D.D.L.G.

waiting for someone special to come in my Life! Music is my Passion! I always Respects GirLs by my SouL.!! wanna know more about me? simply Kik me @koh_17

[tonberrykitten]

Caregiver 101: Rewards and Punishments (NonSexual Ver)

I am still debating whether I should do something that adds sexual stuff to it as I am a safe place for all littles. Maybe you guys can reply to this and tell me if you think that is acceptable.

Welcome to my new CG 101. I am TonberryKitten and while I am not a CG I do research things. I do talk to other people and get what they have to say too. This will be a list of rewards and punishments along with some things that might be rewarded or punished for. These will be nonsexual! If you would like to add to this you can reblog, send an ask, reply, or message me and I can make edits.

Rewards

Honestly, I am a big fan of earning points and chore charts/wheels for prizes or extra privileges. Positive reinforcement and incentives always help me to do better. However you can also reward your little for just being especially good one day…or maybe they did something like getting good grades…the possibilities are endless.

Reasons for rewards:

-Good grades

-Does Chores

-Having a good day

- Accomplished a good deed

- Accomplished a goal or milestone

-Good habits (eating healthy, drinking water, ect)

- Healthy hobbies (Gardening, art, ect but in moderation)

- Limiting unhealthy habits (Obsessive things, too many sweets, ECT)

- Sometimes it is good to just give rewards just cause!

Trackers

Here are various ideas that you can use to keep track of good and bad behaviors. These are really good if you are using a point like awards system.

-Bullet Journals, Diaries, ECT- I personally have a bullet journal that I track my good and bad habits in and also my moods. I also have a points tracker in it so that I can keep track of my rewards

- Chore Charts, Sticker charts, Chore wheels - All good ways of keeping track of what they do. Let your little do the filling in and praise them after they do and they will quickly fall into a good routine.

- Monies! or as big people might call them…fake money, real money, or coupons. You can make your own Little Bucks that they can trade for various reward prizes.

- Fill the Jar - Use Marbles, Beads, candy, fake coins, ect to fill a jar. Kind of like a swear jar only for good things instead of bad. This is good double as a punishment too as you can take things out when they are bad.

Rewards:

Small - small toys, stickers, hugs, kisses, praises, trips to the park or ice cream shop. Something that isn’t going to break your bank and will be a quick reward for your little. Maybe have a few bought already and in a drawer or box and let them pick from it. Maybe even give them a set time that they can pick what you guys do together, pens and paper/notebook, coloring book, markers, crayons, blind bags or boxes

Medium - These will be a little bit more pricey and hard to get. Small stuffies, gift cards, Sets of things (Coloring book and crayons, new movie and popcorn), I am going to add more sweets in here while they won’t cost much you want to make sure they work for them since it not good for them to have too many sweets. Let them pick an activity like going to the movies or restaurant, a new game. Nice priced toys.

Large: Stuffies, new outfits, new play gear (if they are a pet), more expensive priced toys, something they want badly (Like I want a camera) 

Of course, there are still things like extending privileges, adding time to a bedtime. Adding more time on the phone, ect.

Punishments

Bleh! Nobody likes these :( however if you talk about the good you have to talk about the bad. Let’s give some ideas of reasons to punish, punishments, and what to not punish for and what shouldn’t be used as punishment.

Reasons:

I know I know some of these are obvious but I am trying to give ideas here. So here are some common reasons I think Littles are punished for.

- Bratty behavior or bad behavior

-Not listening

-Failing to do a chore several times or not doing it when asked

-Lying or hiding things

-Too much of a bad thing (Sweet sneaking)

-Failing to do self care out of laziness

DO NOT PUNISH FOR:

- Depression, anxiety, self-harm, illness:  if they don’t get a homework assignment or chore done because they were too depressed to get out of bed. Punishing them will only make it worse!

- Not accomplishing something due to conflict with time. If that final paper is half of their grade and they have to stay up and finish it that is fine. Not having time to accomplish a chore due to work or school is also fine but they should provide proof of this. Weigh what is more important.

