carpe natem

Dany  | 35  | Nonbinary genderfluid fox witch (they/them)  | Scottish  | Pansexual  | Scorpio  | Feminist  | Anti-Fascist 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🏴‍☠️🇵🇸 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 pfp by my wonderful boyfriend @fletchfeathers

[sleepyquietgirl]

I feel like I am taking crazy pills

[a-sort-of-femby-philosophy]

not fake unfortunately:

Harry Potter fans force relocation of £430m undersea cable to avoid Dobby’s ‘grave’

Power cable linking UK and Ireland now passes near Bronze Age human burial remains instead of fictional grave on Welsh beach

[nothorses]

Dude it's so much worse

[pjharvey]

[i-draws-dinosaurs]

fanart :)

[danniiiyyyl]

it's the same picture

[beyondthisdarkhouse]

When I was in therapist school one of my profs said, "A lot of trauma needs 10 or 20 years before it's really ready to be worked through. Maybe longer." And at the time I was like: Oh Shit. I planned to be over my trauma and all better by the time I graduated!

Anyway, that was 10 or 20 years ago and jesus fuck, she was right.

[punkjabi]

[konoko]

[sicknastyjr]

Your 20s are not about getting your life together they're about learning to escape the self imposed torture labyrinth you've built inside your own head

[thewindowofthesummerhouse]

karina refrynn

[chaotic-neutral-knitter]

I think one of the kindest things you can do for people with various mental health struggles is just... let people back into your life after they've been absent for a while.

Making friends as an adult is so fucking hard already and isolating yourself from other people is a very common symptom of depression, anxiety, burnout, ocd, trauma, grief, etc. Which means that someone will do the hard work of recovery/healing and resurface back into a world where their previous friends have written them off because they stopped showing up.

So if you know someone where you're like "yeah we could have been better friends but they fell off the map a bit" and that person suddenly reaches out, or starts showing up to events even though you kind of forgot they were still in the group chat... well they may have been Going Through It and you don't actually have to punish them for their absence you can just be glad that they're back.

[quadriviummuse]

Needed to hear this today.

[taraljc]

as much as I cannot handle being perceived yes this tracks

[ohwhatagloomyshow]

do you remember why you followed prev

yes :)

no :)

Voting ended onJul 23

[rars]

well-written women who narratively suck are like crack cocaine to me. hello shitty little woman do you need some crumbs of love that you've clearly never been given? lol

[mousegirlheart]

Look, i know you said the problematic thing over a decade ago, have been squeaky clean ever since, aren't like that anymore and have grown as a person, but I'm only just finding about it now, so it's basically like it just happened so i gotta persecute you and harass you out of your community. You understand :)

[caspercryptid]

I feel like not enough people realize that people under enormous strain act really really fucking Weird

[laterkiss]

sorry i never replied or called back there's something very lonely inside me

[alaskanay]

American Kestrel | Raptors of North America

[danniiiyyyl]

@fletchfeathers

[dogpuppy]

[aflawedfashion]

Lucy Lawless

[frenchfrysplash]

Lucy FLAWLESS

[phoukanamedpookie]

Reblogging again with further thoughts because this GIFset is a beautiful illustration of how to do it right.

Lucy Lawless makes her stance very clear. There’s no need to dig for context clues to see that she’s committed to her LGBT fans. She nips the homophobes right in the bud by flat-out refusing to let them use her words to ridicule and alienate LGBT people.

This is an area where a lot of would-be celebrity allies fall short. They think that not using slurs or actively discriminating against LGBT people means that their words and actions can’t contribute to creating an environment that empowers and emboldens the homophobes within their fanbase.

Tepid statements like “love is love” or “no h8″ or “I support LGBT people” don’t do much to counteract notions about how gross, dangerous or ridiculous LGBT people are. There needs to be a clear, strong, consistent statement about one’s stance toward LGBT fans. Otherwise, it’s just giving homophobes more ammo.

[trupowieszcz-moved-deactivated2]

r/scrungycats is fucking amazing

[fruityfinch]

This one is my favourite. It’s subtle. It’s contemplative. This cat has so much to consider