And the thing about my aromantic identity for me is that I don’t identify as aromantic because I don’t experience romantic love but rather that I actively *choose* to love somebody. It does not come easy to me. I will not be able to explain to you what love feels like to me. It’s just. Emptiness. Not there. I quantify love with actions. I can decide if I love you. I do love you. I made the decision to love you. I would make the decision to stay with you, to take care of you and be there for you and even if I don’t feel that butterflies in my stomach sensation or like I can’t breathe when I’m not with you, I would still choose to love you. Because that it what, love, at least the romantic kind is for me. Actually, it’s the same for all forms of love. To me. Idk where I’m going with this





















