He/they/it/rei/rem outside of this blog, fine with she/her/rei/rem in reference to Aspheera specifically
As the name suggests, this is a cleanqueer/antiship account based of the character Aspheera from Ninjago (because I am biased and Egyptian like that)
The account is ran by mxxn
If you thought that there were too many antiship accs, think again!! There's never too much :))
Started because I'm pissed at *specific* people for romanticizing and glorifying the most vile disgusting shit.
This is coming from an ex-proshipper who was groomed into the community as a child and as a result became a CSAM, CSA and COCSA victim.
This is... if you would... revenge... /ref
All DNIs and other info about me are on my main acc
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Generally anti-harassment, but treat others the way you want to he treated. If you harass me, I will bite back; I am not afraid of going back and forth (Before eventually blocking for my sanity). Approach me with kindness, and I will be kind back.
Proshippers/darkshippers/radqueers DNI, HOWEVER.... if you genuinely do have a question about why its harmful and want to recover, you can reach out at anytime
This blog is dedicated to spreading awareness of the harms of proshipping/radqueer "communities" coming from someone who was in those said communities as a child
I hope every radqueer recovers, especially the minors in those communities
i have no empathy for any of you transrace people, you are ALL disgusting for seeing how POC suffer and then thinking “yeah I want to be that!” you are GROSS
As a goth Egyptian, I HATE HATE HATE that this is a symbol combo for necrophiles, this is straight appropriation
Like wym the eye of Horus is a symbol of raping dead people (ik there's a skull in the eye but I'm still very pissed DONT USE MY CULTURE'S SYMBOLS TO REPRESENT YOUR DISGUSTING ACTIONS)
I get why this could be upsetting, but a paraphilia does not mean you're going to act on it necessarily, and you are not the first victim of appropriation? I feel like an altered symbol is not that terrible, as the moment it becomes altered it no longer holds its original meaning, yes? Also I have legitimately never seen these symbols used for necrophiles...
Yes, Egyptian culture isn’t the first to be culturally appropriated, and it’s not the first time it’s been appropriated either, but my friend is still allowed to be upset. But where did my friend claim this was the first time this happened?
One thing my friend brought up is the Eye of Horus is proudly used by coptics. How do I know this? Because my friend is coptic, and they told me
They know necrophila (or any paraphilic disorder) doesn’t mean acting on the attraction, but with symbols like this, in this context mean being proud of acting on the attraction, aka acting on harmful behavior
And when I first saw the symbol, I didn’t see the skull until my friend pointed it out in their post. It’s such a small alteration that it practically looks like the regular eye. I assumed these people took the regular eye and “claimed” it as theirs
Hell, even as I’m writing this out, when I look at the symbol, I see the *normal* eye of Horus, not the appropriated version because of how small that alteration is
All that aside, using an Egyptian symbol for people proud of acting on their necrophilia is quite disgusting when you learn that victorians were eating mummies AND turning them into paint, which is a major disrespect to the dead and Egyptians and their culture
Just because *you* haven’t seen these symbols for necrophiles doesn’t mean they aren’t being used
This is one argument I haven’t really seen lol any fellow antis touch on, but the argument that everything should be banned (this is inspired by some comments I saw the other day)
Anti shipper: I was groomed by a proshipper through fiction that fetishized incest
Pro shipper: and I was groomed on youtube so should we ban youtube?
Another pro shipper: I was groomed through fucking toys, so we should ban EVERYTHING
Ik this is a slippery slope fallacy, but I do think this is something us anti-shippers should discuss because I’ve seen every other pro ship argument be debunked, and this one getting brushed off
(I’ve sent a screenshot of this ask to another blog)
Ive seen this argument be used before by the rqc and proshippers and its so stupid imo because YouTube and toys or whatever they claim groomed them are in nature innocent and what causes the grooming is the people who are pedophiles.... like the characters you portray in your fetish porn. Also, if something is the cause of you getting groomed, wouldn't you be upset that someone else fetishized your trauma?
