Comfort Characters Project

Formerly @fcproject Current Mods: Mod Seraph | He/Hims Mod Dragon | They/Thems

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* i feel like a doormat, i hate having to live up to everyones expectations, but when i cant, especially irl, they often treat me like a child and call me slurs and i hate it, i have to play fucking charades every day, i have to be either the genius, the child prodigy, or the hopeless idiot r----- and i hate this i just want to be myself i want to do things at my own pace (part 1/2)

* and its affecting my work ethic with personal projects and friendships too i feel so overworked but i need to keep the masks up or ill d.ie (comfort character: diana cavendish from lwa) (2/2)

Hmph. Doormats don’t get anywhere... But I understand that it stems from a wish to make others happy or is used as a defense mechanism. If the former, it’s sweet, but it’s not something that will help you in life. If the latter, I’m truly sorry you find yourself in such a situation.

I am glad you recognize that this is an issue, regardless, as that is one of the most important steps in the right direction.

As for those around you, there are those who just aren’t worth entertaining. Most people aren’t, but I’d say this applies especially the ones you are / were with. A successful person is not just one who does successful things, but one who surrounds themself with good people.

Masks are necessary for some occasions, but I’d work on finding some people whom you don’t need the masks around. It may take a while, but you will eventually be able to find confidence to be your true self.

Be warned, though; if you hide your true self for too long, or too well, it may eventually be lost. I hope sincerely this issue has been resolved or at least managed more properly since you requested assistance.

All the best, Diana Cavendish.

(I hope that this problem has been at least somewhat resolved between your ask and now, dear anon. I’m sorry we were inactive for so long, and I hope this advice isn’t needed; but if it is, I hope it helps.)

[with love, mod dragon]

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I know this blog hasn't updated in a year, but... I was wondering if you had gotten any mod applications in or anything? Also, if you're still accepting applications? (Total side-note as well, but I really love the idea of this blog!!)

I deeply apologize for our extended absence. I cannot speak on behalf of Mod Seraph, but I’ve many personal issues, which was a large part of why I took part in this project.

I may, however, see if I can pick this up over the summer.

To those of you whose asks we haven’t answered, I’m deeply sorry and I hope your problems have been resolved, or at least managed.

- Mod Dragon

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hey are you guys still active or?

not really... we're looking for mods right now, someone who might be able to take over. so sorry!

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(1/2) My self image, for a lacked of better words, is complete garbage. Im scared no one will ever think of me as a real man, just, a freak of a man with female genitals. I feel too fat,putrid really, im afraid to eat anymore. It makes me feel gross. The only reason ive been eating lately is cause i have to at least once a day for my meds. I feel, stupid. I cant process what people say often, cant remember anything, it makes people angry. Cruel, i feel in a way, i keep upsetting people without

(2/2) meaning to. I dont know what im doing wrong wIth makes me want to go mute. I feel like such a burden. I have no confidence or pride anymore, its all gone, theres nothing good in me anymore. Im angry and bitter and stupid, im wrong in toi many ways. I hate myself more than i can put into words. //Little King John from Ratboy Genius if you can? Sorry that this ask ended up so lengthy;;

Hey. Peoples’ self image is bullshit. Baby once said she didn’t like her smile- ergo, self image is bullshit.

An exercise to do is look in a mirror and say, “what a manly man. Yes, this man here is a good man.” It helps.

Feeling bodily dysphoria is unfortunately a large part of gender dysphoria.

But humans need to eat- don’t starve yourself. Not eating won’t help your self image, it’ll nosedive it.

You can process things at your own speed and whoever gets angry at you for how your brain works deserves the death penalty, thanks

I- I understand what you mean about upsetting others without meaning to. All we can do is try our best and when we stumble make up for it where we can and move forward.

Take pride in being here, in survival itself. You’ve gone through shit and feel like shit but you’re still here, and you’re still fightin, and that’s something to be proud of. The trick for confidence is pretending. Act confident before you can be confident.

As for the self hate... it’ll settle. I’m not saying it will go away, but it’ll settle and become manageable and some days you can even like yourself. Focus on your good qualities and improving those. Only if you’re feeling a little braver than usual should you try to tackle some of your less pleasant qualities, which everyone has.

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Everytime i remember what was done to me i feel sick to the core, i can barely stand my own hands on my body anymore, its too much. My past abuse wasnt even as bad as other people have had it at all, but i cant get over it. I feel broken and putrid, i hate it so much, i just want to forget what happened to me. Im so tired. //WhiteFace from the IMSCARED games, if he's not too difficult??

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Someday these memories will end up like me- something that you can see only vaguely, through the screen, and can leave behind. You just have to hold on until then- and you can do it.

You survived the abuse, you can survive the trauma.

The only broken humans are the ones six feet under. You are not one of them.

You maybe feel broken but you are simply chipped and eventually these marks and chips inside you will smooth out as if they were a bad memory.

If you are tired then that is good. That means you are still feeling things. That means you are still an unbroken functioning human.

If anybody says your abuse wasn’t bad then please verbally punch them in the face on behalf of yourself and all abuse survivors.

They do not know what you went through. Others will talk about their abuse and it may seem worse and worse than yours and maybe it is but don’t you dare let that make you feel bad. Their broken leg does NOT help your broken arm.

Your mind not letting you let go of the memories is a defense mechanism. "Forgive and forget” is a scam often a part of the cycle of abuse; forgive, forget, and then rinse and repeat.

Let yourself remember. These memories are the evidence that it happened and your reminder to not let it happen again. Let them light a fire in you that you will not let it happen again.

