idc if the strap fake, keep suckin!!!!!

he/him • tme • 21 mind the banner there's gay people touching here evil clone of nasty-little-freak

[help-me-yes]

yes... ha ha ha... yes!

[arcanobabble]

The absolute bottom line of "male socialisation" and the idea that trans women uniquely have to unlearn & atone for some innate connection to "AMAB" upbringing is, ultimately, the idea that being an oppressor is a facet of your identity and not the result of choices you consistently make. The end result of this thinking is, consciously or implicitly, believing that you do not have the same capacity to hurt and exploit others.

Men aren't misogynistic because they're men, they aren't misogynistic because they're uninformed or confused; like any privileged class, men are consistently offered means of leveraging oppression to their own benefit and they're rewarded for this more than anybody else. These aren't privileges given to """AMABs""", these are opportunities given to people who use them to uphold patriarchy & cisheteronormativity.

A trans woman, notably, is not going to be let into the Boy's Club because she has an M on her birth certificate.

If you believe that the average transfem needs to "unlearn male socialisation" or that she as a trans woman is probably more likely to be misogynistic, then the logical end result of that line of logic is that you consider yourself innately "safer" than others, less capable of wielding bigotry against someone.

Your oppressors are not marginalised woman who you frame as contaminated by the words of a doctor; they're people who are actively treating trans women like any other vulnerable class of women. When you decide that a group constantly targeted with vitriol and violence has to be kept at arms' length because of your own fear... That's you.

[redstonedust]

observing the project hail mary fanbase from a distance ive enjoyed the gradual shift on my dashboard from "its so nice to have a movie about friendship with no romantic subplots" to "okay so thats still true but also ryan gosling is fucking that rock puppet crazy style."

[maxschwartz]

I don’t know who I’m sending this to. But I think about you all the time. In the back of my mind. I know a lot about you. Does that mean you know about me, too? Or are you just glowing brightly in way that I don’t understand? Is anyone else seeing this? Do you get messages like this all the time? Are you aware of how much you loom in the heart of someone you haven’t met? What am I expecting; I don’t even know. This is really awkward. Sorry for doing this. It must really be hard. No, I can’t really know that. This is delusional of me. I’m going to make it stop, because if I don’t, I’m going to come to hate you, because I’m already so frustrated I’m nothing like you. I need to understand why I tear myself apart thinking of you. I’m not going to send this. I don’t know how to send this, and I hope you never read it.

Play HEAVEN WILL BE MINE on Steam or Itch.io now

[escuerzoresucitado]

[targetedknowledge]

[segamascott]

[cutecipher]

as a feminist i support recreational abortion

[cutecipher]

i have mixed feelings about competitive

[cutecipher]

*maddest ive ever been, eye twitching* thats baseless. its something else actually.

[antigonickpdf]

our longing for inconvenience by hanif abdurraqib (id in alt)

[antigonickpdf]

our longing for inconvenience by hanif abdurraqib (id in alt)

[deusben]

if my post has 0 likes, two specific mutuals of mine are dead

[2well2water]

no one cares that you shave your legs because of sensory issues shut the fuck up forever

[2well2water]

really galling amount of people misinterpreting this post so i'd like to clarify. i'm saying that when discussions about patriarchal beauty standards and the way women are heavily shamed and coerced into eschewing their own natural state of being (hairy) are occurring, it is unhelpful (AT BEST) to interrupt and say that the reason YOU remove the hair from your body is because of sensory issues. that's not what we're talking about. stop asking for validation for doing something that society at large wants you to do. stop derailing the conversation because you feel uncomfortable about being made aware that you, for whatever reason it is, adhere to harmful, unfair and ridiculous beauty standards. you're stepping into the middle of an important conversation that needs to be had and making it all about you. shut the fuck up forever.

[2well2water]

also quite frankly i think a lot less people would experience sensory issues if they let their hair grow out so that it isn't bristly and rough and irritating. and i cannot help but wonder why these sensory issues aren't as predominant in men. maybe you're uncomfortable with the hair on your body because you've been taught to be uncomfortable with it. just a thought.

[dancinsquid]

gaby

[laterkiss]

happy pride to my favourite post on reddit

[amazoogle]

tuesday status?

[cognitohazardous]

yup. its tuesday 👍

[amazoogle]

copy. tuesday confirmed ✅ engaging tuesday protocol

[capnsoapy]

people will have double-digit opinions on kink discourse and still manage to not know what BDSM stands for

[play-now-my-lord]

big dick super mario

[capnsoapy]

big dick super mario

[ot3]

a couple of people on that last post are like 'i had to stop when i reached the point where i didnt know what was going on' and i always legit forget that insane shit happening that the audience can't understand yet is gonna be a turnoff for a lot of people. i have a real "lets see where the dog is going with this one" ethos in how i approach media and it has been nothing but a boon. how do you ever expect to find something that really blows you away if you tap out as soon as you're in uncharted territory.