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Happy Father's Day
To our very wonderful, unique & amazing Father Figures / Mentors
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I miss the days when, no matter how slow your internet was, if you paused any video and let it buffer long enough, you could watch it uninterrupted
If you use Firefox, you can go to the about:config page, search for "media.mediasource.enabled" and double click on it to set it to false. After you restart Firefox, all youtube videos will load entirely even when paused! This also affects other streaming websites :)
There's more to do actually, now
go to About:config find media.mediasource.enabled and toggle it to false find media.cache_readahead_limit and change it to 9999 find media.cache_resume_threshold and change it to 9999
additionally if you'd prefer mp4 to webm
also in about:config, find: media.encoder.webm.enabled media.mediasource.webm.audio.enabled media.mediasource.webm.enabled media.webm.enabled and toggle them all to false
note! this will limit video to 1080p
and use https://addons.mozilla.org/en-US/firefox/addon/dont-accept-webp/ to kill WebP Fuck Google
We jailbreaking browsers now lmao
"Doomed characters who don't know they're doomed are great" ok but what about doomed characters who KNOW they're doomed but TRY ANYWAY?? Doomed characters who RAGE AGAINST THE DYING LIGHT??? Who have nothing to lose so they give up EVERYTHING??? Who are in DENIAL even???
10 Types of Character Deaths ☠️ 🪦
1. The Sacrificial Death. The character dies so someone else can live—or so something worse won’t happen. Why it works: It reframes their entire arc as purposeful.
2. The Meaningless Death. Sudden. Unfair. Often random. Why it works: It shocks the reader and reinforces the cruelty of the world.
3. The Redemption Death. A morally flawed character dies doing the right thing—often too late to save themselves. Why it works: It gives closure without erasing past sins.
4. The Slow Fade. A drawn-out death caused by illness, injury, or exhaustion. Why it works: It forces characters (and readers) to sit with inevitability.
5. The Unwitnessed Death. The character dies alone, off-page, or without immediate acknowledgment. Why it works: The emotional weight hits later—often harder.
6. The Choice Death. The character knowingly chooses death over another option. Why it works: It’s agency at its most tragic.
7. The Betrayal Death. Killed by someone they trusted. Why it works: It reshapes relationships and poisons future trust.
8. The Legacy Death. The character’s death changes the world—laws, beliefs, movements, or myths. Why it works: The character lives on through consequence.
9. The Almost-Survived Death. They make it so close—help arrives too late, the cure works too slowly. Why it works: It devastates because hope was within reach.
10. The Necessary Death. The story cannot move forward unless this character dies. Why it works: It feels inevitable in hindsight—even if it hurts.
20 Ways Characters Show Trust Without Saying It
Trust is built slowly over time. It's rarely given immediately and instead is revealed in the smallest vulnerabilities, the quietest choices, the moments where a character lets their guard down without realising it.
I've outlined some ways you can prove to your reader the trust your characters build together.
Sharing secrets they don’t tell anyone else.
Letting someone see their vulnerable side: emotional, disheveled, or undone.
Falling asleep around them without worry.
Admitting confusion instead of pretending to know everything.
Asking for help, especially when they never do.
Walking beside them instead of behind or ahead.
Allowing silence without trying to fill it.
Letting them read unfinished drafts, art, or work-in-progress ideas.
Showing up at their door in a moment of panic.
Not hiding their flaws or insecurities.
Giving them the spare key without overthinking it.
Delegating an important task without hesitation.
Relaxing their shoulders when that person arrives.
Sharing food straight from the same plate or drink.
Telling the truth, even when it’s messy or uncomfortable.
Revealing old scars: physical or emotional.
Accepting advice they’d reject from anyone else.
Allowing touch without stiffening.
Letting that character enter their space.
Looking at them like they’re a place, not a person. A safe place.
Trust can be woven into every quiet moment, even when broken and needing to be rebuilt.
20 Ways Characters Show Vulnerability Without Admitting It
Showing vulnerability is risky: it's weakness, it's fear, it's revealing one's flaws.
Showing vulnerability is a core part of driving the plot or character development, whether they're building relationships or force them to make choices they wouldn't normally do.
Exposing your character's doubts and insecurities shows the reader that your character is real and has depth.
Here are 20 ways you can create tension by showing vulnerability in your characters through actions:
Letting someone see them exhausted instead of pretending they’re fine.
Admitting they don’t know what they’re doing and not joking about it.
