sel - he/it

whitney chewston on pfp.

[chimera-dog]

im updating my introduction 🥏🐕

im sel, i use he/it pronouns and a bunch of neopronouns, im an agender trans man, i support non harmful identities/good faith identities and contradictory labels (i am crit-inclus), im a xenogender, neopronoun, furry fandom, therian/alterhuman and disabled user, i am mexican and i live here/have been always living in mexico (i speak spanish/español and english/inglés), i have a complex diagnostic (did, ocd, bpd, autism, adhd, psychosis, c-ptsd, depression and anxiety) and no tolerance for mocking or fakeclaiming, my psychiatrists know more than you fellow user, i support self-diagnosis after research and i again, wont tolerate any harassment towards people, also, as a traumagenic system, i will support every system, regardless of origin, its a cruel world for systems, so why make it harder.

queerness is a spectrum, there isnt a right or wrong way to be queer, stop telling people how to identify, we are here for each other, let ourselves be fluid and be free, we are here and we are queer 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

dont interact with me if youre a proshipper or any other similar term, also if you support or are p3do/z0o, pro-contact/neutral-contact/complex contact (i am okay with paraphilias as long as they are consensual between everyone involved, i am pro para, pro recovery and anti contact, i am not here to judge you), anti-recovery, anti sfw agere or petre, makes fun of other people, if you demonize all kinks (not all kinks are bad/harmful) or think that people with kinks should be ashamed (i am pro kink), transphobic, terf, radfem, transmed, truscum, homophobic, racist, antisemitic, ableist, right-wing, doesnt believe in non-binary identities, talks over minorities, anti xenogender/neopronouns, aphobic/anti aspec, radqueer, prat, safequeer, transrace, transabled, transid, anti alterhuman/therian/kin, syscourse (i will support you regardless of the system origin), hates furries or sees the community as gross, makes fun/mocks of species dysphoria, takes transandrophobia as a joke or as if its fake, anti mogai/liom, anti non harmful identities, anti contradictory labels, anti neopronouns.

my blog is sfw and while i may follow very few nsfw accounts i will never interact nor post about them (because this blog is supposed to be 16+), still, dont be weird with me, please.

thanks 🐕❗- sel

[etherealspacejelly]

local autistic person realises that in order to discover new music they have to listen to new music: 4 dead 26 injured

[notyourtoday]

[2spirit-1spoon]

Don't buy the new iphone or any phone if yours works fine

No apple tablets or pcs if yours works fine

If you need one, get a refurbished one

Boycott Teslas

Boycott Vapes

All these things contain resources being illegally and violently mined from Congo.

[kpopgirlbtssvt]

✨️when u get this u have to put 5 songs u actually listen to, publish. Then, send this ask to 10 of your favorite followers (non-negotiable, positivity is cool)🎶✨️

1. “World of Your Own” Wonka 2023

2. “Drama” by Aespa

3. “Permission to Dance” by BTS

4. “Feather” by Sabrina Carpenter

5. “Super Shy” by NewJeans

What about you? @beautifulfigment

No pressure tags:

@wallwriterstuff @gh0stsp1d34r @thebearer @little-miss-dilf-lover @bunniesbearsandhobbitadventures @sunflowersteves @mrsmaeharrington

[bunniesbearsandadventures]

Aww dude thanks for the tag!

1. "Juliet" by cavetown

2. "Money" by The Drums

3. "Lesbian Ponies" by Vylet Pony

4. "Breezeblocks" by alt-J

5. "Mary On A Cross" by Ghost

And of course no pressure tags:

@swerveable @evenstaredits @xxsircharlesxx @possibly-in-wonderland @capynul @meryl-melys @foxxy-126 @mossthebogwitch @jade-argetlam @fizzyxcustard

[swerveable]

YIPPEE tag game!!! Thanks for tagging me!

1. "Cover Me in Roses" by Holden Laurence

2. "Lover, You Should've Come Over" by Jeff Buckley

3. "Life" by Marc Streitenfeld

4. "Flying With Mother" by John Powell

5. "Les Fleurs" by Minnie Ripperton

No Pressure tags:

@mushed-kid @green-t-ea @drelldreams @dimmeddown @cutie4560 @wingwaver @plutonace @gaming-sunset @maskleo @theotakujemini

[maskleo]

Jajshdsh tag game yayayayayy (ty for tagging me :])

1. "Warrior" by Aurora

2. "The Moss" by Cosmo Sheldroke

3. "Wet Mulch" by Equipment

4. "The android hell blues" by Harry101UK feat. the Stupendium

5. "Sway" by Michael Bublé

No pressure tags (randomly choosen cuz i don't talk with anyone here- :

@justascuggy @marbling77 @cursedthing @uncannycryptic @creeping-ghost @jdcyt @threeracoonsinasweater @matty-hatter @funkerlucker

[reminder for yall, you don't have to do this unless you want to :>]

[jdcyt]

Wow I got tagged??? Real???

