Dove-darlin

♡ Please don't eat me ♡

[deaddovedarlin]

Hey! My name is Dove! 🌈⚔

I am a 19 year old transexual trauma holding part in a disassociative identity disorder system, I was born in May of 2000. This blog centers around my pro-para and anti-censorship opinions, if that makes you uncomfortable: please just block me.

Here's some things about me: I'm an ex-radqueer (refer here [link] to see why I left), I'm a self-shipper (my f/o is a self insert of an idealized version myself), I'm a proud recovering paraphile, I'm a radically inclusive vampire-fruit bat (kin), I'm a medium-to-low support needs autistic person, and I'm bisexual. I would like to apologize for my tone, sometimes I come across as passive aggressive and I do not mean that at all! I use tone tags as best I can.

Anti-contact paraphiles are safe here!

Therians/nonhumans/alterhumans/etc are safe here!

Personality disorders of any kind are safe here!

Any person is welcome here as long as they do not harrass or encourage eugenics. Yes, even that group

If you're rude, disturbing of my peace, or otherwise making me uncomfortable: I'm just going to block you. This will save both you and me the trouble.

I vent on here occasionally. Mostly about sexual abuse, bc, well, I'm a sexual traumaholder lol. They are subject to being deleted.

My loved boyfriend — @maggot-rotten

Simply Plural: DeerOutcasts

[just-antithings]

[demonprincex]

yall mind if i just

[demonprincex]

people hated this one in 2017

[satanicblowjobs]

Proving a point to my boyfriend.

PLEASE REBLOG if you (male or female) believe it is perfectly okay and natural for a guy of any age to cry

[satanicblowjobs]

Proving a point to my boyfriend.

PLEASE REBLOG if you (male or female) believe it is perfectly okay and natural for a guy of any age to cry

[deaddovedarlin]

My sister has a crush on my boyfriend with how I depict him in art lol

[fr34kpet]

agefreaks, sadomasochists, cult leaders, psychos & junkies, Please interact 😇💗🌈 it’s all for you!

[myfandomrealitea]

Antis try to argue that fiction affects reality saying that representation matters, but they're contradicting themselves. Most fanfiction has some kind of representation (mostly queer) but they don't count them as actual representation, because they know it doesn't have the same reach as, say, a movie or TV series, and yet they argue that fanfic portraying something bad will have a huge impact??? I swear, they don't even think before talking

My favorite thing is when people try to argue that fiction absolutely does reflect reality but every single example they give is when reality is affecting fiction. Reality dictating what is depicted in fiction, and not the other way around.

That or when their only go-to example of fiction actually affecting reality is Jaws.

[rosesforwildwitches]

The thing that antis usually miss is that while fiction absolutely does affect reality, it's very often not a direct "X is depicted in one popular show, therefore the public does Y action IRL in response". in reality that process is more like "this general trope is super widespread in the vast majority of media in a time and place and is never really outright questioned or deconstructed, so for people growing up in said culture their perception of reality and of certain demographics and actions is colored by the stories they see as inspirational, and since all of them take X action/social attitude/worldview as a given/the default without ever explaining it or examining it's morality or affects on others, people in real life see those things as a given and 'just how the world works' and repeat it and all of its harms without ever considering the affects". That's why the lack of queer representation outside of explicit villains and the lack of Black representation outside of slaves or hired help was so harmful in TV and film; those were the only roles anyone from those demographics was ever seen in for 60+ years in popular media, and combined with the social attitudes around them, people began to anticipate that those were the only social roles people in those groups could possibly fill in real life. Every character doesn't have to be a perfect morality tale and every minority character doesn't have to be a shining paragon of justice and progress and perfection to justify their own existence and to justify the existence of oppressed people to those in wider society, as if we need to act like perfect angels 100% of the time in both reality and fiction to deserve not being institutionalized or abused or killed. We just need more characters to appear in popular media that include us generally, and we need them to not all basically be the exact same character as a trope.

[handydandysketchbook-deactivate]

dress up!

[bluebeardsfinalgirl]

when internet people are like “i love gothic literature but i hate anything that discusses incest, sexual violence, oppression, misogyny, abuse, torture, gore, murder, or death”

[bluebeardsfinalgirl]

no actually me and everyone else who’s ever watched crimson peak were brainwashed by guillermo del toro into believing that incest and violence are cool and awesome. sorry

[maidenvault]

Horrifying that this pearl-clutching over horror actually being dark is unironically becoming A Thing…

[the-lunar-warrior]

(tags via @waterandsilver, id in alt)

[faunafemme]

Pride season is approaching and if I hear ANYONE speak poorly of bisexual women with boyfriends/husbands I’ll pop all your tires okay thx for listeninggg <3

[procrastiel]

Same goes for bi men in relationships with women, kthxbye

[bass-pro-ship]

antis when a post is about them: there's no way this post is about me right

[assassinbugs]

Have you ever hallucinated?

yes, for outside reasons (drugs, gas leak, etc)

yes, because of a fever / other illness

yes, because of sleep paralysis

yes, because of a mental illness / neurodiversity

yes, for a reason not listed above

yes, but I don't know why

yes, for multiple different reasons

no

Voting ended onMay 30, 2024

[scarycranegame-deactivated20251]

guys. guys listen.

if you wanna write and/or post a fanfic but are worried that no one will like it.

do not be worried. at all.

because even if no one else is interested, YOU are. you enjoy this idea. you're passionate about this concept. you should write for YOU, not for potential critics.

and even besides that, i guarantee you that there's at least 1 other person out there who would also enjoy your fic. it's essentially statistically impossible for you to be the only person on the planet who thinks the way you do, and enjoys the themes and ideas and characters and settings that you do.

write it. post it. take pride in the fact that you created something that you value. your fic exists, and that in of itself is amazing.

antis dni, this isn't about you or the graphic threats of harm you send to real people whom you dislike. get a real hobby.

proship/comship/profiction/etc. safe!

[deaddovedarlin]

I forgot I was trans for a second and got confused when someone called me my dead name 💀

[yanoyan-deactivated20241112]

(NSFT, MDNI) ❥ imagine your shipcest parent f/o keeping your mouth shut with their hand during sex, not because they need you to be quiet, but because they'd cum too quickly if you moaned "daddy"/"mommy"

[prolaroids]

5 reasons to not say "child porn" or any of its variations:

It implies that CSEM production, and CSA overall, is based on attraction.

It implies that CSEM production has an element of consent.

It implies that CSEM production is transactional.

It implies that CSEM survivors are in the same social category as "porn star" stereotypes.

It has a reductive tone, esp when looking at the more informal variations.

CSEM (child sexual exploitation materials) or CSAM (child sexual abuse materials) are appropriate terms. It makes me really happy to see them being used, and I know I'm not the only one. If you use them, thank you.