and the obsession in order to experience relief.
You can drive to a quiet farm, drive to the beach, drive to a park, or anywhere else, but as someone who has tried it all many, many times, trust me–it’s a waste of gas. You will just end up still sad and stressed, only with sand on your butt. You can’t physically escape your sadness. Your sadness is inside of you. To escape, you need to give your brain something to play with for a while until you can approach the issue with a healthier frame of mind.
People who have anxiety do not need more time to contemplate, because we will use it to contemplate how much we suck.
In fact, you could say that’s what anxiety is–hyper-contemplating. When we let our minds run free, they run straight into the thorn bushes. Our minds are already running, and they need to be controlled. They need to be given something to do, or they’ll destroy everything, just like an overactive husky dog ripping up all the furniture.
Therefore, I present to you:
THINGS YOU SHOULD NOT DO WHEN ANXIOUS
–Go on a walk
–Watch a sunset, watch fish in an aquarium, watch glitter, etc.
–Go anywhere where the main activity is sitting and watching
–Draw, color, do anything that occupies the hands and not the mind
–Do yoga, jog, go fishing, or anything that lets you mentally drift
–Do literally ANYTHING that gives you great amounts of mental space to obsess and dwell on things.
THINGS YOU SHOULD DO WHEN ANXIOUS:
–Do a crossword puzzle, Sudoku, or any other mind teaser game. Crosswords are the best.
–Write something. It doesn’t have to be a masterpiece. Write the Top 10 Best Restaurants in My City. Rank celebrities according to Best Smile. Write some dumb Legolas fanfiction and rip it up when you’re done. It’s not for publication, it’s a relief exercise that only you will see.
–Read something, watch TV, or watch a movie–as long as it’s engrossing. Don’t watch anything which you can run as background noise (like, off the top of my head, Say Yes to The Dress.) As weird as it seems, American Horror Story actually helps me a lot, because it sucks me in.
–Masturbate. Yes, I’m serious. Your mind has to concentrate on the mini-movie it’s running. It can’t run Sexy Titillating Things and All The Things That are Bothering Me at the same time. (…I hope. If it can, then…ignore this one.)
–Do math problems—literally, google “algebra problems worksheet” and solve them. If you haven’t done math since 7th grade this will really help you. I don’t mean with math, I mean with the anxiety.
–Play a game or a sport with someone that requires great mental concentration. Working with 5 people to get a ball over a net is a challenge which will require your brain to turn off the Sadness Channel.
–Play a video game, as long as it’s not something like candy crush or Tetris that’s mindless.
THINGS YOU SHOULD DO DURING PANIC ATTACKS ESPECIALLY:
–List the capitals of all the U.S. states
–List the capitals of all the European countries
–List all the shapes you can see. Or all the colors.
–List all the blonde celebrities you can think of.
–Pull up a random block of text and count all the As in it, or Es or whatever.
Now obviously, I am not a doctor. I am just an anxious person who has tried almost everything to help myself. I’ve finally realized that the stuff people recommend never works because this is a disorder that thrives on free time and free mental space. When I do the stuff I listed above, I can breathe again. And I hope it helps someone here too.
(Now this shouldn’t have to be said but if the “do nots” work for you then by all means do them. They’ve just never worked for me.)
This would’ve been great an hour ago
This is good advice for anxious peeps and peeps with anxious friends. Seems obvious now but I hadn’t thought about it this way before.
I second this! You still can do all the relaxing stuff but you need to couple it with something that will take up your mental attention too. Read a book while you take that bath. Listen to a brand new podcast while you take that walk. Put an interesting TV show on while you knit and try to guess the ending or count the number of books or whatever that appear on screen. If you attack your anxiety on both a physiological and mental level you’ll have an easier time of stopping that runaway train that’s crashing through your brain and tearing up your mental health.
People who are valid members of the LGBT community:
Lesbians
Gays
Bisexuals
Transgenders
Queers
Asexuals
Nonbinaries
Agenders
Pansexuals
Heteroflexible/Homoflexibles
Aromantics
Demisexuals
Demiromantics
Anybody who is attracted to somebody of the same sex in any way, shape, or form.
Literally anybody who identifies as a different sex than they were assigned at birth
People who are NOT valid members of the LGBT community:
Cis/het Otherkins
Cis/het Furries
Cis/het Fictionkins
MAPS/noMAPS
Clovergenders
Transages
Transraces
Necrophiles
Tucutes/Transtrenders
Cis/Het Intersex
MOGAI identities
I’m just going to leave this here…
im on mobile, can someone make one that adds “jews”
Done
I MADE A GIANT MASHUP EXPRESSION MEME!!
NONE OF THESE BEAUTIFUL DRAWINGS ARE MINE.
They all belong to their respective owners, written on the pictures and linked here: @the-adorable-lua @capochiino @rosswelm @crashandburrnart @ghostlybunns @maxxeruz-moved @socky-senpai @avcris @cherideer @the-toybox-general @platinumft @straw6unny @s0urur0 @kojoika
I chose these ones because I thought they were the best after scrolling for a good hour. I did some editing (resizing, naming, and adding credits) but nothing more!! I just wanted to make a big and varied expression meme with different styles to choose from if anyone else likes to do that. Feel free to reblog but PLEASE KEEP THIS ON TUMBLR.
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Leave a brush and a character in my ask
You know the neopet brushes? Well, I made an art challenge for it.
while getting ready to do these i discovered they have added a BUNCH of new brushes, several of which are really cool and a lot more unique than the usual palette swaps, so here’s the completionist version