1. “Hell of a Ride” - Bo Burnham

2. “No Strings Attached” - No Strings Attached

3. “New Jeans” - NewJeans

4. “The Water’s Fine!” - Liana Flores

5. “Hey Kids” - Molina

@lotusthegreatdragon @chaosaliien @totally-stoked @mushroomfusion245 @certified-trinket @space-writer @grimlyisgone @callsign-acid @txttabloid @wildfire153

[pencilgutz]

Woah I was mentioned my music taste is wild lmao

"Candy store" - Heathers

2. "Mixed Messages" - Tom Cardy

3. "Nothing's new" - Rio Romeo

4. "spy?" - WHOKILLEDXIX

5. "It's only sex" - Car Seat Headrest

@carltherotisserie @hiddenlemons80 @lotusthegreatdragondragon @kekeartzworld @gaywatermelonbread @trifluoperazine. @parrythisucasual @nostalgic-woodwind @pixxo-is-a-pancake @the-plushcat-duo

[kenzie-quinn123-deactivated2026]

Thanks for the tag @callsign-acid

1.) Army of One - Coldplay

2.) I Could Be The One - Avicii and Nicky Romero

3.) CRYSTALS - PR1SVX

4.) Red (Taylor’s Version) - Taylor Swift

5.) Better Place - *NSYNC

@itsjulesdude @choppedhologramdreamer @jester-jpeg @mothkids-funky-art @springtimefrog @chillwildwave @midnighmoonligh @wolfy-star1401 @cheesemilk426394 @happinessismagicc

[mothkids-funky-art]

Eep! I feel honored I've been tagged in one of these! Thanks woodwind! :]

For me I'd say:

1.) Shee An Gannon (The Craic)

2.) Tim, I wish you were born a girl (Of Montreal)

3.) Art is Dead (Bo Burnham)

4.) Juno (Cavetown)

5.) Float On (Modest Mouse)

I'll pass the gauntlet to:

@odettemylove @darkvveb @gaiaovo @chaoticsnowykiddo @jamielikesartz @rays-tiny-space @pebblesblog @boobeleh @zeroskiesart @ace-of-snails453 @chimera-dog

[chimera-dog]

omggg this is so cool

1. status (machine girl)

2. paycheck 2 paycheck (hot freaks)

3. sweet tooth (destroy boys)

4. a fools expedition (the garden)

5. cant cool me down (car seat headrest)

sorry for the late reply :]

im passing the tag game to @ix-c-999 and @cheesecake-the-chicken

sorry if theres not a lot of tags!! they are the ppl that i see the most <3

[chaiaurchaandni]

does throwing a stone at a tank

make a child a terrorist?

is terrorism about resisting oppression? is terrorism about demanding your birthright to live safely and peacefully in your homeland? is terrorism about hating the killers of your family, your friends and your people?

accusations of terrorism are often weaponized against those fighting for liberation and sovereignty and dignity. the french settlers called the algerians terrorists. the indian government calls the kashmiris terrorists. the pakistani army calls pashtun activists terrorists. the turkish government calls the kurds terrorists. apartheid south africa called nelson mandela a terrorist. americans called the vietcong and the black panthers terrorists. the israelis call the palestinians terrorists. all oppressive regimes are connected. all oppressed people are connected. injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere.

[fairuzfan]

A little girl died from hunger in Khan Younis, southern Gaza, despite being in the area where aid trucks are distributed. Another family in the north in Gaza city was forced to eat a donkey, which for many in Palestine is inconceivable culturally. Bisan says there isn't even water (clean OR dirty) for them to drink or wash with.

[tamarrud]

will never forget the parents who lost all 8 of their kids saying "they slept hungry, we were trying to get them a piece of bread but they were killed"

we are witnessing a population run out of food. WFP said a few days ago that half of the population are starving, nine out of 10 are not eating every day.

[gorillawithautism]

keep in mind that not having enough food, even when you're not literally starving to death, makes your body heal slower so all these people (who have all sorts of wounds from the bombing and everything else) are all physically healing much more slowly than they would be if they had any food to eat. it also causes you to have difficulty regulating body temperature which means that these people (who had to leave their homes with no winter clothes to speak of) are much more susceptible to the cold than they would be if they just had food.

the current problems every gazan is facing right now all exacerbate each other.

[depsidase]

[ohara-n-brown]

As a late diagnosed autist I will say one of the most damaging but transformative experiences I've ever had was being misdiagnosed with BPD.

Everyday my heart goes out to people with BPD.

The amount of stigma and silencing they face is astonishing and sickening.

I took DBT for years. Therapists use to turn me away because of my diagnosis.

I would be having full blown autistic meltdowns, crying for help literally - but because I was labeled as BPD ANY time I cried I was treated as manipulative and unstable.

As if the only reason I could be crying was if I was out to trick someone.

95% of the books out there with Borderline in the title are named shit like 'How to get away from a person with Borderline', 'How to stop walking on eggshells (with a person who has BPD)'

I was never allowed to feel true pain or panic or need.

That was 'attention seeking behavior', not me asking for help when a disability was literally inhibiting my ability to process emotions.

There were dozens of times where I had a full meltdown and was either threatened with institutionalization or told I was doing it for attention.