Punishments:

-Scolding or warnings 

- Taking away a privilage (Phone, internet, ect)

- Taking away reward tracker

- Limiting time with CG (never ever remove time completely this is a really harsh punishment)

- Taking away of toys (Never their saftey item)

- Time out, Corner sitting

-Line writing

- Hand sitting, kneeling on rice, ect (These can be a bit painful)

-Spanking

- Soap, Hot sauce, Yuckies in mouth

For a few more details of a list you can visit my post here: [LINK]

DO NOT USE AS PUNISHMENT:

 - Do not take away a security item (blanket, stuffy, paci, toy)

- Do not threaten to leave

- Do not hit them anywhere but the butt and only open hand on butt

- Do not remove yourself for an extended period of time.

- Insulting or Cussing at a little is no way to get your point across. No mental abuse.

- Cutting or physical abuse in any way

- Doing anything that can cause a phobia. EX: Locking them in a tight space, dunking them under water, ect

ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS remember the importance of aftercare.

This is about all I can think of for right now. If you want to add to the list of have suggestions I am always open to hearing them! Send them in messages, asks, or replies to this post! I use the tag TonberryKitten101s for any of these that I do.

[werenotadulting]

Why I Love Being A Caregiver

1. Little cuddles are the best cuddles: When Littles do that thing where you’re spooning and they take your arm and pull it close to their chest? Yeah, that’s kryptonite for Bigs. I have a hard time sleeping when we’re not together for this very reason.

2. I need to be needed: I love the fact that I am one of the few things in the world that can make my Little’s day better. Taking charge and taking care of her is not only something that I do for her, but something that I do for me, which is exactly how I think a D/s dynamic should be.

3. Giggles: Somehow all Littles have this universal giggle they make, particularly when they’re being naughty. It’s diabolical and cute at the same time, which shouldn’t be possible! But no matter how adorable it is, you are still in trouble, little one.

4. Random messages: Whether it is random I love yous or late night texts for me to wake up to, my Little is always reminding me that they are thinking of me. I try to return the favor as much as possible, but I don’t think I could ever put into words just how much they mean to me.

5. A True Best Friend: I’ve had people that I’ve considered best friends before, but nothing compares to what I share with my Little. We share everything, don’t have to hide our true selves from each other, and we trust each other completely. While I may be the Caregiver, I know that I always have my rock to fall back on whenever I need it.

[daddy-for-my-gf]

Beautifully said, 👍. Number 5 really stands out to me. That total and utter honesty we have is the most amazing feeling. We have both spent years hiding our ‘secrets’, ashamed by them, embarrassed by them, some times even disgusted by them. Neither of us can change who we are, we also can’t change other people’s opinions of what we are, the past six years have been the happiest of my life, we no longer have to ‘hide’ .

Our relationship continues to blossom and grow rather than wilt and die, I love you baby girl so so much more than my limited vocabulary can convey! XXXX

[stay-f0r-awhile]

[structureandtacos]

Love advice.

[ddlgbl0g]

Little cute advise ^~^

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How do you care for a little who is violently ill (diarrhea, vomiting, etc.)?

First things first, plenty of liquids! Those kinds of symptoms lead to dehydration pretty fast, so perhaps a juice box or sippy cup of water? Wait a half hour after your little has vomited before giving them something to drink. The other important thing is rest. You want your little to be comfy and relaxed so they sleep the sickies away.  If their tummy is rumbly, something like peppermint or ginger tea can help, and there’s the usual honey and lemon for sore throats. You’re probably gonna want to start with the symptoms while making them comfy, so medicines and other remedies go here. You can set up a humidifier nearby their napping spot, give them an ice pack, a cuddly stuffie wouldn’t hurt, cough drops, anything that might help the sickies go away. I’m sure they wouldn’t mind having a story read to them. Keep a garbage can by their napping spot for when they vom again, and ask if they’ll need help getting to the potty. Comfort them as best as you can and then let them rest. ♥

(And maybe let them know I hope they get well soon)

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:D

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#02 Caring for little who's sick

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Tips for Taking Care of a Little When They're Sick

Even though winter is over, everyone in my area is coming down with a terrible head cold, so I put together this list things to help Littles feel better when they’re sick.

