Survivor

Hello, My name is Anne. I was raped in college, and I went to my school for help and after that didn't work, I ended up filing a Title IX complaint. Now my school is one of hundreds being investigated by the department of education for possible title IX violations. I made this account to share my story and to hear stories from other survivors. They/them #ibelieveyou #rapesurvivor #survivor

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Abusers and rapists still need to be held accountable

This should go without saying but there are still people who don’t get it.

Credit to selfcarehaven on Twitter

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If you enable abusers then you have become an abuser yourself

Anyone who says it’s not their business to an abuse survivor proves that they never really cared about them in the first place.

Credit to MethSoup on Twitter

[collegerapesurvivor]

This, because some shit has gone down recently and if you still support someones abuser or refuse to hold them accountable then you are a TRASH HUMAN

[collegerapesurvivor]

I’m back

There has been a lot going on but I am back now. 

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Its been a while

but I am back and as triggered as ever. I feel horrible because I have been struggling lately because of everything going on. 

Bill Cosby is a horrible human and deserves to be in prison and now look

Reasons I didn’t get a rape kit

I wasn’t going to be believe and this goes to show survivors aren’t believed. 

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My “anniversary”just passed about a month ago

There is not one part of my bodh he touched. Im doing better. I still live with PTSD. Dissociative episodes. Anxiety. panic attacks. Avoidance. Flash backs. That never seems to go away. Trauma sucks.

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“Don’t tell her how to dress, Tell him not to rape”

Seen in Kreuzberg, Berlin, March 2019

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RAPE CULTURE RANT

Back in the day, I was sexually assaulted in a college dorm room while I was completely unconscious. I woke up, not even knowing that I was sexually assaulted and I did not find out until about two months later because I miscarried a child that I didn’t know I had since I thought I DID NOT HAVE SEX DURING THOSE TWO MONTHS.

I confronted him because I knew it was sexual assault, but he was so manipulative that he lead to me to believe that it was completely consensual and that we loved each other.

I did not have the chance to report the incident because I knew it wouldn’t have gone anywhere because I found out two months too late so there was no proof, and I continued to date him for another month because I was completely brainwashed.

During health class shortly after, we had a BIG lesson on sexual assault and they taught us the three main rules of consent which were voluntary, verbal, and sober. It finally hit me that you might be in love with the person, but that doesn’t matter if they RAPED you. They did not have “drunk sex” with your unconscious body. They RAPED your unconscious body.

The other night, I was with a boy I have been seeing for about a month now and he knows that I have been sexually assaulted before. Since I’m a legal studies major, I like to talk about politics a lot, and Kavanaugh is the talk of the town right now. I thought this wouldn’t be a bad topic because he knows what I’ve been though… APPARENTLY HE DIDN’T CARE.

He proceeded to say that “the woman who came forward had no right to do so since it has been so long, and if it was such a problem, she should’ve reported it then instead of ruining his life later on. Someone should not be held to their mistakes forever”.

I burst into tears damn near immediately since he knew DAMN GOOD AND WELL I didn’t report my incident. But if the boy who RAPED me was about to be in a position of power on the SUPREME FUCKING COURT OF THE UNITED STATES, you bet your ass I would be telling people right then and there! I also believe that rape is not a mistake. It is a conscious act that you make. You can absolutely regret raping someone for the rest of you life like you would any other mistake, but you should pay for the actions of sexual assault. Just because you got away with it while you were fifteen, doesn’t mean that you can avoid it for the rest of your life. You broke the person you assaulted mentally, physically, and emotionally while NOTHING happens to you. What about the victims? What about US?

We go through PTSD and clinical depression after. We can’t trust anyone for a while after and sex is not the same for a long time. I still cry in the middle of sex for no reason sometimes and it has been THREE YEARS. How come I am stuck with all these new found psychological issues while my attacker is not affected in the slightest? How is it fair that his life is fine and my life fell apart?

Kavanaugh potentially being on the Supreme Court is not easy to watch for people who have been sexually assaulted. Trump being elected president hasn’t been easy to watch for people who have been sexually assaulted. By electing this man and confirming the other, everyone is basically saying a big “fuck you” to the victims of sexual assault. We are sitting here blaming ourselves for what happened and watching our attackers live their lives like nothing happened.