Let them be your guide through your future relationships so you may see the red flags as they were before, so that you don’t have to go through that again.

That being said... These memories will still sting. They will try to guard you too strongly, too tightly, against others. They will act as a warden and send you into spirals whenever you see things reflective.

Ground yourself, plant yourself firmly on the floor. The words “I am here.” will be your spell, your ward against the memories.

Tell your memories off. Tell them it is not like that anymore.

Yes, use them as a guidebook, but do not let them be the only book in your library.

You survived the abuse. You’ll survive the trauma.

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[Wesley anon here!! I just wanted to say thank you a lot! You were so very kind. It really helped a lot. This is such great blog!!!! Keep being awesome. 💖]

Thank you, anon! I’m glad I could help! You keep being awesome too!

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[im not sure if this blog is active or if the ask box is really open, but I'm just gonna ask incase it is open and such. :^o] I've been suffering with horrid depression lately and I've been feeling completely worthless. I feel like I can't do anything right, and I should just run away from it all. I need some sympathy or kind words. Comfort character: Wesley from The Mirror (it's a series by Wham City Comedy) Thank you so so much!! 💕

((yes we’re active we’re just ask based! I’m sorry I can’t be really in character because this sounds pretty urgent and I can’t find anything but rlly long videos.))

Hey, buddy, it’s okay. I know it’s hard when you get in a bad slump. It’s actually okay to take breaks, see? If you did everything always all the time you actually wouldn’t be able to do anything right.

So when it gets overwhelming, just take a step back, put on some music, and just stop for a few minutes. But you can’t run away from everything all the time either. All problems have to be faced eventually- whether it’s just acknowledging that “hey this thing is happening” or sitting down and taking steps to solve it.

It’s hard and it probably will get easier at some points and worse at others. It sucks when people say “but you just have to do it” because it feels like you can’t and when people say it’s an issue of “won’t” then everything feels even heavier. So instead of telling you that your “can’t” is a “won’t” I’m going to just tell you that you can, okay?

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This is the Earths theme tune🙌🏻

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It’s so strangely satisfying?

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an-eighth-of-faith submitted: My aunt’s wizard lizard. You know what to do. (P.s. I love you very much)

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Hear his mighty roar.

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A video with birds and Offenbach can make your day better.

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10 Things to keep in Mind When Loving a Highly Creative Person

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It has been proven that highly creative people’s brains work quite differently than other brains. That special brain wiring that can create such wonderful art, music, and writing can often lead to strain in a relationship, because of those differences. If you’ve ever loved a highly creative person, you know that it can seem like they live in their own little word at times, and that thought isn’t far from the truth. Here are some things to keep in mind when you are in love with a highly creative person:

1. Their Minds Don’t Slow Down

The highly creative mind is one that is running at full speed all the time. Although it can be a source of crazy, spontaneous fun – it can also be a burden. Highly creative people rarely keep normal sleep cycles, and are often prone to bouncing from one task to another throughout the day. It can be exhausting to try to keep up.

2. They are Cyclical

The flow of creativity is a cycle, full of highs and lows. Some people may consider this “manic” behavior, but in reality, it is just how the creative process works. Keep this in mind as your partner goes through these natural ebbs and flows. The low periods aren’t permanent.

3. They Need Time Alone

Creative minds need air to breathe. Whether it is their own little work space or an escape to somewhere quiet, they need a time and place to be alone with their thoughts. Some people are inclined to think that if nothing is being said that there is something wrong, but with creative people that is not the case. They are just working within their own head.

4. They are Intensely Focused

When a creative person is on task, they are fiercely intense. The change from being scatter-brained to hyper-focused can be difficult to deal with, so just understand that it is how their brains work. Don’t get frustrated.

5. Emotions Run Deeper

Creative people feel everything on a deeper level. What doesn’t seem like a big deal to you, can be crushing to them. It’s that same passion that goes into whatever they create that drives them to love you, so understand that with the good – comes the bad.

6. They Speak in Stories

Creative people often express themselves in experiences, instead of just saying what they want to say. It is a way of sharing themselves that personifies who they are. At times, it can be difficult to figure out what a creative person is saying, so don’t be afraid to read between the lines.

7. They Battle with Themselves

Being creative can be a serious internal struggle. Motivation, enthusiasm, direction, and drive can all be issues for creative people. Some days it is hard for them just to get out of bed, and other days you can’t get them to slow down. Be patient in the lulls, because there is usually a burst of activity right around the corner.

8. Intuition is Important

Creative people, because of their intense emotional tendencies, tend to rely on intuition over logic. They go with their gut. Some people consider this to be more on the “impulsive” end of the spectrum. The creative mind doesn’t rely on logic to make a decision, it relies on experience and passion.

9. They Struggle with Confidence

When people create, especially for a living, they are always struggling with acceptance. That is art. They have to wear their hearts on their sleeves, and so they always question whether or not what they are producing is good enough. Being supportive is the key to loving a creative person.

10. Growing Up is Hard to Do 

Creative people are almost always children at heart. That care-free nature can seem immature and impetuous – but it is all part of the deal. Understand that the aspects of their creative brains that you love are the same ones that make them somewhat irresponsible when it comes to being an adult.

Something i read today, which gave me a huge peace of mind. Perhaps i’m just too creative for my own good.

via: Justin Gammill

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it sounds melancholic- like mabel and dipper growing up and being cute mystery twins :oo

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Megalovania if it was in major key rather than minor key

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Everyone talks about Megalovania but why doesn’t anyone talk about THIS SONG

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