Lillith+pluto in synastry and progressed synastry
When lillith touches pluto in synastry of natal charts, we can have a good idea on how she'll play out in this connection regards to lillith energies (see Lillith in a man's chart here).
When we talk about her in progressed synastry, we can see what we are dealing with right now. At this time period within the relationship.
So what can come to us when those two dark forces are match with each other? Whatever this energy goes, it will always be intense.
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Pluto is known for being a cold planet, kinda like the ice planet, the outcast, distant from the sun. But science actually discovered that underneath this ice shield it has running water. He has depth under the darkness. When with lillith, we have a dark marriage bringing transformation (soulmate or pluto obsession? Here). As they are being outcasted and denied, they have a lot in common.
Lillith conjunct Pluto in synastry -
Along with the square, the conjunction is the most intense aspect between lillith and pluto. It's instant pull and magnetic drawn. It's gonna feel like you're mirroring each other in your parts that are repressed because of shame, guilt or simply because they are not openly accepted, or you think they wouldn't. So you Will feel like meeting your dark counterpart for the dark things that you may like, or having similar traumas. It can be a love to slasher movies or the same weird kinks in bed. This compatibility in sexual manners can be quite intense, a lot of times at the edge of passion/obsession. If you or the other person has a heavy natal pluto already, it can play out as "i am obsessed with doing this with this person". Your have to let yourself experience this dark side along with this person because if you don't (because you are afraid, or because you don't think that's the right thing for you), the conjunction will push this thru your interaction with this person. So if that's not what you want don't go further. Learn, grow and move on, because it will become overwhelming. If you are ready for it, prepare yourself to the hard times in that path too, since the intense feelings don't make a perfect relationship, and if the other parts of synastry do not match, you can see yourself in a dificult situation. It's the nature of pluto when found a lustful object, wanted to merge and have lillith for himself. But lillith can't be tamed down. So that's the negative in the conjunction, or whatever lillith pluto interaction, actually. So work to integrate the shadow side to make the relationship stronger. You can see who they truly are.
Lilith conjunct Pluto in progressed synastry
At this time period you can discover things you both have in common that you don't show to everyone. Things that are kept underneath, sometimes things you feel that no one else get it. This person can understand this. But when this shadows are showing themselves its a moment that things can be really scary. Being vulnerable that much with someone is scary. So in order to maintain some control over this, you have to be aware that you can, even uncosciously, try to control the other in some way. But when It comes to pluto and lillith they will both want to control and not being controlled. So let things flow and make sure this is someone you can trust. Work to integrate the shadow side to make the relationship stronger. They can see thru you at this time.
Lilith trine/sextile Pluto in synastry -
"i understand because i can feel it"
The trine and sextile are the aspects where the interaction between lillith and pluto are "smooth". Smooth, because you still have the intensity but things are easily in harmony. You can understand each others needs and flow with that. And you will like to be seen, as this person as well. Even if the synastry has a lot of breaking points, sex will be amazing and the connection be "diferent". You can stay long periods without talking or interact with each other, but when you do, it will be like nothing changed at all. You Will likely want to open up, and how this will be you can discover watching the other planets around pluto. (Mercury - thru conversations. moon - thru emocional moments....). So by knowing this person on a deep level, you will understand where they came from and why are they like that. You can point it out to them, and they will appreciate it and see this in a new perspective.
Lilith trine/ sextile Pluto in progressed synastry
At this time you and/or your partner Will want to be seen for who you are. You Will want to show this person your true colors. And its a time to be vulnerable and let it flow. You can have insights thru their perspective of yourself.
Lilith opposite Pluto in synastry -
In the opposition, the intensity we see in the conjunction need some alone time. So it has the push and pull dynamic, like 'go away, now stay here, go away i don't know you, come close i see myself on you" kinda vibe. But unlike the conjunction, this dark parts you can see in each other are similar but opposites in some way. So its not the parts you "hide from the world", but the parts of you that you hide from yourself and you don't want do acknowledge. This person will show them to you. So if you don't want to see this in yourself you will likely feel threatened. "Why is this person acting like this?", "Why are they like this?". Use your complementary pain to discover yourself. And remember that this can play out in collective issues as well, like roles in society, feminine x masculine dynamic. The sex is awesome.
Lilith opposite Pluto in progressed synastry
At this time in the relationship this person may have an opposite way to do the same things you does. You have to try to understand that different type of action and remember that its for the same goal. If one of you don't do this, you two can have power struggles at this time. Lots of sexual chemistry.
Lilith square Pluto in synastry -
The sexual chemistry here is out of charts because there's lots of tension and passion between you and this person. Sex is likely to be at the forefront If this is a romantic relationship. If it's not, the tension can play out as love/hate feelings, but always intrested in each other. This person can easily rob you in the wrong way, so It can be some repulsion feelings but the magnetism is high. So you can be fascinated to your own fascination with this person that you see as so diferent from you. So, unlike the other aspects that can be smoother, you can feel like "i see this person and i have something in common, but they do it in a way that i would never do". So in the negative, you can resent each other for it, or resent yourself for thinking this and still wanting to be with this person, because here, the shadows can be exposed in a way you don't like it. It is hard enough them being exposed in a smoother way...right? So you can imagine...How hard it must be if you are not ready to face some parts of yourself. Don't forget that you can use this for your own growth, which is likely why you feel such a strong pull to this situation. But every person is diferent, and you have to see that this person wants a good outcome like you do.
Lilith square Pluto in progressed synastry
You will be trigger, or trigger this person at this time. Make sure this moments are for better growth of your relationship and yourselves. Think about your actions and words and if they could hurt the other person, but in the square you can actually say those things thinking you are not doing in such a way, but what you said was exactly what would really trigger them. It's crazy! At the negative, It can be a vicious cycle time, like you say something they are triggered, but you didn't mean that, they will feel bad and "pay you back", só you do the same....But you can heal each other a lot during this time and make your relationship stronger If you can see that pattern and then this time will force the two of you to know your differences and how to manage that in the future.
