Fifth Letters.
Trid. In the morning, 7.30 am I learned about Love. Radit gave me 1 theory and i have a new point of view about love. They have been survey, most women are afraid to start. Ya.. The basic theory from Bible, Love frame. Before you ask "When" You have a partner of life, you need to make your love frame first. The points are :
1. Definition. You need to define your situation like define the dating, define marriage, or whatever. This definition will determine your attention to your relationship.
2. Position. You need to specify about your position, whether you are someone who needs help because you have been hurt by an ex or a lonely man or someone who fears God or something else. The position will determine your action to your partner.
3. Heart. Do not lie to your heart, listen and feel it. This one is tricky. Sometimes we lie to our heart about relationship. There are those who feel they actually don't get along with partner but they believe that is a gift from God, is not like that. It's tricky right. Don't fool yourself. If it doesn't match, it means not in one frame. I remembered someone said to me find your partner with same vision and mission in life. The heart will determine your decision.
4. Destination. You know where the relationship will lead. Whether towards marriage or what.
There 4s basic to re-think before you always ask "When do i have a boyfriend/girlfriend".
There is still a further explanation but I don't know how to write it down. If you know about this, let's talk.
At 10.30 am, I met friends. Sharing with them but this time I became a listener. One of topic is (what do you say, 'perjodohan'?) Matchmaking (?). Ahhh this topic just makes me laugh. Because for me, this is not a serious situation. It jokes for me (for now). But for them, this is serious. I don't have experience about this, so i quiet. They fears with relationship, too sensitive with man, crisis of confidence with herself and the man, the influence from family background. This is talk about the area of psychology right?
I feel dizzy. Sorry. Sometimes I feel what they feel, not about the matchmaking event lol but the influence from family background. It's dark.












