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I really wonder what the "sex is never needed in a story" crowd thinks happens during sex? The way that people act immediately before, during, and immediately after sex (basically where the no sex crowd would end a scene and then start up again) tells you so much about a person and the relationship between people.
How do they feel about their body? Do they want to stay covered or leave the lights off? Are they shy or ashamed of sex? Do they stifle their moans or make sure the neighbors can here? Do they only fuck in their bedroom or are they hooking up in the broom closet at work? Are there cultural taboos to be aware of? Are they selfish or giving lovers? Are they serious or playful? Who initiates? Who escalates? Do they cuddle after? Do they behave differently during sex than during their day to day lives? Do meek characters become dominant? Do aggressive characters become submissive? Are they vocal about their wants and needs? What do they say no to? How familiar are the characters with each other's bodies? Do they feel comfortable saying no? How do they react when their partner says no? How do they react when their partner says no with their body language and not their words?
Even graphic details can be relevant. There's a very big difference between someone who slams right in and someone who eases in and waits til their partner is ready for more. Between licking gently and biting hard. Between someone enthusiastic and someone going through the motions. Between someone skilled and experienced vs amateur fumbling.
Do things happen during sex that change the way characters see their partner(s)? That change their relationships? Because they do in real life.
There are a million things that happen during sex that are different for every person and can add depth and nuance to their character and relationships. You absolutely don't have to include sex if you don't want to, no story includes every aspect of a person's life, but don't act like all sex is the same and nothing that happens during it could possibly matter.
Is this where we kiss like Benedictine monks from different monasteries?
reposting this here by request.
i want to clarify that i'm not really romanticizing this dynamic, it was kind of the whole point. 😓 the theme here isn't romance but rather delusion. i tried to make samarie unsettling and marina unusually cutesy to mimic samarie's POV to get that point across but i'm not sure if i was successful.
Sure! I made a similar post about it ages ago.
In short, in the game and manga Hector and Isaac create life from scratch, or at most they infuse statues with life; in the show they reanimate corpses, either by turning them into mindless zombies (like Hector does) or putting the souls of the damned in their bodies and turning them into monstruous Night Creatures.
And this means their approach to the things they create are different. Hector calls his Innocent Devils "my friends" at the end of the game, and Isaac in Prelude to Revenge outright calls his own "my children". They're their creations, and while the Devils are bound to serve them, they seem to both be fond of them.
On top of this, Hector in PtR shows guilt for forcing his Devils to sin, and he's seen at the beginning of the manga outright killing them, as if he wants to put them out of their misery.
In short, Hector sees his Innocent Devils as creatures worthy of respect and affection. Which fits, as Hector himself acts as if he needs to earn the right to be loved.
Show Hector is the opposite. His realm is not life, but death. He learned early on in his life that he can bring back dead animals.
Think about what this means. A child discovers that he has the power to nullify death. He can disrupt the normal cycle of life. And he chooses to do so with the understanding of a child: death is sad, I don't want it to happen, I can fix it. And that's how he gains new pets!
Pets who love him. Pets who are the only ones who accept him. Pets who never leave him.
If you have watched the show, you might have noticed that Hector seems to only own reanimated animals.
This is important. In the MF manga, Hector has an affinity with actual animals, although those who are shunned by humans much like he is.
Show Hector, despite fandom conception, is not a doggo lover in the same way game Hector likes cats and wolves. He likes dead animals. He likes creatures who are magically bound to him and will never abandon him because they literally can't. He never shows any interest in living creatures, except when he compares vampires to cats in S2E5.
This is a profoundly selfish, in a childish way, vision of love. If game Hector respects his Devils as life he created to the point of being appalled that he might be taking advantage of their innocence, show Hector himself is innocent in a twisted way, and he has learned to overcome death itself without any respect for such a delicate, blasphemous process, but out of the very simple desire to be loved and appreciated.
(in a well written story, this could have been a terrific parallel to how Lenore herself ends up doing to him what he did to his pets, and how both of them love in a vampiric, possessive, "if you love something you act to keep it with you for as long as you can" way. But neither character was fleshed out enough for this comparison.)
I want to remark that me calling show Hector selfish is not a complaint. I really like this trait of his, and I think it makes him the most morally complex, or at least fascinating, character in the series. He's a blasphemer who refuses to grant the peace of death to the things he wants to keep! But you can see where he's coming from, and there's no malice in his torment. I only wish this trait of his wasn't forgotten and was used for more than "haha look at the idiot treated like a dog by the pretty vampire #kink"
Similarly, the most we know of Hector's feelings for his own power is that "he loves his work", as he says to Carmilla at some point. This is, as I pointed out a while ago, the very thing that Lenore uses to breach his defenses: pretending to appreciate his work by gifting him a book that might help him. Again, it's worth emphasizing: being treated like a pet left him unamused, but being gifted something that conveyed the message "your skills are worth being nurtured" is what made him flip the switch from "I can't trust this woman" to "I am safe with her". He doesn't seem to budge from this position even after being enslaved by that very woman, and we see him taking care of his Night Creatures in S4E5 much like he did in S2, only mildly annoyed that now the ring forfeits their loyalty to him. While show Hector rarely if ever expresses his own inner feelings, we can surmise that the reason he loves his work, despite how much it has ruined his life, is that, well, it's all he has known since he was a child. He has nothing else in his life, nor does he care to grow, given that he ends his story pretty much in the same place as he began. Humans have shunned him, vampires have used and abused him, but Hector keeps crawling to the few sources of validations he has in his life, first forging, then Lenore before she abandons him and leaves him with nothing - and perhaps, I want to hope, forcing him to gain the strength to do something worthwile with his life.
