Mika

🌸🌜⭐️ the stars are in blossom, the moon is in flower ⭐️🌛🌸 she/her, 30s, zone 4a

[crowe-lane-cottage]

Found the prettiest little Zinnia hiding down in the foliage! 🏵

[crowe-lane-cottage]

Found the prettiest little Zinnia hiding down in the foliage! 🏵

[wrenhavenriver]

the cat was sleeping cutely so i took a picture and went to show it to my mom and she burst out laughing and pulled out her phone and showed me a near identical one she'd taken a few minutes before

[wrenhavenriver]

self-proclaimed free thinkers when the cat is doing a snooze:

[ronniemree-deactivated20210903]

[crowe-lane-cottage]

My little ooga booga brain is so happy every morning bc I get to walk outside to this 🌻

The hummingbird was back again today, but she is so fast and I never have my phone nearby when I see her!

[n9f]

Everyone has their own timing in life , you’re not behind, and no one is ahead.

[z-ndjenja]

would you sit with me when it's raining outside

[istalkfashion]

[teagangiffin]

life is short and weird and it’s important to tell people how you really feel about them

[caspercryptid]

I would actually go as far as to say that MOST abuse is unintentional. I think most people will go through their lives without ever experiencing intentional abuse. People are abusive because they're selfish, because they're stressed, because they care more about what society thinks they should do than the impacts of their actions on their children and partners, because they think what they're doing is correct, because they've made it make sense in their own heads, because they think they can fix their victims, they think they can fix their relationships, they think they can stop you from leaving, they think they can make you a better partner to them, they think that means you need to do what they want. We've sort of constructed mental illness in a way that doing this shit to other people counts as a form of mental illness because it is anti social behavior in the literal sense— it is behavior that causes social harm.

I don't say any of this to excuse it. I think everyone needs to be more aware of this because if you think abuse has to be intentional you will never realize you are capable of abusive behavior. You will never realize you are being shitty to the people you love, because YOU know what you mean, YOU know you don't mean any harm. But you're doing harm. You need to pay attention to the impact you have on other people, and you need to do it all the time, Especially when you feel least capable of doing so. Sorry! You live in a society. Get your head out of your ass.

[wolfsteax]

I humbly offer this contribution.

[mysterypuppys]

U literally cannot save your mother like it cant be done

[botanyshitposts]

love doing something I call ‘the big leaf test’ where I put my hand on a leaf and if the leaf is bigger than my hand I go damn that’s crazy

[geopsych]

Swamp milkweed in the garden but one came up white from seed. And yes, monarchs have visited. 🦋

[babbyygirrrl]

I don't know who needs to hear this but... start living. The days are flying by and all you do is work, pay bills, and stress. Enjoy what you can like walks, sunsets, music, laughter. Joy doesn't have to be expensive. You deserve it.

[mollybeenoel]

[apollosunn-moved-deactivated202]

anyone else relate

[midnightclover]

[scribeherself]

sometimes I look at my friends and I am just overwhelmed by the sheer luck of it. the universe is so violently massive and terrifyingly empty, but somehow, against all odds, my brand of weird gravity pulled in your brand of weird gravity. we are just ghosts haunting the same corner of the internet, sharing a brain cell, and keeping each other tethered to the earth.