A bit of a fun fact, but I’m attending classes to become an educator.
I owe it to my future students that I am a safe space from predators.
I owe it to my future students that I will not condone racist stereotypes in the classroom.
I owe it to my future students that their disabilities are not to be taken as a joke, because I am disabled myself.
I owe it to my future students, and their parents, that I will uphold any protections for the age of consent. That they will be kept under the care of someone who wishes to teach, not to harm.
I owe it to my future students who may confide their queerness to me, but may fear being ridiculed for being “beyond the norm” by their peers. To the children who may face whatever their equivalent of “oh so you’re an attack helicopter” insults, to know I will not allow hatred in the classroom.
I’m not just anti radqueer because it hurts me online. I’m anti radqueer because one day, I will be a teacher. And my students deserve to have a professor that will do whatever they can to make their world a better place.
In my personal opinion, blocklists usually are a bit pro-harrassment sometimes
so there are a few alternatives if seeking for one makes you uncomfortable bc you don't want to add to something that might encourage harrassing others:
- go to tumblr options and make It so only people you follow or people that follows can answer your posts and send you asks
- mute tags, all of Them, every single one of Them, even ones who might be typos just in case (don't only mute proship and radqueer, mute prship and raduqeer too, for example)
- at the sight of screenshots calling out someone, block the person being called out on the capture by going to your tumblr options and typing the username (by doing this you also avoid having to see their profile directly and be less likely to get triggered by sensitive content and you will feel less urge to reply or engage in arguments with them)
- If any radqueer/xenosatanist/darkship/terf user somehow filters even with those protections, block Them and DON'T REPLY YO THEM, its almost sure they will not change their mind after an argument on the comments of a post, your security comes first before trying to lecture anyone no Matter what
- If you can't Tell a person is a radlarp (aka a radnormal person acting as a radqueer just for satire without actually agreeing with radqueer ideals) check the tags of their posts, usually radnormals (and adyacent) still tag their posts as radnormal to make sure you realize is satire, If said tags aré not on their posts, block without interacting to avoid any discourse or fights
- this Is not Twitter, you are not "lesser" than anyone for blocking and muting users and using Tumblr's tools for privacy and security , even If one person posts something to "flex" how you blocked Them? That says much More about Them than you bc why would they see being such an annoyance to others to the point they block em?? Thats their problem, not yours, block Them guilt free
If anyone needs a More detailed tutorial on how to do any of these please comment and ill try to do It, i know these options are often a bit tricky because there hidden behind Some other options, tumblr might be a bit hard to understand bc not everyone is perfect and all knowing on technology and social media and thats okay.
I find this alternative to be nice, blocking tags especially is great, especially when it comes to triggering media that the RQC tends to post. Stay safe!!
"We radqueers are bus drivers, teachers, doctors.... s-so be careful Antis!!" Yeah but then you get arrested because you support/are pedophiles and zoophiles that carry cp on your computers ://
Its common sense to hate pedophiles and zoophiles, those are crimes that harm people. People including the person committing the acts.
As a goth Egyptian, I HATE HATE HATE that this is a symbol combo for necrophiles, this is straight appropriation
Like wym the eye of Horus is a symbol of raping dead people (ik there's a skull in the eye but I'm still very pissed DONT USE MY CULTURE'S SYMBOLS TO REPRESENT YOUR DISGUSTING ACTIONS)
As a former antishipper (now cleanqueer/moralqueer) I’m starting to realize that a lot of antis just want a free pass to say the most vile stuff about minors
Being an anti does not give ppl a pass to start slutshaming and victim blaming kids, the stuff I’ve seen is genuinely so awful
Like hello? We were all vulnerable minors once?? Like imagine saying that shit to your child self when you were going through your worst trauma tf
some people just want an excuse to have a lolcow they can bully without being “problematic”
Like just say you don’t actually care about preventing people from being hurt and just want to make fun of people bc it makes you feel cool atp ✌️
Do rqs know there actively harming the lgbtq+ like I've seen so many people think rqs are actively apart of the community and shame them for it when it's the rqs forcing themselves into the space when they know they got rejected from the start😭😭😭😭 I just wanna know you're opinion on this g.o.a.t-🌈🎉
Radqueers are literally the strawmen that queerphobes think all queer people are.
this hurts the community because rqs insist that they are queer, therefore reinforcing the stereotypes against queer people.