The woman who was sexually grabbed by Trump? She had to watch him become president. Or how about Paula Jones? The woman who rejected Clinton’s unwanted sexual advances toward her and almost lost her job over it? She also had to watch him stay in his position of power as president. The WOMEN who have stepped forward about Kavanaugh? Might have to watch him sit on the Supreme Court. My attacker? Now has a family and a baby.

What is currently happening in politics at this moment is hard for ANYONE who has ever been sexually assaulted, both men and women. IT IS EXCRUCIATING AND MENTALLY DRAINING. My depression and anxiety has gotten worse just from seeing the Kavanaugh confirmation continue to happen.

Yes, the Kavanaugh nomination has nothing to do with me, but at the same time is has EVERYTHING to do with me. It has EVERYTHING to do with ANYONE who has ever been victimized.

Long story short, I am no longer seeing the person I’ve been dating for a month because I don’t need a man who thinks that someone doesn’t deserve to be punished for sexually assaulting someone just because they didn’t get caught.

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[collegerapesurvivor]

Hey guys! So ive been following this tumblr for a while now. They do a lot of good work.

They support survivors. They just recently became a non profit organization. Please consider donating to them to help their organization continue so rhey can continue to support survivors.

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Hey everyone

Go follow @warriorsbybtfp and @weareemilydoe!

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Supreme Court refuses to hear defamation lawsuit against Bill Cosby by one of his accusers

The Supreme Court refused Tuesday to hear a defamation lawsuit against Bill Cosby by one of his many accusers.

Kathrine Mae McKee contends that Cosby’s attorney at the time, famed Hollywood lawyer Martin Singer, defamed her in a letter and press release in December 2014 after she joined the litany of women recounting alleged instances of rape and assault at the hands of the renowned entertainer once known as “America’s Dad.”

McKee, a casting director, came forward to say she was raped by Cosby, a friend of eight years, in 1974 in his Detroit hotel room when she arrived to pick him up to take him to a yacht party.

Singer responded by calling her a liar in a letter to the New York Daily News, but two lower federal courts concluded that didn’t rise to the level of defamation because McKee had become a “limited purpose public figure.”

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We believe Katherine

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spilling ALL the tea☕️👏🏾

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interesting that ellen page gets a bunch of hate for calling out the anti-gay rhetoric and practices of the hillsong church, but people rush to support chris pratt and his weak statement about how the church is “totally open to everyone” because they apparently helped him through his divorce

interesting that chris evans is about two seconds from punching donald trump on twitter everyday and gets praised for it, meanwhile brie larson is similarly political and speaks out about sexual assault and inclusion in hollywood – and gets branded as an “sjw” who’s going to “turn people away” from her upcoming movie

interesting

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Y'all know why

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Some men be like “you can’t walk around like this and expect us to not sexual harass/rape you.”

Like, it’s not about self controlling and deserving a medal for not harassing/raping someone. If you do things like that you’re an asshole, it’s as simple as that.

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Lemme Say Something Abt this R.Kelly Shit real quick

I don’t support him or his music, he’s fucking gross. And how DARE y’all allow this mf to get off what he’s been getting away with for years??

And PLEASE don’t come to me protecting him/or Cosby for being rapists by bringing up their white counterparts who have done the same, or worse. I’m not here, there or anywhere in the vicinity for it.

First and foremost, we certainly DO need African Americans(especially men) to look up to. But accepting such a HUGE and HARMFUL shortcoming just for the sake of wanting to call him(or Cosby)an icon or a “representation” of someone who we should idolize is ridiculous. If wrong is wrong, call it what it is. It’s inexcusable.Also, if you want to discuss those who are not of our melanin getting away with murder, i get your frustration. But we’re NOT going to talk abt what’s wrong in the black community and then derail those same ideals by using what other cultures and ethnicities are doing and what they’re getting away with. You want our ppl to be accountable? Then lets be accountable. Is it a conspiracy against blacks? In part, yes. But the other part is us recognizing what’s wrong and doing something abt it.