The Disappearance of Emma Fillipoff
Emma Fillipoff is a Canadian woman who has been missing since  November 28, 2012; she was last seen in the vicinity of the Empress Hotel between 7:30 - 8:30 PM. She was 26 years old at the time of her disappearance.
In the fall of 2011, Emma moved from Perth, Ontario to Victoria, BC. She was 25 at the time, and had no job lined up, but had planned on finding work when she got there. In Victoria, Emma had lived with a friend and the friendâs partner, and later moved into a different unit in the same building. In the winter of 2011, Emma found work as a barista at a cafe, but the job did not last long. After a couple of months in Victoria, Emma began living a more transient lifestyle. She began living in Hotel 760, where she also cleaned rooms, as well as living on boats, sleeping in the woods and in trees. From February to November 2012, she was staying at a womenâs shelter on a rotating monthly basis. She got a seasonal job at a seafood restaurant where she worked during the busy season until October 31; she was expected to come back to the job in February 2013.
During her time in Victoria, Emma, who did not own a telephone or cell phone, communicated with her family through email - most of them being cryptic and poetic. She would call her family on holidays on a phone at the shelter. Her family wasnât aware of her staying in a shelter.
Emma would spend her time at the public library, and would associate with homeless people, artists, and street performers. She was described as being free-spirited, creative, adventurous, giving, soft-spoken, private, independent, and trusting. She was known to keep several journals and wrote a blog. She was known to have been in only one relationship during this time, and it ended after a couple months on mutual terms. She enjoyed drinking and socializing, but did not share her thoughts and rarely talked about her family.
In the summer of 2012, Emma stopped drinking, smoking, and cut out sugar and caffeine and drank copious amounts of water in a way to live a more âpureâ lifestyle; she also became vegan. A friend said she became âvery thinâ and was âmonk-likeâ in her social life and eating habits. She appeared to have trouble adapting to the changing seasons, and seemed unsure on what to do with herself. Shortly after her disappearance, she became withdrawn from others, paranoid, and fearful.
In June or July 2012, Emma bought a van with the intention of living in it and traveling along the coast. She had hoped the van would give her independence, but it ended up being a financial burden on her - it broke down three times and had to be towed to a mechanic.
In mid-November, Emma had told some friends that she was looking to leave Victoria to go to Salt Spring Island or Tofino, BC. She had also talked about sailing a boat to Mexico, moving to San Juan with a man she barely knew, moving to California, moving to Costa Rica, traveling to Japan with her father, living off the grid in the woods, visiting an aunt in Lantzville, BC, and moving back with her family in Perth. During this time, she became extremely withdrawn from people; she cancelled a trip to Mexico with a friend last minute and avoided going anywhere that wasnât the pier or the shelter.
Emmaâs journals hinted at her struggle with mental illness since she was 11 years old. She was secretive about it and didnât divulge her struggle with friends and family. In winter of 2011, a childhood friend and roommate observed Emma obsessively arranging patterns using things like feathers, shells, and rocks. She sometimes asked friends to participate in these rituals. Â According to three friends in BC, Emma had began feeling stress from harassment she had received while attending culinary school in 2008 - 2009. She did not provide details to friends or her journal. A roommate recalled her need to not be in social spaces with men having to do with this harassment.
About two weeks before her disappearance, a friend recalled driving by the shelter and finding Emma outside, cold and wet, staring motionlessly at birds. Shelter staff started to recognize Emmaâs paranoid and depressive behavior. At this time, Emma began giving away, selling, or throwing away her personal belongings. This behavior let the shelter staff to believe she was suicidal and/or suffering from mental illness. They were unable to contact her parents due to privacy laws, so instead had the police called to do a mental health check on Emma. The staff explained the situation to the police, and instead of doing a check, they told the staff to call back if she exhibited this behavior again; staff did not call back.
On November 20, Emma was seen on surveillance videos at the local YMCA. The video shows her entering and exiting the building four times within a 14 minute period. She seems nervous and is peering into the windows of the building, as if waiting for or hiding from someone. She is seeing holding something in her hand shaped like an iPod or cell phone.
Emma then made a series of tear-filled calls to her mother, Shelly, starting on November 23. Her mother assured her that she would make the necessary arrangements to get Emma back home. Emma called back the next day, saying she would stay in Victoria and try to make things work. She repeatedly changed her mind over the next four days. Emma told a friend that she was âanxiousâ about her mom coming to Victoria and that she âcouldnât face herâ.
Emmaâs final call to Shelly took place on November 28, around 4:30AM, the day she was last seen. She told her mom, âDonât come Mom. Not today.â Shelly noticed a change in the tone of Emmaâs voice, which concerned her. Shelly noticed the caller ID from the number Emma was calling from was âSandy Merrimanâ. She assumed it was a friend, but looked it up and was shocked to discover that it was a womanâs shelter. Shelly, who was concerned that Emma was suffering from mental illness, took a flight to Victoria that afternoon.