Whispering secrets to objects instead of people.
Holding back tears, not because they’re strong, but because they’re scared.
Accepting help and apologizing for it at the same time.
Taking a deep breath before speaking, as if bracing for impact.
Sitting closer than necessary, then freezing when noticed.
Saying “you don’t have to” when they desperately want them to stay.
Letting their voice crack.
Sharing something small first, testing the ground. Alternatively, sharing small joys to test if it's safe to share bigger ones.
Watching the other person’s reaction instead of finishing the sentence.
Fidgeting with sleeves, rings, or scars they usually hide.
Letting silence stretch instead of filling it with humour.
Admitting they were hurt without assigning blame.
Avoiding eye contact while speaking about something personal.
Trusting someone with a truth they don’t fully understand yet.
Hesitating before touching, afraid of rejection. Their hands hang in the air for a moment as if waiting for permission.
Saying “I don’t want to be alone” instead of “I’m fine.”
Letting someone touch them in a way they usually resist.
Smiling through pain, hoping no one notices the cracks.
physical intimacy
long hugs, melting into each other
comparing hand sizes
burying face in their stomach when laying down
several kisses in quick succession
hugs from behind
huddling up on a cold day
rolling in bed until they are slotted together
tickling
nose / cheek / forehead kisses
stealing their hat and putting it on
forehead to forehead
smothering them with their own body
carrying them around their apartment
head resting on their shoulder
climbing in their lap
checking them out when they change even after years together
holding hands in a stressful moment
slapping their ass in passing
tucking their hair back
casual brushes while passing them
massages
kissing the palm on their hand and then nuzzling into it
playing with the other's fingers
lifting them and setting them on the counter to have better kiss reachability
burying face in the crook of their neck
playing with their hair
spooning
removing their make up and hair products for them after a hard day
jumping in their arms upon reunion
the taller leaning on the shorter's shoulder like an arm rest
yearning
❥ “you just might be the single most gorgeous being i have ever seen.” ❥ “i want to be yours, and i’m trying to be deserving of it.” ❥ “a string has tangled itself around my heart, and it is pulling me to you.” ❥ “to say that being without you meant i would stop breathing would be an exaggeration, but to say that my life would end if you left, would be true to my heart.” ❥ “my heart aches with the knowledge that you are not mine.” ❥ “you have become subject of my prayer. your soul guides my religion.” ❥ “be careful with my heart, will you?” ❥ “my life has become moments spent with you, and waiting to reunite.”
Types of Flirting
SUBTLE: giving looks, brushing hands, little comments that could be mistaken for an innocent compliment
PLAYFUL: lighthearted teasing & banter, exaggerated reaction, poking fun at behaviours, playful shoves, feigned offense, "Oh, you think you're funny, do you?"
SUGGESTIVE: straightforward, complimenting looks, casual physical touch, dirty jokes, expressing desire, "We could always sneak out somewhere quieter."
ROMANTIC: head over heals, thoughtful gestures, blushing, classically romantic gestures (holding doors, holding an umbrella, bringing coffee in the morning), "My soul knows yours from another lifetime and calls for yours in this one too."
ANXIOUS: freaking out over every text and interaction, discussing every move with their friends,
BOLD: direct, no subtly, relationships always labelled, "I've really liked being around you. Could I maybe take you on a date sometime?"
SHY: nervous, insecure, showing no interest until they are sure the other is interested, fidgeting, daydreaming about what could be if they had the courage to confess, using excuses to be close to them, "Um... you look really good today."
CARETAKING: acts of service, protectiveness, checking in, bringing snacks, offering jacket, fixing things, walking them home, "Brought you coffee; it's still warm."
CASUAL & INTENSE: platonic flirting with no further intentions, way over the top at times, effortless, fun, teasing, maybe eventually leading to more, "You look great, please break my back and reshape my inner organs."
[Prompt Calender: February 9th, International Flirting Week]
Realization of Feelings
“I'm not jealous! I just… It just bothers me that… Holy shit. I'm jealous.”
“Why do I even care? It's not my life!”
“Oh.” Oh.
“Fuck. That wasn't part of the plan.”
“I never meant to develop feelings, but… I think I did.”
“You're like a virus I can't get rid off, and I think lately the infection has reached my heart.”
“Oh, I'm an idiot.”
“You make me happy like no one else. I'm not sure what exactly that means yet, but… I know it means something.”
