It is absolutely bonkers to me that there are people out there who expect a grown adult on one online platform to be responsible for the actions of other grown adults on a different platform just because they're friends.
Like, if I'm having beef with the behavior of someone acting grody on a platform and say something about it, it's fundamentally insane to punish my friend on another platform for it just cause the grody ass person I'm pointing out is on that other platform, too.
Bonkers.
I'm grown. I make my own evaluations about behavior I see on the platforms I frequent. I may ask friends if they are seeing the same things I am or if I know they might be able to provide additional context, e.g. having personal experience with that individual, but they have no say in what I say about it, nor do I have say in what they may say.
Not all of my friend groups overlap, but most of us do have pointed opinions about exploitative behavior and will independently call it out.
If my friends or I see a problem person, we're gonna say something.
Point blank, period.















