She/they/he | Plural system | DNI: Anti-Endogenic/Sysmed, more in pinned | Bodily Adult | hEDS and friends | that person interacting with your fandom blog is probably a fictive lol
Hi!!! We’re the Controlled Chaos Collective! We’re a mixed origin system with OSDD1-B that went into remission following EMDR therapy. Now we’re a functionally multiple! There’ll be more information about us below the cut, but the important stuff is our collective pronouns are she/he/they/pup, our collective name is Niv or just CCC, we’re bodily an adult, and we’re autistic and physically disabled. This blog is for the entirety of our system!
We don’t have a super strict DNI, but a rundown of some key discourse stuff will be below. the most important one is we are pro endogenic and willogenic systems!
Collective disabilities (some stuff will be left out for privacy): Autism, ADHD, Ehlers Danlos Syndrome, Dysautonomia, MCAS, and CFS/ME.
Collective Special Interests and hyperfixations: Formula one, minecraft, guinea pigs, medical science
System Info:
System Type: Previously diagnosed OSDD1-B, now in remission as a non-disordered plural!
System Origin: Mixed origin, some traumagenic some endogenic
System Modifiers: Multiple, cephaconscious, cytein, auti-impacted
Headcount: Unknown, but over 60, mostly fragments!
Frequent Fronters: Niv, Kimi, Dom, Libby, Logan, Oscar, Ollie, Arvid, Viv, Alex, Kai
Discourse Stances
Not everything we think will be here, just a few things we think are worth noting.
• we are VERY pro endogenic, willogenic/created, non-disordered, and non-traumagenic DID/OSDD plurals! we support using whatever terminology you(&) feel the most comfortable with!
• we don’t take a hard stance of shipping discourse of any kind.
• i didn’t realize this needed to be said, but no, MAPs and Zoos who are pro-contact aren’t welcome. However, having a paraphilia doesn’t make you inherently bad and non-harmful paraphilias or non-contact paraphiles are welcome. thought crimes aren’t real.
• Mspec lesbians and gay, and folks with similarly “contradicting” identities are amazing
• Disability isn’t strictly medical or strictly social, both models are pros and cons
• We don’t actually understand psychology all that well. All of psychology should be taken with a grain of salt, as our understanding can change in a instant and no theory will cover every person.
• you don’t need dysphoria to be trans
• dysphoria exists in more than the context of gender dysphoria
• your existence cannot be offensive, only your behavior
• we have no issue with appropriately interacting with individuals of any age, but we respect the age-related boundaries of everyone
no no please worry about the "evil" alter. they're doing this for attention please for the love of god give them attention they are touch starved and in need of love. cause they're not really evil, they're lashing out. if everyone else gets compassion when they lash out, so should the "evil" alter.
stop calling people who are hurting "evil". start taking care of the "evil" people. they're still people, and people deserve compassion.
Unidentified plural is whatever this was before syscovery (it's still in my pinned post AND has grown since). A lot of this can be seen as contradictory. Huh. We're just collecting labels at this point. "I have 8 billion labels I'm greedy" loud incorrect buzzer I'm actually multiple guys
And my pronouns page thing having literally every thing of pronouns ever. Hey. Guys we don't even. You guys don't even use all of those wtf are we doing. Who else uses all them neos bro.
Every system has like one neopronouns user it’s inevitable -unknown
the crimes of your source aren't yours. both in the crimes of the character and the creator of those characters. who you are says nothing about how you feel about where you came from. even if you aren't source detached. you are your own person.
PSA: if you’re anti-endo, any “plural” tags (#pluralpunk, #actually plural, #plural system, #pluralgang, etc) are NOT for you!! Plural is an inclusive term! Anti-endos using these tags are getting a major side eye from us
People with skin conditions deserve better. People with acne, eczema, psoriasis, hidradenitis suppurativa (HS), and other skin conditions do not deserve to be treated like we're contagious or an eyesore. We deserve to be in public and show our skin and not feel ashamed because there is no shame in having a medical condition. We deserve to be free from insensitive questions and unsolicited advice. People with scars, including but not limited to those from burns, surgery, self-harm, injury, illness, and acne also deserve to live life without worrying about rude comments and questions. Don't comment on people's skin, especially strangers'. Even if you think you're being tactful.
Potentially hot take but restricting littles in your own system from doing things they want to and have the mental capacity to do safely based solely on a number feels similar to me as locking up persecutors because they have unhealthy coping mechanisms. Which in any case stripping your own alters of autonomy unnecessarily is just asking for them to fight back and potentially become persecutors from your perspective to protect themselves from you. More problems than it is worth if it is not necessary and it will likely decrease any potential control you could have over them long term. But in general stripping alters of their autonomy solely because of your morals not because of actual safety concerns is not only not a good idea but then you have to question who really is the persecutor in that situation...
You have to live your life with these headmates. Its important to build healthy relationships with them. Actually communicate your concerns and work towards a compromise with them instead of shackling all behavior from other headmates that you don't like. Not that some collective rules and restrictions aren't good but collective rules that actively victimize other headmates without actually listening to their perspective is likely not going to end well.
does the body ALWAYS have to keep the score? maybe we could just have a friendly game this time. maybe we can just have fun without putting numbers on it