1. Humidifier

This is just one example of the many cute humidifiers on amazon! Dry air can cause sore throats to be even worse, and having moist air can help with congestion.They have all different kinds of animals. I recommend checking the reviews and finding one that suits you best. 

2. Sore Throat Lollipops 

Most cough drops taste terrible and they’re difficult to get grumpy Littles to want to take. These are made with honey and taste great. There are a lot of different kinds of these types of lollipops so try a lot of different types until you find the one you like best. 

3. Aromatherapy Stuffies

These stuffies are full of a microwaveable grain and lavender and are very versatile. They are nice to microwave and put on your chest to help with congestion, but they’re also great for cramps, sore muscles, or even stress. These can also be put in a plastic bag and put in freezer if need a cold pack. 

4. Fever Stickers

These are fever indicator stickers. You just place them on the forehead and they change color based on the temperature. I think they’re really handy because you don’t have to wake up your Little to check their temperature. If you’re anything like me though you’ll want to take the sticker off and restick, or you’ll want three of four all over your face. 

5. Thermometer Paci

If you can’t count on your Little to not pull the stickers off, this may be a better choice. Getting a grumpy Little to hold a stick under their tongue for a long time isn’t always easy, but give them a paci to suck and they’ll be a lot happier. 

6. Medicine Paci

I’ve never used this but I do think it would be a good idea. Taking medicine is the worst and this may help with the actual taking of it. If any of you have used this let me know. 

7. Fever Cooling Sheets

The Disney designs are what sold me on this! This is perfect if you a Little taking care of yourself or if your caregiver can’t be there with you. Normally I would say a cool wash cloth on your head is just fine, but if no one is there to re-dampen it with cool water it is a bit bothersome to have to get out of your cocoon and do it yourself.  

8. Baby Vicks

Regular Vicks is always way too strong for me, I feel like it burns my skin, and never want it near my nose. This baby vicks is great because it has the same decongestant properties of regular vicks without as much burn. Plus having some one apply it is really soothing and makes you feel loved! 

9. Pedialyte Freezer Pops

If you or your Little is dehydrated these are the best possible cure. These are especially good if you’re hung-over and the taste is better in the freezer pop form than just the regular liquid. Most places have these in the baby aisle, so just one more reason to wander along and look at all the cute things.  

10. The Usual Stuff

This is whatever you or your Little finds comforting. Disney movies, stuffies, footie pj’s, and sippy cups. We all know how important it is to drink plenty of fluids, and to rest when you’re sick. Alphabet soup is a good idea too.

I hope this list is helpful to all the Littles and Caregivers out there. Feel better soon! Feel free to add your own tips! 

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Wish I had this stuff when I was sick 😭

[daddyfoxandlilbunn-deactivated2]

Dese are such good ideas!! It’d make any little feel so smol!!

[ddlgbl0g]

Stuff to comfort little when sick 😊 Really nice list of stuff to care for little

[its-my-sub-journey]

6 Things I Wish I Would Have Known When I Was a Baby Sub

I’m going to preface this post with the disclaimer that I have not been active in the D/s lifestyle for very long. I’ve only been actively involved for about 3 years. However, throughout those 3 years, I have learned SO much. I feel like it’s only right that I should impart a little bit of knowledge that I wish I would have know when I was just starting out. 

As I’ve said in previous posts, I write strictly from my own point of view and experience. I’m always open for respectful discussion and debate about anything about which I venture an opinion.

So without further ado….

1. Abusive behavior can masquerade as Dominance.

I have heard many, many stories of submissive women who have ended up in abusive relationships. Many so-called “Doms” use D/s, or rather the appearance of it, to manipulate and abuse their partners. It took me YEARS to leave my abusive partner. I was young and naive and I mistook domineering for dominant. Controlling for being in control. It is very easy to make these mistakes. If you find yourself making excuses for your partner or rationalizing behavior that has made you feel anything less the respected and valued, it’s time to rethink your situation.

Always remember - SAFE, SANE, and CONSENSUAL. If any one of these conditions is not being met, RUN, don’t walk away. 

2. It’s not all about sex.

I will be very honest and say when I first started, I had been so sheltered, I though D/s was a bedroom only kind of thing. I didn’t know anything about it beyond the kinky sex. 

