simply put i don't think having an unpopular or disagreeable take on the internet while being a trans woman is grounds for a years long stalking campaign ensuring her isolation and eventual death
some of the most popular internet personalities on the planet are open racists, zionists, misogynists, nazis, etc. but you're choosing to go after the traumatized girl with double digit note posts on tumblr. this is because you're a rancid piece of shit, and not for any other reason.
I am maddened by the sentiment that a lot of transmasc people i have met hold that trans women are somehow ignorant of the trauma or oppression they go through, or the fact that they are more likely to have things like CPTSD and eating disorders, when in pretty much every queer art space I've been in, >30% of the posts will be vent art by transmascs.
and i see it IRL too, where i just get constantly fucking traumadumped on by transmascs who barely know me. but whenever i suggest to anyone that either myself or another trans woman i know might be having a shit time also, I get dismissed.
I am maddened by the sentiment that a lot of transmasc people i have met hold that trans women are somehow ignorant of the trauma or oppression they go through, or the fact that they are more likely to have things like CPTSD and eating disorders, when in pretty much every queer art space I've been in, >30% of the posts will be vent art by transmascs.
and i see it IRL too, where i just get constantly fucking traumadumped on by transmascs who barely know me. but whenever i suggest to anyone that either myself or another trans woman i know might be having a shit time also, I get dismissed.
I am maddened by the sentiment that a lot of transmasc people i have met hold that trans women are somehow ignorant of the trauma or oppression they go through, or the fact that they are more likely to have things like CPTSD and eating disorders, when in pretty much every queer art space I've been in, >30% of the posts will be vent art by transmascs.
and i see it IRL too, where i just get constantly fucking traumadumped on by transmascs who barely know me. but whenever i suggest to anyone that either myself or another trans woman i know might be having a shit time also, I get dismissed.
I am maddened by the sentiment that a lot of transmasc people i have met hold that trans women are somehow ignorant of the trauma or oppression they go through, or the fact that they are more likely to have things like CPTSD and eating disorders, when in pretty much every queer art space I've been in, >30% of the posts will be vent art by transmascs.
transmisogynistic transmascs are so funny when they say shit like "these evil trans girls doing forcefem encourages transmascs to detransition" because it's not only untrue but just complete terfesque projection. nobody wants transmascs to detransition more than transmascs and it shows with the way so many of y'all are so determined to cling to your cagab and be perceived as women who are pretending to be men 🤷🏿♀️
i think part of the reason that "trans men dont have male privilege" has become so popular (other than a refusal to accept trans men ARE men for real and not some fake simulacrum, among many other things) is that 'male privilege' is seen by many as a sort of abstract omnipotent superpower that has to be consciously enforced specifically by cis white men and not like. a systemic force built into the foundation of the societies we live in and grow up in.
I’m certainly not the first transfem to bring this up but there really is something to be said about how tmes arguing with trans women will suddenly and irrelevantly bring up their own personal trauma as a way to shut down any disagreement. I.e. once the trauma has been laid out any further disagreement with their initial argument can be framed as diminishing or even celebrating their trauma. I’ve seen this happen too many times not to notice a pattern
i know this is like obvious why it would be like this, but it upsets me that no matter how scared or upset i obviously am no one really registers it and just gets angry at me for doing things slowly
at my shul there's this thirty six year old trans guy who just kinda trauma dumps on me whenever we're both there and also frequently alludes to the fact i am trans despite the fact i am stealth to everyone except like admin + rabbi, and I know if i actually expressed any sort of disapproval or displeasure, and asked to be left alone i would face some kind of meltdown.
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this isnt a new observation but it strikes me again and again how pretty much every progressive, 'trans accepting' space i come across both centres trans men/ masculinity over literally any other group , while also never actually viewing trans men as actually being men.
If you dare suggest that trans men are men, and both that they are not morally infallible because of their CASAB , and hold male privilege, you will be called an unsafe person.
it really does feel like as fascism ramps up, a lot of men, and TMEs more generally , wanna be ben shapiro in 2015.
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