I Have No Idea

But, I’m figuring it out <3

[lesblob]

i see so many posts about wanting a strong gf, but how about we can be the strong gf?

[aliny-ssuu]

Study

[creekmotel]

[blackwatersinkingship]

When I finish this whale shark lamp all 4 of you are gonna be So I'm pressed

[blackwatersinkingship]

She glows now, just so you know, and she's full of string deliciöusee string

[god-sent-gender-bent]

Are you gonna show us the lamp? 👀

[blackwatersinkingship]

Good news! Whäle shark lämp 🥰

[hollyevolving]

A lot more than 4 of us are impressed

[anxietyproblem]

[zero-two-ten]

this site has one setting

[jenroses]

I’m laughing, but there’s a super useful corollary, which my husband calls “the Red Balloon.” He was a defense lawyer and had a fair number of drug addicts come through, and there is a thing where if you’re like, on your first offense, they’ll do a thing where you can go to treatment and if you complete it they’ll take the conviction off your record.  And he would tell his clients, “Look, everyone’s going to tell you not to do drugs. They’re going to say it over and over again. And it’s like, if people tell you not to think of a white elephant, you’re going to think of a white elephant. But the trick to not thinking about a white elephant is to think of a red balloon. So you need to find your red balloon. For some people it’s yoga. For others it’s woodworking. For some people it’s scrapbooking or gardening or any of a long list of things to do. They focus on that, it’s a lot easier to succeed in ignoring the white elephant.” So yeah, “watch yourself” is one thing… but the better idea is to watch something else. (Even if it’s fanfic about werewolves fucking.)

It’s a form of productive dissociation, and is super, super helpful. It’s easy for me to get bogged down in how much pain I’m in… but some of the most painful periods of my life have also been the most productive, writing-wise, because writing is one of my red balloons. 

[kittydorkling]

There is a phrase I use A LOT in my parenting and my son gets very sick of it, but it’s true:

The thing you practise is the thing you get good at.

You may not intentionally be practicing “being grumpy” but if you don’t put effort into practicing “not being grumpy” then I’m afraid that’s what you’re doing. It’s hard! It’s really hard! Sometimes, for some things, it’s pretty much impossible and that sucks!

But being carefully aware that you are going to get good at the things you do most of is a good way to be more careful of what those things are. If that makes sense.

[bogleech]

You gotta appreciate sometimes how tumblr works in such a way that everyone who wants to reblog this interesting or useful psychological advice is also forced to reblog the thing about werewolf fucking

[izbnart]

Made a mouthwashing animation yayyy

[izbnart]

Disco Elysium animation 🕺

[micahulrichdraws]

An incredible spin on my original design, "Lost", by the talented Dana Firenze. Absolutely lovely.

Y'all know it - I'm not a tat artist, but I’m always cool with anyone getting my work done. I just ask that folks consider supporting my work by picking a tat flash or something up from my web shop if they are getting some ink done! Thank you! 🙏

[greenfinchg-illustration]

🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

My next Pride art. You guys suggested Melinoë and Nemesis from Hades 2.

I drew the background traditionally while melting in my room, using acrylic gouache and colored pencils. Afterward, I added the characters digitally.

I really like the traditional & digital mix. I should do that more often.

[spicyraeman]

tumblr is very rude for making me make a censored ver of this

[bluesky/pillowfort (NSFW)]

[the-cuix]

[haaarpb]

On one of your character descriptions for Hopper it says that Hopper has a pet rat.

But we've never seen Hopper's pet rat!

I wanna see Hopper's pet rat pretty please with a cherry on top and some sprinkles and some hot fudge

[skipppppy]

I was cooking on twitter today

[skipppppy]

More. No married woman is safe

[awakefor48hours]

"You should create for yourself" and "it's okay to feel discouraged when creating your own original projects if no one interacts with them" are two sentences that should be able to co-exist with each other

[awakefor48hours]

On the one hand, you should kill that capitalist in your head that tells you to make art only for the enjoyment of other people. On the other hand, it's totally fine to be disappointed that you spent hours or even days on something that only got 4 notes. You can feel both ways.

[otterloreart]

ok then why didnt you

[otterloreart]

In honor of this post getting way too many notes i made this

Shes dedicated to all the people who missed the point

[otterloreart]

some people really aren't getting it so i need to clear something up, let me hold your hand through this

^^^THE SAME COMIC. THESE ARE ALL THE SAME.

[spicyraeman]

we yearning

[waterdroid]

more powerbanks pls pls pls

Just for you, Anon. The Tactical Pool Wizards,

(she IS having a bit of a heatstroke)