D/s is about a power exchange. One partner willingly submitting to another who agrees to take on the responsibilities of guidance and protection. The sex is just and outward manifestation of a relationship built on trust and respect. 

In theory, you can have D/s relationship that is entirely asexual. I personally couldn’t do that, but I believe there are couples out there who engage in relationships of that sort.

3. Building trust takes time. 

I can just see a bunch of you rolling your eyes and saying, “Well, duh! That’s a no-brainer.” So let me qualify a bit. When I, and many others, first started, I wanted to do as much as I could as quickly as I could. I believe the phenomenon is known as “sub frenzy.” 

You get a little taste of what you’ve been searching for, sometimes without even knowing you were searching for it, and you want more and more and more and you don’t want to wait for it. You’re so eager to experience the fulfillment you’ve desired that you lose sight of what is safe and sane. You can put yourself in situations that are downright dangerous. 

As difficult as it is. Wait. Take the time to build trust with your Dom. Trust Him to know when and how far to push you. 

4. You can not have a D/s relationship that is devoid of emotion.

I think there are some who may disagree with me on this, however in my opinion and my experience, I believe it to be the absolute truth. 

In a power exchange, as a submissive in a power exchange relationship, you are opening yourself, not just physically, but also mentally, emotionally, psychologically, and even spiritually. You’re going to push limits. You’re going to explore boundaries. You can’t do that without having a tremendous amount of trust and building a deep and lasting bond. 

5. D/s doesn’t always have to be serious.

While there is always a serious aspect to a D/s relationship, it doesn’t have to be all the time. It’s ok to want to laugh with your Dom. It’s ok to have a sense of humor when things don’t go quite right. 

For me, I have found that laughter is one of the best forms of aftercare. Laughter can be just as cathartic as crying. 

Being able to have fun within you power exchange, in whatever way works for you, is a wonderful expression of the trust and respect you have for one another.

6. COMMUNICATION IS KEY

I saved the best, and most important, for last. This is another one of those no-brainer items, but I cannot overemphasize this. 

You should ALWAYS have the ability to talk openly about your feelings, your anxieties, your hope, your desires, and anything else you feel is important. If you don’t feel safe asking questions, or expressing concerns. Or if those questions and concerns are dismissed and ignored. GET OUT!

[stillaninferiorfeministcunt-dea]

Laughter is so important!

[chicagodomdaddy-deactivated2017]

I like what she’s saying.

[sweetheartkandi]

All valid and true

[ddlgbl0g]

True Aspect of D/s Relationship!

[lejacquelope]

Feminism done right.

[ddlgbl0g]

SPREAD AWARENESS !!!

[princess-of-crayons]

My Reward System

Okay. So. Whether you’re a little without a CG or a CG who has no idea how to care for a little, odds are you’ve at some point had trouble figuring out a point system that works! This is the one I used when I was a little and may use again when I find a little!

There are a few categories. Each category allows you to earn a certain number of points.

Sleeping: 8+ hours = 10 points 7-6 hours = 8 points 5 hours = 5 points 4 hours = 2 points -4 = 0 points

Eating: (Note: To be considered a meal there has to be some sort of veggie, grain, and protein!) Ate 3 meals = 10 points Ate 2 meals = 5 points Ate 1 meal = 2 points

Drinking Water 8 glasses = 10 points 7-6 glasses = 8 points 5 glasses = 5 points 4 glasses = 2 points -4 glasses = 1 point 0 glasses = 0 points

Other: (This category should be tailored to fit you individually! I’ll include mine as an example though.) Did homework = 8 points Room was clean at the end of the day = 5 points Showered = 1 point Washed face twice = 3 points Brushed teeth twice = 3 points Exercised or danced = 3 points Read a chapter of a book = 1 point per chapter

You’re supposed to aim for a certain number of points a day. Like, 30 points is good, but 40 points is great! If you reach that, you can cash it in for small treats, or you can go the extra mile and get 250-300 points total for the week!

Rewards: Extra desert = 40 points Pack of stickers = 40 points New stuffie = 100 points New coloring book = 100 points New onsie/diaper/binkie= 300 points

The points for the rewards are set really high so that rewards still feel special, and you don’t have to break the bank, haha.

