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hi, we go by fawne and we're a system of roughly 21~ members.
we go by she/her, do not they/them us unless asked by someone who uses they/them in the system.
we will signal boost posts but we dont have the financial means to donate.
i dont do dni's but just know if you believe in misandry, if you're a transandrophobia truther, and honestly if you're 90% of men, ill make fun of you endlessly
if you make callout posts on trans women i think you should kill yourself.
2021:
Researchers focused on whether kids that are spanked are more likely to share or, conversely, more likely to have anxiety, years down the li
2021:
Spanking found to impact children's brain response, leading to lasting consequences.
2018:
The American Academy of Pediatrics says new evidence and research not only show that spanking affects a child’s brain development and increa
2016:
Kids who are spanked tend to act out more and have more problems later on.
2012:
A study reviewed more than two decades of research on the effects of spanking and found nothing positive to report, only that physical punis
2010:
A multiyear study shows spanking kids makes them more aggressive later on
I haven’t pissed people off lately by reminding them that ALL types of physical punishment of kids has been proven beyond ANY reasonable doubt to have only negative long term outcomes.
So let me scream it from the hilltops:
Stop hitting kids. End of sentence.
If you think, “but I was hit and I turned out just fine” let me pre-reply: NO YOU DID NOT. You think hitting a child is ok, how the fuck does that qualify as “fine”?????? From one abuse survivor to another: please start healing yourself.
This post needs a "it's been 5 years" update, so here we go:
2022:
Spanking is a risk factor for children's social competency. However, establishing causality is a challenge, given selection bias in samples
Background There is a vast literature on the negative associations between spanking in childhood and various psychosocial developmental outc
2023:
The use of corporal punishment in schools is not an effective or ethical method for management of behavior concerns and causes harm to stude
Spanking has been linked to multiple maladaptive child outcomes. However, previous research linking spanking with children's executive funct
2024:
Corporal punishment is believed to precede various forms of violent behavior, yet prior research has yielded inconsistent findings, partly d
2025:
This technical report describes the prevalence, risk factors for, and consequences of child corporal punishment, which it defines as “any pu
Physically punishing children in low- and middle-income countries (LMICs) has exclusively negative outcomes -- including poor health, lower
YOU GOTTA BE FUCKING KIDDING ME TUMBLR
So annoying. So GD annoying.
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[wearing a t shirt rhat says "I AM NORMAL AND I'M NOT INSANE"] have i ever told you about my curse? its working btw. the curse is working.
What is your curse!
It's working
There's something really funny* (*tiresome) about cis women learning that trans women also experience misogyny and responding by saying e.g. "I'm sorry you also have to suffer what we suffer."
Like, listen. We both get talked over by men, it sucks. But I also get talked over by women. I get talked over by everybody. And if I raise my voice to make myself heard, I will get kicked out of whatever workplace or social group because raising my voice one time will be characterised as "scary" and "aggressive". And if I complain about someone talking over me, I will not receive sympathy or commiseration, I will be told that I need to unlearn my male-patterned behaviour of "speaking with the expectation of being listened to", a behaviour I never had anyway because everyone has always talked over me ever since I started speaking.
The same logic applies to any expression of misogyny: I experience the "normal" form, plus a whole lot extra, plus the lack of access to solidarity and support for people who experience misogyny. If I had to put numbers on the contributions to my general misery from each form of oppression I face, *misogyny* would not reach even one tenth of the contribution made by *transmisogyny*, an all-pervading oppression that makes anything like a "normal" life almost impossible.
Today I bought a train ticket from a ticket machine, but when I tried to use it to get through the barrier it didn't work. My first thought was not "I should go and complain about this", it was "Welp, better buy another ticket and hope that one works," because any interaction with a service worker where they can see my face and hear my voice has a high chance of ending in harassment and a decent chance of ending in physical violence.