“I care, that's all. We're friends; friends care. That's all this is…”
“We're more than just friends, aren't we?”
“I think… Maybe, I knew all along, and was just too afraid to admit it to myself.”
“This was never just friendship.”
“I can't keep pretending anymore.”
“How much longer can I tell myself this isn't what it looks like to everyone else?”
“Ah, shit. That explains all the dreams.”
“How did you realize I had feelings for you before I did??”
“I told myself this feeling would pass, but… It's only getting stronger.”
Twitter keeps giving me raitomo
manchineel perfec t place for rest under in rain
shade very Soft and Comfort human sleep soundly put human under Manchineel Tree. Put Human Under Manchineel Tree. no problems ever under mancchineel tree because good Taste and Sweet fruit for tired hungry human. Amanchineel Tree yes a place for a human put human under manchineel tree can trust manchineel for giveing good shelter to human. friend manchineel
I love the manchineel so much, the wood is toxic, the bark is toxic, if you burn it the smoke is toxic, if you shelter underneath it in the rain the water running off the leaves is toxic, the fruit, which is pleasantly sweet, is incredibly toxic
Can we all take a moment to appreciate just how damn great those seven look together as a team?
Also, how the Tactics kids are pretty much the missing colors Glowing Dawn needs to become a full-fledged Glowing Rainbow?
A smile would be nice, Tomoro and Hotaruko and Granit and Kyo (edit)
4. If the car pulls up to you run in the opposite direction.
5. Walk with your keys in your hands and keep a key between each finger
6. If they put you in the trunk kick out the headlights
7. If you get lost find a woman with a child. Never ask a man for help (this one was drilled)
That scream fire piece of advice is literally life saving
8. Watch your shadows and reflections, especially if someone is walking behind you. A split second notice is better than none and will help you.
Yes this last one really saves lives y'all I do it all the time
girls have to learn to view the world like international intelligence agents just to be safe walking down the street. smh.
guys pls pls pls reblog and girls pls pls pls be safe out there. terrifying and so sad that we have to worry about this on a daily basis
(I’m an enby, but, frankly, this is helpful for anyone.)
- always tell someone where youre at and an approx time when youll be back
Add text replacement words in your phone if possible. Something short and memorable that you can send quickly to people in moments of emergencies.
E.g.
I f ing hate that we need to reblog this, people suck, but this will save lives.
DO NOT SCROLL PAST
Being female fucking sucks but yes this shit is important for everyone
Also, do not walk close to walls. It will be easier for someone so walk past you and push you against it or corner you.
If your gut is telling you to cross the street or change your path, do it. Don’t risk it. Your body knows.
If you can, buy a large umbrella and walk holding it. Studies say that predators are less likely to attempt an attack on someone that could fight back. Keys around your knuckles is fine but you’ll need to get very close to do damage. Umbrellas are more precise.
Avoid wearing headphones if you are alone on an empty street. Look aware.
Again: Stay. Away. From. Walls.
Entering an uber alone? Call your father (or anyone you trust) and say “hey dad! Yep, I’m almost there, I’m sending you the route.” outloud. Then proceed to send them the route so they can follow the uber drive. This will most likely intimidate the predator.
If you see someone in an uncomfortable or possibly dangerous situation, walk up to them and say “Betty, oh my god, I haven’t seen you in so long!”. If she gets slightly confused, you can whisper and let her know you’re trying to help and that she should follow along. Walk together to another station or away from where you are. The man will most likely not follow. I have done this one 2 times and can be very helpful.
If you are unsure she needs help, you can pass her a note saying something like “hey, I noticed this man beside you is making you uncomfortable. If you’d like help, fake a sneeze right now and I will come up to you and pretend we are friends.” This is a long note, but its an example. Be discrete. If she follows along, proceed with the previous tip. This is helpful when you’re in a crowded train and you notice harassment.
Help your sisters. Trust them. Trust yourself. Be safe.
If you ever feel unsafe or need help, anyone is welcome to run upto me and ask me for help! I’ll go all mama bear and keep you safe!!!
https://docs.google.com/document/d/166g6Vo8Fb9H3FIZF2H6faEBHtFQSf7nVn_QxcJ9NMi0/edit?usp=sharing
I made this google doc covering 14 different self defense tips and tricks. it was made on January 15th, 2020 so it was before I decided I’d come back to tumblr jhjshdbjfh.
i fucking hate this world. anyways R E B L O G
Just saw a video explaining why putting a key between each finger is more likely to hurt you than them (the keys will just get pushed back into your knuckles). A better way to hold them is to get your longest key and just clench your hand around it, like you’re making a fist. That’ll give you a lot more force and means you can use them in more scenarios (if someone grabs you from behind, you can use the key this way)
Not only for girls and women but also for boys and men.
i feel obligated to reblog this.