I hope this helps someone out there! Best wishes!

[baby-bxy]

I really like this!!

[ddlgbl0g]

Reward System

[chatoyer-en-rose-deactivated202]

can you please explain how a daddy fetish works. like ??? why would you call someone ur dad ?? like is this stemming from daddy issues? do you want to be an adult baby???

I don’t have daddy issues. My real father is wonderful, I love him a lot. No issues there! Ddlg is about being taken care of. Being adored. Feeling small, needed, and wanted. It’s about having your daddy there when real life gets too overwhelming. It’s an escape. Personally, I believe the sexual aspect has to do with that need as well. You NEED your daddy to please you, and that turns you both on. It’s not about pedophilia or incest at all.

have a great one!! ~

[ddlgbl0g]

Daddy aspect

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[sheistgawd-deactivated20210215]

Pure unadulterated filth

[ddlgbl0g]

WoW 😍 Basket ball

[bubble-gum-princess333]

Journal Update #1 :

This is page one in my Princess Journal! This is something Daddy and I have worked on together, both making compromises. I thought I would share with other Littles, especially since Princess Journals are so cute.

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Princess’s Rules : 1. I belong to Daddy and nobody else. He is my Master and my Owner.

2. Daddy’s word is final; Unless Princess can convince Daddy otherwise.

3. I must always look cute. No exceptions. (But Daddy always thinks I’m cute!)

4. Daddy must always know where you are. Always ask to go out.

5. Collar must be on at all times. (Unless Daddy says otherwise.)

6. Sex: However, whenever, no matter what. Because said so.

7. Never purposely provoke Daddy. Trust, respect, ask, and be honest with Daddy.

8. Dress in a way that makes Daddy happy. Daddy must always approve all outfits.

9. Always tell Daddy when you are upset. (So Daddy can take care of you!)

10. I am the most beautiful girl in the world! It must be true; because Daddy said so.

[ddlgbl0g]

Rules!

[sagepeach]

non-sexual forms of intimacy

hugging. hand holding. watching tv/movies together. going on dates. sharing drinks. talking. phone calls. skype/facetime calls. sharing personal details. touching noses. deep talks. sharing smiles. laying your head on their shoulder. linking arms. massages. tickling. sharing smiles. playing with hair. tracing designs on backs/arms. handwritten notes. laying your head on their chest to hear their heartbeat. singing/playing instruments together. dancing. sharing food. brushing their hair. feeding each other. drawing/writing on one another. cooking together. reading together. beauty treatments like makeup or face masks or manicures. taking care of them when they’re sick. head-scratches. sleeping next to each other. butterfly kisses. nuzzling. meditating together. sharing stories. bathing together. seeing each other completely comfortable and relaxed. moral support. crying or being emotionally vulnerable with each other. sleepovers. going on trips together. sharing clothes or other personal items. going with them to appointments. making art together. kissing. talking about the future and what you want in life. play games together. respecting boundaries and communicating. complimenting. inside jokes. going out to eat. just accepting and loving that person completely.

[ddlgbl0g]

Non-sexual forms of Intimacy 😊

[bunbunandkitty-blog]

Long Distance DDlg Masterpost

Play Together

Yahoo Games

OMGPOP

Guess A Sketch

Pogo

Kiwi

Color Together

Flock Draw

CoSketch

iScribble

Hardcore Tic Tac Toe

Other

Wavelength - Listen to music

Surfly - Browse together

Rabbit - Watch something

Mobile

Jenga - Play

LokLok - Draw

Choremonster - Keep track of chores

Couple - Everything in one app

Articles

All The Tech You Need for a Successful Long-Distance Relationship

lovingfromadistance.com

21 Best Tips On Making A Long Distance Relationship Work

20 Life Saving Tips For Anyone In A Long Distance Relationship

19 Long-Distance Relationship-Aiding Inventions

8 Weird But Possibly Helpful Gadgets For Long-Distance Lovers

[princessdragonettesdaddy]

My Little and I arent long distance anymore but a lot of these look like they would have been fun so reblogging for those of you who are ^^

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@daddyscomfort51

[hisprincesscheeky-blog]

I’m not long-distance but reblogging this for those that are :)

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This is so cool!