My failing relationships weren't due to a communication issue, or the inability to read social cues. No, because I was labeled borderline, my unstable relationships were my fault. Me beggong nuerotypicals to just be honest and blunt with what they meant was me pestering them for validation.

Borderline patients can't win.

And the funny thing is - I asked my therapist about autism. I told her I thought I was on the spectrum.

BPD is WILDLY misdiagnosed with those with autism and I had many clear signs.

Instead - she told me 'If you were autistic we wouldn't be able to have this conversation'. She made me go through a list of autistic traits made clearly for children, citing how I didn't fit each one.

And then she told me that me identifying with the autism community was the BPD making me search for identity to be accepted - and that I wasn't autistic, just desperate to fit in somewhere.

I didn't get diagnosed for another ten years. For ten years I avoided the autism community - feeling as if I were just a broken person who wanted to steal from people who 'really needed it'.

Because of my providers - I began to doubt my identity MORE, not less.

Ten years of thinking I was borderline and being emotionally neglected and demonized by a system meant to help me.

To this day, I still don't trust neurotypicals. Not fully.

I know I'm not borderline now - but my heart aches for them. Not for the usual stuff. But for the stigma. And the asshole doctors. And the dismissiveness and threatening and the idea of institutionalization hanging over their head.

I love Borderline people. I always will. I'm not Borderline but if you are I love you and I'm sorry.

You're not a bad person. You're not a therapists worst nightmare, you are a human with valid feelings and fears.

Borderline people I'm sorry.

[ohara-n-brown]

As a late diagnosed autist I will say one of the most damaging but transformative experiences I've ever had was being misdiagnosed with BPD.

Everyday my heart goes out to people with BPD.

The amount of stigma and silencing they face is astonishing and sickening.

I took DBT for years. Therapists use to turn me away because of my diagnosis.

I would be having full blown autistic meltdowns, crying for help literally - but because I was labeled as BPD ANY time I cried I was treated as manipulative and unstable.

As if the only reason I could be crying was if I was out to trick someone.

95% of the books out there with Borderline in the title are named shit like 'How to get away from a person with Borderline', 'How to stop walking on eggshells (with a person who has BPD)'

I was never allowed to feel true pain or panic or need.

That was 'attention seeking behavior', not me asking for help when a disability was literally inhibiting my ability to process emotions.

There were dozens of times where I had a full meltdown and was either threatened with institutionalization or told I was doing it for attention.

My failing relationships weren't due to a communication issue, or the inability to read social cues. No, because I was labeled borderline, my unstable relationships were my fault. Me beggong nuerotypicals to just be honest and blunt with what they meant was me pestering them for validation.

Borderline patients can't win.

And the funny thing is - I asked my therapist about autism. I told her I thought I was on the spectrum.

BPD is WILDLY misdiagnosed with those with autism and I had many clear signs.

Instead - she told me 'If you were autistic we wouldn't be able to have this conversation'. She made me go through a list of autistic traits made clearly for children, citing how I didn't fit each one.

And then she told me that me identifying with the autism community was the BPD making me search for identity to be accepted - and that I wasn't autistic, just desperate to fit in somewhere.

I didn't get diagnosed for another ten years. For ten years I avoided the autism community - feeling as if I were just a broken person who wanted to steal from people who 'really needed it'.

Because of my providers - I began to doubt my identity MORE, not less.

Ten years of thinking I was borderline and being emotionally neglected and demonized by a system meant to help me.

To this day, I still don't trust neurotypicals. Not fully.

I know I'm not borderline now - but my heart aches for them. Not for the usual stuff. But for the stigma. And the asshole doctors. And the dismissiveness and threatening and the idea of institutionalization hanging over their head.

I love Borderline people. I always will. I'm not Borderline but if you are I love you and I'm sorry.

You're not a bad person. You're not a therapists worst nightmare, you are a human with valid feelings and fears.

Borderline people I'm sorry.

[chimera-dog]

waking at 8am after sleeping at 4 am call me early bird because im not getting the worm

[youmegravity]

I need people to understand that sometimes autism is just this

[foxgirltail]

These also

[nativenews]

[werewolf-transgenderism]

I grant you refuge from hurt and suffering.

With words of sacred scripture I shield the oranges from the sting of phosphorous and the shades of cloud from the smog.

I grant you refuge in knowing that the dust will clear, and they who fell in love and died together will one day laugh.

“I Grant You Refuge” by Hiba Abu Nada (trans. Huda Fakhreddine)

[enki2]

[starspd]

people with personality disorders: it was difficult to survive on the ground, so i climbed in a tree and now im stuck and can’t get down

mental health workers (and everyone really): it seems that they climbed in trees to manipulate us. they are fully capable of getting down but doing so would make it harder to abuse us, so they stay there

[girlnephew]

[thundercaya]

[cathacker13-deactivated20250606]

I don't remember where I got this from, but I saw someone also do this with it

[fred-the-dinosaur]

I know it's ai but I'm secretly hoping it's an underpaid service rep having the time of their life on company time

[chimera-dog]

sometimes i wake up with a strong desire to eat something that could kill a kid from 1800

like tell me why i want to go to subway and put every ingredient and every sauce i can on a sub