Needless to say that this is a huge contrast to game Hector, who obviously came to despise his line of work after realizing he had been used as a tool all this time, and only through the events of the game, after being used again, he learned to reclaim his powers in a more positive way, by nullifying Dracula's Curse and saving Europe. If show Hector's story ended up being, whether intentionally or accidentally, all about stagnation and the inability to grow up from the childish need to be loved, game Hector's is all about change, regret, atoning for his numerous mistakes to become the person (the human, even) he was always meant to be, and finally finding the love he deserves, not because he did anything to earn it but because as a human he's inherently worthy of it. And their different approaches to Forging is one of the ways this is conveyed.
Reblog if you will never. Ever. Use AI in your writing.
friend inside me
friend inside me
Its been a while hasn't it?
I've missed him terribly.. emotional support bastard boy..
Let people grow.
When I was younger I was very right-wing. I mean…very right-wing. I won’t go into detail, because I’m very deeply ashamed of it, but whatever you’re imagining, it’s probably at least that bad. I’ve taken out a lot of pain on others; I’ve acted in ignorance and waved hate like a flag; I’ve said and did things that hurt a lot of people.
There are artefacts of my past selves online – some of which I’ve locked down and keep around to remind me of my past sins, some of which I’ve scrubbed out, some of which are out of my grasp. If I were ever to become famous, people could find shit on me that would turn your stomach.
But that’s not me anymore. I’ve learned so much in the last ten years. I’ve become more open to seeing things through others’ eyes, and reforged my anger to turn on those who harm others rather than on those who simply want to exist. I’ve learned patience and compassion. I’ve learned how to recognise my privileges and listen to others’ perspectives. I’ve learned to stand up for others, how to hear, how to help, how to correct myself. And I learned some startling shit about myself along the way – with all due irony, some of the things I used to lash out at others for are intrinsic parts of myself.
You wouldn’t know what I am now from what I was then. You wouldn’t know what I was then from what I am now.
It distresses me deeply to think of someone dredging up my dark, awful past and treating me as though that furiously hateful person is still me. It distresses me to see others dredging up the past for anyone who has made efforts to become a better person, out of some sick obsession with proving they’re “problematic.”
Purity culture tells you that once someone says or does something, they can never go back on it. That’s a goddamn lie. While it’s true that some remain unrepentant and never change their ways and continue to harm others, it’s important to allow everyone the chance to learn from their mistakes. Saying something ignorant isn’t murder. Please stop treating it that way. Let people grow.
Still call it out and question it ….
Bruh. No. Listen. Call out what people do now, absolutely. If they haven’t changed, call them out on their record. This post is explicitly not about people who HAVEN’T changed. What this post IS saying is, if someone is making an effort to be a good person, don’t go digging around in their past for evidence that they were once for what they’re now against, or once against what they’re now for, as “proof” of what they “really think,” because people’s opinions and beliefs can change.
The obsession with finding shit in someone’s past and then claiming that a questionable or even sordid past negates all possibility of a good present needs to become extinct. Gold-star activism and purity culture are bullshit and we need to collectively reject the fuck out of them.
If someone has changed for the better, don’t harass them about what they were like before they fuckin’ changed. That’s shitty and it needs to stop.
We can’t change the world if we decide people can’t change.
Gold-star activism and purity culture are bullshit and we need to collectively reject the fuck out of them.
We really need to start asking where this purity bullshit came from. I’m not Christian and was not raised Christian but there has been a lot evidence that much of gold star activism and purity culture originated in of evangelical youth movements and then infiltrated progressive left-wing and center-left politics when those youth left their churches but failed to leave behind the black-n-white puritanical “you’re going to hell if you stray one inch from the righteous path” style of thinking they were taught.
I distinctly remember some conversations I had in the late 00s and very early 2010s with long time social justice activists who were baffled and disturbed by the new crop of youth activists who were practicing something that was decidedly NOT social justice despite stealing that phrase from us.
In the decade and a half that has passed since then, all of this gold-star activism and purity culture has done exactly what I predicted back then: empowered the far-right while sowing division everywhere.
Folks. This shit needs to stop.
The extremely important part is that trust should be proportional to how much they actually demonstrate that they have changed. Especially when it comes to power.
A random person who had a moderately shady past or fucked up views before shouldn’t need to flog themselves to show how penitent they are beyond just doing better now, just to be able to live their life in peace, but if someone is campaigning to get political power and all they have to say for their life up to that point being a field of red flags, it isn’t enough for them to say “well I’m not like that now” if they haven’t actually achieved anything that makes up for it in the opposite direction.
We can’t allow ourselves to be our own worst enemies. We need an approach that allows for Oskar Schindlers without making excuses for Graham Platners.
I need caffeine in my goddamn system🫠 god help me with Physics, I am seriously trying to learn this shit, but it keeps getting even worse😭
And stay safe everyone!
Strange racists and homophobes on the internet seem to have access to an alternate way cooler version of TV than me. "every white character on TV is in an interracial relationship" "every show has a gay couple in it" "main characters keep having to secretly be bisexual and nonbinary" "every show has gratuitous full frontal nudity" like damn promise?? What channel???
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Here’s my take on this.
Intersex bodies do not need correcting, intersex bodies are not unnatural. Intersex people deserve autonomy.
Stop nonconsensual intersex surgeries.