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Yesss

[daddy-loves-his-kittens]

For all my long-distance followers☺️

[ddlgbl0g]

Long Distance Tools 😊

[daddyspetite-deactivated2016082]

How to be the Perfect Daddy in 10 Steps!

So I met this Daddy who shall remain anonymous on his own will on Tumblr and we went to Kik to talk more and be friends. After a while, he told me that he’s new in the community and he asked me to make some guidelines on how to be the perfect Daddy. I started to do it on Kik, but I felt like Tumblr should know this too. Keep in mind that not all Littles are the same, some Littles have different demands, but this is basically what a lot of Littles look for in a Daddy. Also, since I’m a girl, I’m making those guidelines for Little Girls, but I feel like it can also be applied to Little Boys.

Food. And by food I mean chocolate. Or strawberries. Or her favourite food. Who doesn’t love food? But keep in mind that a free supply of her favourite food this should be immediately interrupted with bratty behavior or rule breaking.

Cuddles. Tenderness. Caring. Loving. Anytime, anywhere. Do not hesitate to give cuddles, talk about your feelings, tell her how much she’s important to you, how pretty she is, how adorable she looks in this dress etc. If you want to say it 24 hours a day, say it 24 hours a day. She will not get enough of it, I promise you. Cuddling is requirement to most Littles.

Be firm when needed. Learn how to balance tenderness with harshness. You’ll know when harshness is demanded. And by that I mean: when she’s being bratty, breaks a rule, doesn’t take care of herself or anything that you can consider bad behavior. But that should be discussed between the two of you.

Your Little will be needy, get over it. She will call you at 3am in the morning to say she had a nightmare. She will ask you to hold her when you’re watching scary movies. She will tell you she loves you 30 hours a day, ask you to watch cartoons with her and talk to her stuffies. She will want bedtime stories. If you’re not ready for that, give up on being a Daddy and try other BDSM relationships. And I don’t mean it in a bad way, I mean it in the kindest way possible.

She might be an adult, but she’s a kid/teenager in the heart. Therefore, if she does not live in Little Space 100%, she will need it eventually and that can take hours, days or a week. Sometimes, she gives up on being a grown up and wants to regress. It’s normal. That does not mean she can’t function as a normal adult, it only means that every once in a while she’s going to regress. Please be there for her when that happens.

Make rules. They should be decided between the two of you, but make sure she follows the rules. If she does not, punish her. As punishments, you can make her stand in the corner, write lines, do a task she hates (like cleaning, for example) or, the most famous, spanking.

Reward her. If she’s being a good girl, always give rewards. Always. And it doesn’t matter with what. Food, a walk in the park, a bubble bath with pink bath bombs, a trip to Disneyland, a night in with movies and snuggles. Just make her happy. If you do it everytime she deserves it, she’s going to be a good girl more often than you think. It’s fucking science, google it.

Take care of her boo boo’s. Her ouchies don’t necessarily have to be physical, they can also be psychological. Kiss them better, use Hello Kitty band-aids and tell her they’re magical healers and they’re fighting her boo boo agents in a battle to the death. Her Little heart will believe it, trust me.

Talk. Let her talk. But don’t just let her talk, talk to her too. Trust her like she trusts you. Take a time of the day to let her say how she really feels without being punished, judged, spanked or receiving bad reactions. Let her talk about a thing you did and she didn’t think it was fair or something bad that happened at work or school. Understand her. Just let her talk sometimes and talk to her too. Use a safe word to do that or establish an hour of the day. Do not ever let her get sleepies when she’s sad. Also, don’t you ever get your sleepies when you’re sad. Talk to each other. That will improve your relationship 100%, trust me.

And most importantly…

DO. NOT. IGNORE. YOUR. LITTLE.

EVER.

IN YOUR LIFETIME.

E. V. E. R.

If you do that, you are not a human being worthy of life and you should not breathe because you might infect real Daddies with your rotten soul. Fuck yourself and go back to Hell where you belong.

[ddlgbl0g]

Important Tips to be a Good Dadddy Dom !

