I just made you up to hurt myself

[yvtro]

yeah they reconstructed your image in grief so severely that it's barely recognisible. your fate aligns with the distorted reality they produced now btw. sorry about that

[lombardoink]

Quote from Dan Sheehan

[wvterways]

[wormbus-art]

[wormbus-art]

[collectyoursoul-deactivated2022]

you’re attached to the memory not the person, read it again.

[muppetmagic]

the simpsons + my favorite lgbt+ moments

[ginsengstripper]

[arospecvibes]

hate how “platonic” is a term that people laugh at

like it’s typically used in a setting to contrast romance vs what’s “lesser” or “just” something else

like if i say i love someone very much platonically, most would take it as a denial of romantic attraction as opposed to. yknow. me just expressing the way i love somebody that has Zero association with romance.

idk man, i don’t need people to laugh at me when i say i love how i connect with someone platonically because apparently we only say that when we’re secretly romantically attracted to them and just totally denying it.

i want to say “aww this is so platonic, i love it!” the same way people say “aww this is so romantic, i love it!” but y’all know i’ll be laughed at lmao

can they just. actually recognize platonic love and platonic attraction please. it’s not a step down or a step up from anything and it is certainly not solely an absence of romantic (or sexual) feelings.

platonic is beautiful. platonic is lovely. and i will celebrate it however i please.

[fragrant-stars]

*through gritted teeth* it doesn’t have to be perfect, it just has to be done. it doesn’t have to be perfect, it just has to be done. it doesn’t have to be-

[lateforcakes]

big ole comic about adult ADHD diagnosis + big feelings + making sure childhood me is okay

[evastraea]

Courtney Love Prays To Oregon by @clementinevonradics

and also inspired by Bite The Hand by Phoebe Bridgers, Lucy Dacus and Julien Baker

[sunlit-mess]

No matter how long it has been, it is a tendency I can't get rid of

[strangestcase]

genuinely ill NEVER forgive Tumblr for equating "intrusive thoughts" with "impulsive thoughts"

intrusive thoughts are things you'd never do. they're what you fear the most. they're the actions you find most disgusting and vile that your brain fires at you to make you feel bad. they're a symptom of anxiety and obsessive disorders, such as OCD.

I used to have them like way too often back at high school and whenever I had one, I legitimately wanted to die. I won't go into detail but if you know me, you'll know what sort of stuff is what I find most evil. well, my intrusive thoughts consisted of my brain going "you're going to [extremely evil and disgusting thing] to [random person, or worse, person you care about and respect]". immediately after I always went "that's horrible, why am I thinking this? I must be the worst person alive!" and feel terrible, but I never talked about it.

intrusive thoughts arent funny or quirky.

intrusive thoughts can never be put into action.

if you want to put sudden, out-of-nowhere thoughts into action, those are IMPULSIVE THOUGHTS. impulsive thoughts are normal and happen in any mind. they can be messy or bad but they're just thoughts.

equating intrusive thoughts with impulsive thoughts has lead to two very bad ideas:

that intrusive thoughts are stuff like "eat leaf" or "smack belly" when they are stuff like "hit that person" or "say a slur"

that people want to put intrusive thoughts into action.

as a result, you get people going "DNI IF: you get intrusive thoughts about raping children" like my dude... my guy... intrusive thoughts about raping children... are a symptom of POCD... and POCD is an indicator that you hate pedophiles more than anything to the point the thought of being one and not knowing it yet terrifies you.

also: this shit has gotten pedophiles to shield themselves with "they're just instrusive thoughts uwu" like nO. people with POCD DON'T want to think about raping kids. you, however, love doing it. if you do find yourself enjoying your "intrusive thoughts", 1) they arent intrusive thoughts 2) go to therapy ASAP.

[clubsprout]

tomorrow’s gonna be just fine. that conflict you’re having with your friend will blow over. no one secretly hates you. the world is not out to get you. it’s ok to feel stressed out. it’s ok to crack under pressure sometimes. you are perfectly capable of enduring whatever life throws your way. everything will be alright. you’re gonna be ok.

[getloudr]

Planned Parenthood got LOUDR 🔊 @ Tumblr

WHO THEY ARE:

Planned Parenthood’s mission is to ensure all people have access to the care and resources they need to make informed decisions about their bodies, their lives, and their futures. Founded in 1916, Planned Parenthood is a trusted health care provider, educator, and passionate advocate in the U.S. as well as a strong partner to health and rights organizations around the world. Each year, Planned Parenthood delivers vital sexual and reproductive health care, sex education, and information to millions of people.

WHAT THEY DID:

🩺 On October 1, 2021, Planned Parenthood partnered with Tumblr to rally supporters for abortion justice and defend access to abortions at 539 rallies in every state.

🩺 On September 3, 2021, Tumblr and Planned Parenthood partnered up in response to a Texas law that came into effect September 1, S.B. 8., effectively banning abortion in the state and asking private citizens to act as bounty hunters who “enforce” the law.

We made the following calls to action along with the graphic below:

Ways to take action:

Hit the ❤️ and 🔁buttons to share this post

Make sure your voice is heard by signing this petition

Give your community a little ✨razzle-dazzle ✨with this poster

Make a donation: Text “Texas” to 22422 or visit wearepp.org/Texas

P.S. Check out @plannedparenthood's Tumblr blog

[mintywhisker-deactivated2021053]

a while back i read a post along the lines of “if you feel like everyone hates you, it’s time to rest… if you feel like you hate everyone else, it’s time to eat” and honest to god i’ve never used any piece of advice more than i have that one

[daughterofthestars]

I always add on “if you feel like you hate yourself, it’s time to take a shower” to turn it into a trifecta.

[funnytwittertweets]

[elizabeth-dicewielder]

Okay but according to my therapist there’s literally scientific reasoning for this. It depends on your circadian rhythm, but on average after 9pm your emotions are just more sensitive than during the day. You shouldn’t have conversations dealing with conflict after 9, you shouldn’t engage with potentially triggering content after 9, and you sure as hell shouldn’t trust your judgement. After 9pm just consider your brain done. Either do something to make yourself happy or go to sleep if you can

[melioristmint]

[Image Description: A tweet by divorced monson (drewmonson7) that reads: I made a new rule: Never trust how you feel about your entire life past 9 pm. End Description]