Normally all this shit queerphobes say is false- that we’re predators or pedophiles and stuff like that. If queers were all of those things, then it would be justified (because that’s obviously bad) but they’re not true. Radqueers however, are those things. They are quite literally the queer community if it was how queerphobes think it is. First of all, that it’s a choice, and second of all, that it’s a predator ring that is grooming kids.
In reality, queers are just normal people. Radqueers are not, but they are trying to convince people that they are queers, and therefore, that queers are not normal people.
What's up with ao3 users/proshippers using POC struggles as a defensive shield
"Antis using ao3 are colonizors"
"ACAB also means moral police"
"allowing people writing porn of REAL children protected journalists write about palestine"
"antiship is rooted in white supremarcy"
This are actual takes made by REAL people
Like omfg you aren't oppressed because you got called weird for liking incest/rape/pedophilia. People using ao3 despite being critical of it isn't the same as genocide and mass rape. People saying that romantizing pedophilia is wrong isn't the same as cops killing black people.
It's so fucking annoying when they do that, not just because it's stupid and racist, but also they don't give a fuck about poc.
They only care about palestine and cenorship when it comes to their fanfics. I never seen a proshipper talking about cenorship of books that talk about racism/written by black people because they cannot jerk off to that.
And don't get me start on how they silence Black people talking about racism on ao3. "Don't like, don't read!" is kinda hard when ao3 users don't when they're racist. "Be change you want to see" or some shit because GOD FORBID Black person wants to read without writing.
Actually being diagnosed with a disorder shouldn't be something seen as a quirk to have. You cannot be "trans disabled" or "endogenic" because that implies its a choice to have a disorder. Its not. You don't have to have a disability. Its ok (and much rather prefered) to not have a disability, but the ones with said disability can't help but have it
again, really don’t understand the comparison of ships with slightly toxic, often barely even abusive dynamics in comparison to the label that literally means “illegal ships” (yes I’ve had darkshippers themselves tell me it means “illegal ships” as well)
Like they used bakudeku. These characters are the same age, Bakugo is just mean to him lol. He told him to commit suicide at the start of the series but they clearly got closer and less hostile later on in the show. The fandom’s version of Bakudeku sucks but it’s not a darkship??? And similar cases for the other characters.
"Oh you dont like my adult x minor ship? W-well, you cant ship a bully and the person he's bullying despite them being friends before and after the bullying phase!!"
"You dont like my domestic abuse ship with an obvious power gap that i sexualize and romanticize? You cant ship these 2 characters that hate each other with equal power dynamics to each other!! They're the same!!"
Are they hearing themselves??? They dont understand power dynamics
The rqc put 'trans' onto everything that should be 'normal' just for them to appeal to pedophiles. 'Transage'? Thats called a birthday or age regression. 'Transspecies'? Therian, otherkin. 'Transabled'? Gaining an actual disability or disorder in life is a thing that happens, you dont gotta be 'trans' for that. All youre doing is fueling the actual transphobia trans people face by using the term 'trans' as a quirky joke. Especially the transage thing... that's just disgusting if youre an adult that thinks theyre forever a kid. Age isn't a social construct the way gender is... neither is being able bodied vs disabled, neither is being a Nazi???? Wtf is transNazi?????? Why are you proud of that?????? No better than Republicans, being a Nazi ("trans" or not) isn't a flex!!!