The morning of her disappearance, Emma went to the Chateau Victoria, where she discovers that her van was going to be towed. She begs the staff for another day to move the van, which they allowed. Around 8AM, Emma was spotted on a surveillance camera at a 7-11. She uses a debit card to buy a $200 prepaid credit card. Afterwards, she nervously lingers outside the store and peers into the windows. She runs into a friend at 10AM. The friend said she was standing motionless on a corner. He asks Emma if she needs help, to which she slowly shakes her head no. Some people claim Emma was at the library around noon. After that, she was seen by another friend at a soup kitchen. She says she isnât feeling well and canât talk, and pulls away when the friend asked if she wanted a hug. Two people saw Emma walking along Pandora Street; they were so struck by her odd behavior and called the police. The police never followed up. She reportedly wasnât wearing shoes at this point. Another witness saw Emma walking with an unknown man. No description was given of the man. Around 5:30PM, Emma purchases a prepaid cell phone from the same 7-11 where she bought the prepaid credit card from. The cell phone was never activated. She again is seen being nervous and peering into the store.
Emma returned to the shelter at 6PM and was alerted by staff that her mother was on the way. Emma was visibly upset and stormed out of the shelter. She was pursued by another resident, but was unable to catch up with her. It is unclear how the staff knew her mother was on the way, as her mother did not tell the staff.
Around 6:10PM, a taxi cab driver picks up Emma near the shelter. She asks him to take her to the airport, but then quickly changes her mind. Even though she had the prepaid credit card on her, as well as between $2,000 to $3,000 in her bank account, she tells the driver that she cannot afford the fare and has him drop her off where she was picked up. When they arrive, she asks to sit in the cab for a while. She becomes paranoid and restless when she hears his dispatch radio, and asks âWhy is there noise coming out of that?â She pays the fare and leaves the cab.
At 6:15, she is seen by a friend named Denis. Emma is standing barefoot on a corner, looking disoriented, paranoid, and unable to cross the street. She doesnât say much and is looking all around her. She asks Denis to walk with her for a bit, and he becomes worried about her behavior. They enter a restaurant at 7PM and Denis calls the police. He observes the police talking to Emma and leaves.
Police assess Emma for 45 minutes. According to police notes, Emma did not engage with police with dialogue, but instead shook her head or answered with one word answers. She only spoke after 30 minutes, to give her name. She was barefoot and refused to put her shoes back on. By 8PM, police decide that Emma was not a threat to herself or anyone else and let her walk away. This is the last confirmed sighting of Emma.
Shelly arrived around 11PM and was told Emma did not claim her bed that night. Around midnight, Shelly called police and declared her a missing person.
On the 29th, the Chateau Victoria arranges to have Emmaâs car towed. Police search it and find almost all of her possessions in it, including her laptop, passport, journals, camera, and library books. On this same day, Shelly was visiting the shelter during each shift and was informed by the staff about Emmaâs bizarre behavior leading up to her disappearance. During this time, Emma was reportedly spotted on Douglas Street in Victoria, though this sighting is unconfirmed.
On December 2, a witness reports an odd encounter at the harbor after dark. Emma tells them to remember the name âEmma Fillipoffâ and tells them to repeat it three times. This, too, is also unconfirmed.
On December 5th, the prepaid credit card Emma bought was flagged as being used at a gas station on Sooke Road. The man who used it is cleared after being questioned and polygraphed by police. He tells police that he found it on the side of the road by Juan de Fuca Recreation Centre in Colwood. He later calls Shelly three times and tells her due to being drunk, he cannot remember where he found the card. He is certain that he waited a week before using it.
Also on December 5th, Julian Huard, who Emma met in Perth and moved to Victoria in early 2012, becomes a person of interest after Emmaâs parents find odd messages he sent to Emma on Facebook, hidden in the âOtherâ message tab. He also sent Emma a message weeks after she vanished about âbuilding [her] a cabin in the woodsâ. He was part of the initial search team until he became a person of interest. He was questioned and polygraphed and cleared as a suspect.
In May 2014, an agitated man entered a clothing store in downtown Vancouver, with a crumpled up missing personâs poster of Emma in his hand. He told the employees that Emma was his girlfriend and she just wanted to be left alone. The man was wearing a green shirt, had a noticeable limp, and flame tattoos on his arm. He has yet to be identified and no one has come forward with information about him.
Following Emmaâs disappearance, a search team comprised of Emmaâs friends, family, and volunteers searched the Victoria area and the communities of Vancouver Island. Eventually the target area widened to include the BC mainland and locations across Canada and the United States. A dive team searched in the Victoria harbor but found nothing. A private investigator worked on the case for a year but couldnât locate Emma. Despite a $25,000 reward, there have been no confirmed sightings of Emma.
If you have any information on Emmaâs whereabouts, please call 911 or contact the Victoria Police Department non-emergency number at 250-995-7654. For tips or sightings of Emma, call Crime Stoppers at 1-800-222-8477 or email [email protected]. Also visit the official website http://www.helpfindemmafillipoff.com/ and the official Facebook page https://www.facebook.com/HelpFindEmmaFillipoff/.
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