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[darkpotatooo]

If you cheat, I'm not cheating back. My loyalty will hurt you in the end.

[girlwhoisgoingtobeokay]

from rayne fisher-quann’s latest substack post

[b-beams]

Plain text: The process of becoming yourself is not a corporate desk job, and it is not homework, and it is not an unticked box languishing on a to-do list. You do not have to treat your flaws like action items that must be systematically targeted and eliminated in order to receive a return on investment. You have no supervisor; you should not be punished when you fail. Your job is not to lock the doors and chisel at yourself like a marble statue in the darkness until you feel quantifiably worthy of the world outside. Your job, really, is to find people who love you for reasons you hardly understand, and to love them back, and to try as hard as you can to make it all easier for each other. 

It’s hard, certainly — it’s painful and exhausting and fundamentally terrifying to rip yourself open and leave the guts at the mercy of the people you choose to love. But if I know anything, I know this: It’s better than being alone. 

[achillesinhighheels]

[wetheurban]

Don’t let your empathy rob people of experiencing the consequences of their actions.

[perfectquote]

“Sometimes you end up losing yourself trying to hold onto someone who never cared about losing you. Know when to let go.”

— Unknown

[minimalistquotes]

In the end, we all just want someone who chooses us. Over everyone else, under any circumstances.

[minimalistquotes]

The disrespect at the end was louder than every good memory we ever had-and that's when I knew I was done.

[perfectfeelings]

“I don’t pretend to know what love is for everyone, but I can tell you what it is for me. Love is knowing all about someone, and still wanting to be with them more than any other person. Love is trusting them enough to tell them everything about yourself, including the things you might be ashamed of. Love is feeling comfortable and safe with someone, but still getting weak knees when they walk into a room and smile at you.”

— The O.C.

[ss-writess]

“You didn’t lose me suddenly. You just made it easier to leave, one decision at a time.”

[silent-insanities]

This season of life has brought me so much rain.

[quoteastic]

I've reached the point where I don't care anymore. I know I'm a good person. I'm not forcing anyone to see my worth.

[nonewriter2000]

"Perhaps the problem is not the intensity of your love but the quality of the people you are loving." -Warsan Shire

[oncce-againn]

Once u find your person there’s nobody else you want

[mypoeticsoul-ny]

"Love should not feel like a negotiation of your worth."

If this resonates, you’ll find more on this topic here → Red Flags in Relationships

[quoteastic]

My heart is so big that even after you hurt me, I will still try and find the good in you.

[minimalistquotes]

Forgive yourself for all the wrong things you did just to be loved.

[vexheart]

I’m in love with this sentence:

“Don't let someone ruin your peace just because they can't find theirs.”