Be happy with yourself!

Self-confidence blog run by @mermaidernst! Feel free to ask me anything!

[illicitbehaviour]

you deserve to be loved without having to hide the parts of yourself that you think are unlovable.

[fortuneaday]

[plain-flavoured-english]

Your purpose in life is not to love yourself but to love being yourself.

If you goal is to love yourself, then your focus is directed inward toward yourself, and you end up constantly watching yourself from the outside, disconnected, trying to summon the “correct” feelings towards yourself or fashion yourself into something you can approve of.

If your goal is to love being yourself, then your focus is directed outward towards life, on living and making decisions based on what brings you pleasure and fulfillment.

Be the subject, not the object. It doesn’t matter what you think of yourself. You are experiencing life. Life is not experiencing you.

[saxifraga-x-urbium]

Thank you this is the first post about self love that hasn’t made me want to throw things

[studyblr]

you change people. your name makes others smile. your work moves people. someone might compliment you somewhere, right now. someone’s heart will beat faster just thinking about you. your friends remember your experiences fondly. someone might see a book in the store and think of you, too. you inspire others to keep going, or you will someday. your presence matters and changes the world every day. 

[confident-suggest]

It's okay. You can pick yourself up from ther ground, it's okay. That's just the first step, and even if it's hard, and of course it can be, it's going to be so worth it. It's okay.

[positive-suggestions]

there are so many days ahead of you, with joys you have not yet discovered! better times are ahead 💛

[helperhoopoe]

stop insulting yourself. it doesn’t help.

[rottentrauma]

But what if it’s true

[helperhoopoe]

it still doesn’t help. you can call yourself as many names as you want, but it won’t make you a better, happier, healthier or kinder person.

punishment doesn’t work. only positive reinforcement does. be kind to yourself and get better.

[confident-suggest]

You don't have to be alone in your struggle

[confident-suggest]

Do me a favor and blow my mind

[confident-suggest]

There'll always be someone waiting for you at the end of it all.

[confident-suggest]

There's no reason to wait for your moment. Start creating your dreams now!

[confident-suggest]

Feel the air around you. This is your space. This is your time to live and create and do wonderful things with what you've been given.

[confident-suggest]

Don't devalue or trivialize something close to your heart just for being "cheesy" or "stupid". It's something that makes you feel good and that's better and more important than the muddy thoughts of a society

[confident-suggest]

All your skills are interesting and worthwhile! Don't doubt them!

[wholeheartedsuggestions]

just because she’s pretty, that doesn’t mean you’re not. don’t compare yourself. there are infinite types of beauty and you happen to be one of them.

[confident-suggest]

People value your place in the world, even when you don't

[confident-suggest]

It's okay to want things