[whispymilk-deactivated20181117]

☆. sfw long distance suggestions °☆

there comes a time when a game of 20 questions over skype just doesn’t cut it anymore so here are some fun, safe ways you can interact with your partner/friends while you’re miles apart!

✿ send snail mail ✧ care packages | fill a decorated/themed box with snacks or trinkets for your partner! ✧ crafts | make homemade jewelry, hand-painted picture frames, or coloring pages for each other. bonus if you video chat while making the items ♡ ✧ baking | treats are always fun to receive in the mail. make sure they arrive withing 48 hours or freezer seal them so they stay fresh. like the above suggestion, you can also video chat while baking each other pastries. ✧ subscriptions | sign up to have children’s books or toys delivered monthly to younger ones & hobby magazines or foreign candy to older ones. ✧ pen pals | send letters on cute stationary back & forth to each other. you can even write on the same paper like a continued journal entry (or mail an actual notebook)!

✿ share a screen ✧ movie night | ‘rabbit’ is a site that lets you watch movies in a private chat room with up to twenty-five people. there’s even a webcam feature that allows you to video chat during the movie if you’re on desktop. ✧ binge watch | with the ‘netflix party’ chrome extension, you can watch netflix shows & movies in a private chat room. both people need the extension, but only one needs a netflix account. ✧ surf the web | browsing the internet is a great time-waster & even more fun with a buddy. ‘same surf’ brings all the wacky sites you visit right to your partner’s screen! ✧ studying | if you need extra help with that literature paper due tomorrow, ‘typewrite’ allows both users to edit documents in real time.

✿ touch each other ✧ applications | ‘avocado’ allows you to send hugs through your phone by touching your screen to your heart while ‘couple’ allows you to send a what they call a thumbkiss ♡ ✧ bracelets | if you’re willing to throw down some money in the future, wristbands like ‘taptap’ will hopefully become a option. even though they aren’t available yet, it’s still a neat idea if you’d like to back some kickstarters!

✿ social media ✧ instagram or tumblr | create a shared spam account you can both post on, privately or publicly! ✧ snapchat | ten seconds is the perfect amount of time to quickly cheer each other up during work or school ♡ ✧ facebook | create a shared page for a hobby you both enjoy. 

✿ phone applications ✧ sing! karaoke | this app allows you to record videos of yourself singing & send it to someone else. that someone can then record their version & it’ll be mashed together into one recording. ✧ trivia crack | a quizzing app that tests your random knowledge against another player, friend or stranger! ✧ doodle with buddies | this is basically an all-ages, online pictionary game without the board. it’s very fun for the inner artist! ✧ apples to apples | if you remember playing this is elementary school then this might be nostalgic. it takes the classic card game & puts it into a multiplayer app, although it does require a facebook account to access friend features.

✿ miscellaneous ✧ see the world | ‘earth cam’ lets you watch live feed of different locations everywhere, but for the ones who’d rather explore without the crowd, ’360 cities’ will give you both a virtual vacation. ✧ read a book | ‘story berries’ is great for reading to the young ones over the phone during bedtime. ✧ brush your teeth | a simple task, but two minutes of brushing your teeth together over a video chat just might make your morning (or night). ✧ keep their scent | if you have a chance to see each other, trade pillows or a worn sweater before you part again! you can even buy each other potted plants to take care of ♡

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Long distance sfw tips

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Fighting with Daddy

Me: Fight me!

Daddy: Angel you cant fight me.

Me: Ill beat you up!

Daddy: ....

Me: Put em up!

Daddy: You cant even go to sleep in the dark without me, so shush up and give me a kiss.

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Daddy Issues

Daddy: *making sandwich in kitchen*

Baby Girl: *Head pops up from below counter*

Daddy: *continues making sandwich*

Baby Girl: *pats Daddys leg*

Daddy: Yes love?

Baby Girl: *pats leg more*

Daddy: Use your words, love

Baby Girl: Please?

Daddy: *cuts off a piece of cheese*

Baby Girl: *giggles happily and opens mouth*

Daddy: Here you go, baby *feeds cheese*

Baby Girl: *chews happily and runs off to color*