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"Pride month is over"
WRONG! Your pride month is over! Me and all the other disabled queers are having pride month two: disability edition
Reblogging this again bc people in the notes are asking a lot of "Am I included? Am I disabled if I have x?" and I just wanted to add the flag here to show people who the pride month is for.
This is the new flag, the old one was more vivid and in a z shape, but it's been made more neutral to be inclusive of people with seizures or sensory issues.
Each stripe represents a different aspect of disability:
Red: Physical disabilities
Yellow: Cognitive & intellectual disabilities
White: (And this is the key one I think) Invisible AND undiagnosed disabilities
Blue: Mental illnesses
Green: Sensory disabilities
If you're autistic or have ADHD? this is your pride month. If you have a mental illness, it's your pride month. If you're hard of hearing, this is your pride month. If you have an autoimmune disorder, this is your pride month. If you are not diagnosed with anything but you know something is up with you: THIS IS STILL YOUR PRIDE MONTH.
wait this is my pride month chat. happy pride month to people who share this pride month with me this is awesome woohoo pride month 2 electric boogaloo
Aw fuck yeah the tism counts
Bringing back the lockscreen I made for myself last year!
happy birthday to us !
Button that demonstrably does nothing one hundred percent of the time.
There’s no reason to press this
But what if the odds are “99.999…” and I’m the “….01”%?
Forgot to put this on the poll itself but if you vote please reblog for a bigger data set!
Michael Schneider
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the rudest most helpful thing anyone ever said to me is "why do you keep hurting your own feelings long after [the person who once hurt you] probably forgot about it" like literally just dear god you've split me open so neatly my entire soul is just flopping around on the ground between us now but thank you
Just fyi if you're autistic/adhd and struggle specifically with this sort of thing, please know what what might be happening is something called perseveration, which is a common neurodivergent behavior that can include, among other things, revisiting emotions repeatedly and being unable to break loose from processing or managing stressful events.
Don't keep hurting your own feelings. But don't feel bad if you get stuck there, either. Something else could be going on.
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i just saw a post on reddit titled "the writer is cooking but the food doesn't agree with me" and it was about OP clicking off a fic because they don't like the direction it's going in. slightly different context but can we all be more like this reddit OP. i think "the writer is cooking but the food doesn't agree with me" should be the new "don't like don't read." dead doves may give you diarrhea but don't make that everyone else's problem.
Inspired by recent events
it used to be 2007 you know
All the adults should put in the tags how old they were in 2007
The person I reblogged this from deserves happiness and love
im kind of in love with people. today i got takeout from this little place in the next town over with the best fried dumplings ever and my dasher got to my door and went out of her way to apologize for forgetting the drink id added to my order. ahe bought me two pepsis to make up for it and she left with an extra seven dollar tip.
theres a regular where i work at taco bell. she comes in almost every day for happy hour (one dollar medium drinks) and two burritos. she's the sweetest woman ive ever met and the entire crew views her like a grandmother. she leaves the drive thru saying "bye baby! have a good day" it fills my heart with warmth every time.
a woman came in the other day, saw me dancing to the music one of my coworkers was playing (sweet escape is good song, i should listen to it more) and she told me itd made her day a little better. told me to keep on dancing. im gonna be thinking abt her and wishing her well for a long time.
on my birthday my manager brought in cake. i hadnt properly celebrated my birthday in three years, and i started crying because id never felt more cared for. she didnt have to do that, i still have the little rainbow candle she used.
i dunno why im making this post, but i know the point is that people should appreciate the little things more often. it makes life worth living when everything else feels like its on fire.
one time i was in an olive garden bathroom and my packer fell out of my shorts and this ten year old boy just looked at me with absolute terror and without thinking i said "that's what happens when you don't eat your vegetables" later i saw him eating salad at a speed no human should be capable of
sometimes i dont feel like learning about something by researching it myself so ill ask one of my friends who loves to research and they'll get so excited to tell me what theyve learned that the thing then makes me think of them so i wanna learn on my own too. i think thats love tbh
Turn based sex. Take as long as you need to think of a strategy.
HINT: his pussy is weak to fire magic.
Pepper spray his pussy
Do not.
Not that anybody asked, but I think it's important to understand how shame and guilt actually work before you try to use it for good.
It's a necessary emotion. There are reasons we have it. It makes everything so. much. worse. when you use it wrong.
Shame and guilt are DE-motivators. They are meant to stop behavior, not promote it. You cannot, ever, in any meaningful way, guilt someone into doing good. You can only shame them into not doing bad.
Let's say you're a parent and your kid is having issues.
Swearing in class? Shame could work. You want them to stop it. Keep it in proportion*, and it might help. *(KEEP IT IN PROPORTION!!!)
Not doing their homework? NO! STOP! NO NOT DO THAT! EVER! EVER! EVER! You want them to start to do their homework. Shaming them will have to opposite effect! You have demotivated them! They will double down on NOT doing it. Not because they are being oppositional, but because that's what shame does!
You can't guilt people into building better habits, being more successful, or getting more involved. That requires encouragement. You need to motivate for that stuff!
If you want it in a simple phrase:
You can shame someone out of being a bad person, but you can't shame them into being a good person.
Fun fact, that was literally what inspired me to make this post!