But yes, it's great to be talking to a wealthy non-disabled neurotypical cishet white woman in a position of power over me at work and listen to her say "Wow, you suffer as much as me in this world?" And I can't even point all this out to her because she would say I was being aggressive and get me fired 🙃
Help a Black disabled trans couple thrive for Pride Month
happy pride edition of this post lol. wont bog down the post explaining our situation, but we still need consistent help affording all our living expenses. my wife works but her job pays shit and i am trying to find work to no avail. i have the usual pay apps, as does my wife. we also have other options (like our patreon for monthly bills) and our registry if u wanna support that way. please consider helping make two struggling black queer folks' lives easier this pride month 🩷
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trying really hard not to lose it. rent is still not even halfway, and our apartment complex emailed us saying we owe over twice what we should based on what we have been paying over the last few months. im also in the negatives and havent eaten since friday which is so cool. i dont know how else to stress the urgency, we need HELP.
imagine six thousand people read your journal every single day . thank fuck only like 10 of you max interact with me
"reblog to give a trans woman soup"
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"trans women experience misogyny because they're women"
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If you've seen Immigration and Customs Enforcement (ICE) agents in your neighborhood and wondered whether you can legally share that informa
In the wake of Keith Porter, Renee Good, and Alex Pretti, "don't make a bad decision" feels like a threat to kill if you don't comply.
That's cuz it is
“But terves totally go after us both equally”, we keep hearing, while some people post this stuff
funniest way someone ever tried to invalidate my gender was when a woman i knew in college told me i couldn’t be a girl because i didn’t like Titanic. this was a deep ontological truth to her, that the category of “woman” requires in its definition an enjoyment of the film Titanic. she adamantly denied the possibility of there being any woman in existence who did not enjoy 70th Annual Academy Awards Best Picture Winner, Titanic
she's what my internalized transphobia sounds like
we're far too culturally obsessed with men who are mean and rough around the edges but turn out to be big softies underneath it all when, in reality, most men who are like this are simply dicks
we need to be less empathetic towards men
Protip: If you respond to a post calling out shitty behavior by generalizing it, you’re actually on the side of the dicks. Like, that might not be your intention, but you’re still telling the world that the behavior itself isn’t the problem.
not my fault that men benefit from cultural infantalization and have twice as much empathy extended towards them compared to women. men get too much and its justified to hold them to higher standards and offer less understanding.
No, but it is your choice to come onto a post about how some men get too much compared to other men and effectively declare t doesn’t make a difference.
are you seriously saying not all men right now?
So are you actually reading the stuff I’m writing, or are you just waiting for your turn to continue the conversation you’re having in your head?
you're the one saying "only some men get this privelage, dont put down all men".
yes all men get this privelage because people begin to assume every man is secretly a softie inside when really they're just always an asshole. this post isnt complaining about men who are "hard outsice and soft inside", its complaining about the pervasiveness of the stereotype and how its applied to people who are just assholes. and the actual "soft men" are idolized as the peak of humanity and worshipped for having basic human decency.
we're far too culturally obsessed with men who are mean and rough around the edges but turn out to be big softies underneath it all when, in reality, most men who are like this are simply dicks
we need to be less empathetic towards men
Protip: If you respond to a post calling out shitty behavior by generalizing it, you’re actually on the side of the dicks. Like, that might not be your intention, but you’re still telling the world that the behavior itself isn’t the problem.
not my fault that men benefit from cultural infantalization and have twice as much empathy extended towards them compared to women. men get too much and its justified to hold them to higher standards and offer less understanding.
No, but it is your choice to come onto a post about how some men get too much compared to other men and effectively declare t doesn’t make a difference.
are you seriously saying not all men right now?
all men get the privelage of infantalization
we're far too culturally obsessed with men who are mean and rough around the edges but turn out to be big softies underneath it all when, in reality, most men who are like this are simply dicks
we need to be less empathetic towards men
Protip: If you respond to a post calling out shitty behavior by generalizing it, you’re actually on the side of the dicks. Like, that might not be your intention, but you’re still telling the world that the behavior itself isn’t the problem.
not my fault that men benefit from cultural infantalization and have twice as much empathy extended towards them compared to women. men get too much and its justified to hold them to higher standards and offer less understanding.
No, but it is your choice to come onto a post about how some men get too much compared to other men and effectively declare t doesn’t make a difference.
are you seriously saying not all men right now?
so i just rb'd this but op is gonna block me no doubt and i want to discuss it properly
as i said in the rb, punching up is very different to punching down. calling for violence against a class that has relative privilege over oneself is not a genuine call for violence, it is a violent decry of anger that does not translate to real world harm. Men kill women regularly, and get away with it.
racialised people get killed by white people, regularly, and white people get away with it with regularity
so a racialised person saying "kill all white people" is not genocidal, a woman saying "kill all men" is not fascistic. but yes, the opposite is indeed true
trans women are killed by tme's regularly, and even on smaller scale people who are not transmisogynised have privilege over those who do, so a trans woman saying "bomb that kills all tmes" is understandable,
whereas you, someone who is not transfeminised, telling transfems to jump off of bridges is indeed fascistic