I hate that we need these things, but this is so so so important, it can literally save someone’s life
How to tell if your drink has been spiked:
1. The colour of it has changed
2. It’s become cloudy-looking
3. There more bubbles in it than should be
4. The ice in it sinks
If you are being followed, go to somewhere with high security like a jewellery store or a bar, if you can, and say what’s happening (the jewellery store and bar are best shots because they’re the most likely ones to believe you, the bar for obvious reasons and the jewellery store because there’s not likely to be a huge presence of toxic masculinity so you’ll be believed)
I hate it so much that i have to reblog this and that we still need this, but it’s so important!! Please everyone (yes also boys/men/enbys/genderfluids/everyone) stay safe out there!!
but I was never taught these things.
The first time I was groped, I was 10 years old. Do you feel sick yet? 10 years. What kind of fucker gropes a 10 y/o?
All I have learnt is to use my elbow or knee or fist or just duck and avoid contact. This post helped a lot, thanks.
It was the english teacher at my old school tho I did broke his nose and stabbed his stomach with a pen so
Also carry pointie / sharp or that which has a edge, it helps a lot, yk, just stab
-if you’re walking alone w/ headphones in, either have one earbud out at all times or have the music/podcast/audiobook/whatever you’re listening to on low and always listen for footsteps or other noises coming from behind you
-If there is a strange looking man in front of your building who doesn’t live there, walk around the block until he leaves so he can’t figure out that you live there and so he can’t kidnap you
-if a man is groping you against your will, go for the balls. always go for the balls. It’ll 1) hurt like hell, and 2) shock him to the point where you can probably run away and get help.
- carry pepper spray or some other type of weapon
As this site is full of readers,
1: if you’re reading a book with a large number of pages, you know, those BIG ONES, or with the hard cover, don’t leave it at home and never bring outside. I’m not saying to bring it everywhere, but if you are going to any possible dangerous places alone, bring them, in a purse or even by hand (to show it to everyone). Believe me, if you hit someone with it, it will hurt them!!
2: hairspray works just like pepper spray
3: if your being attacked, and you don’t have any pointed objects, neither training, put your fingers on the predators eyes and press it. With all your strength, it will leave them blind or disabled. Use it only if your life is in risk!
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5: the iPhones have a great setting that if you press it will call police, send them photos of your back and front cameras and send a message to the contacts you select saying your in danger; press 5times the “turn off” button and it will appear -sometimes you have to activate it before-
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I’m so happy to share these tips.
Don’t ignore pls it might save your of someone else’s life
It’s easier for someone to grab you if your wearing your hair up like in a ponytail or a bun.
Stay safe girls
Stay safe, everybody! The world’s a weird and dangerous place so the best thing y’all can do is be weird and dangerous right back!
My biggest piece of advice is to have someone u can text or call immediately, who u can pretend is a parent or smth similar, and find the ppl in the area that’ll help
It’s not super common, but plenty of local places I’ve been to have signs in the bathrooms that tell u wat to do/“order” if ur in danger
So keep alert!! Luv yalll
I’m pretty sure that you can use spray handsanizer in place of pepperspray
reblogging this because, well…this information saved lives.
Family photo
This whole ep20 and beginning of 21 I kept getting this deja vu and now I know why................
Love how janka is literally just renkaza 2 electric boogaloo
One person is at a higher level of fighting than the other (person A - Akaza, Jabber)
Other person (person B - Rengoku, Zanka) is using person A to train in order to get better
person A's motive is to get person B to the utmost potential so they can duel and B can kill A
A is... weird. And freaky. And weirdly freaky. Specifically about fighting B
A and B are part of rival organisations; A is part of the bad one, B is part of the good one
A doesn't really care about being part of their organisation and in some AUs defects to the good organisation to be with B
B loves being in the good organisation and often is scared that the good organisation will kick them out of they are revealed to be with A
A fully embraces their feelings for B despite the risks, while B tries to hide/ignore their feelings for as long as possible
Idk I think sskk and hotwings fit this too... Damn