♡ demigirl-offical ♡

[demigirl-offical]

A friend of mine has come out as a demigirl, but is just suffering through dysphoria. I really want to help them, but i don't know how best since I don't really experience dysphoria... at least i dont think so--but this isn't about me. this is about my friend. So I just wanted to ask if you happen to have any advice for someone who's very recently figured out they're a demigirl?

Hi sorry it took me a while to respond!

I'm so sorry that your friend is suffering with dysphoria 😢

Here are some things that might help from personal experience (or from close friends' experiences) and from online.

If they're feminine and trying to appear more androgynous:

I don't have heaps of experience with dysphoria(I myself only recently figured out I was a demigirl), but something I recommend is cutting your hair (if it's possible for them to do that). I haven't cut my hair yet, but I plan on doing it, and I have friends who have felt a lot better after cutting their hair. Your friend can do some research online for androgynous haircuts.

Another thing that might help is wearing a binder (or something that has similar effects, because I know binders can be difficult for people to acquire, especially for young people). If they can't get a binder, I've heard some people use tight sports bras/tight singlets instead.

Dressing more androgynous is also very helpful. I recommend having them look up inspiration (Pinterest is a good way to find inspo). I've heard the cut of a shirt can also be quite important, so looking into that could be a help to them.

If they're masculine and trying to appear more feminine/androgynous: (You didn't specify so I decided to put tips for both) I really don't have any personal experience with this so pretty much all of this is stuff I've found online

I've heard shaping your brows can help you appear more feminine? They could look at some tutorials online. Also just wearing some light makeup in general, ie: mascara, blush. Just subtle things like that (because I realise not everyone can wear obvious makeup)

Wearing jewellery can also be helpful, as well as painting nails, and things like that.

Dressing more fem/androgynous

Some things that might help them feel better, even if its not visible to other people/other people might not notice:

Wearing fem/masc undergarments (depending on what they want to appear more of)

Shaving/not shaving (legs, arms, armpits, etc)

Using more feminine/masculine scented hygiene products such as soaps, conditioner, deodorant, etc.

I hope this was helpful for them, and I'm sorry I couldn't give more personal advice <3

[offical-verse-games-offical]

And your districts!

Forgot to tag some!

@sarcasm-offical

@ireland-offical

@no-one-offical

@music-assigner-offical

@demigirl-offical

@cupid-official

@north-korea-offical

@gaslight-offical

@cool-guy-offical

@lame-guy-offical

@satan-offical

@jesus-offical

[demigirl-offical]

omgg this is cool!

[demigirl-offical]

there isnt a isoggender official... and i love isogender so much should i make isogender-official???

omg YESSS 100%.

[isogender-official]

HEHEHEHE I DID ITTT

[demigirl-offical]

YAYYYYY WELCOME TO THE CLUBBB

[demigirl-offical]

there isnt a isoggender official... and i love isogender so much should i make isogender-official???

omg YESSS 100%.

[demigirl-offical]

Hello fellow demigirl, how did you realise you were a demigirl? :3

Ahh, good question!

For me, it just started as a strong urge to look androgynous. Like I wanted so badly to look androgynous.

Then I started using she/they online to see if I liked it, and then I asked my friends irl to start using they/them (because I felt like if I said use she/they they would probably default to she and I wouldn't be able to tell if I actually liked they/them)

The first day I asked them to use they/them, I felt really happy with they/them and so I thought "Oh, maybe I'm just non-binary", but then the next day, they were still using they/them(as I had asked them to do), and it didn't feel wrong, but I just kept feeling surprised when they used they/them instead of she/her.

And so after that, I was really confused, because I thought maybe I had been imagining how good it felt when they used they/them on that first day?

I didn't tell my friends yet though, so they continued using they/them for me, and I just kind of ignored the fact that it felt kind of odd.

But then, after about a week, I was at school, and someone (not one of my friends) used she/her for me, and I didn't realize at first, but it like tripped me up. Like I couldn't stop thinking about it for some reason. And then later that day my friends used they/them and I was like "wait that feels so much better".

So now I was really confused. Later that night I ended up looking into it a bit more, because I knew people who were genderfluid, so I was like "maybe that's me?". Except it was only between she/her and they/them, so then I looked into that and found the term Girlflux.

So from then on I started using the term Girlflux to describe myself, but I ALSO use demigirl, because 1. I feel like both fit me, and 2. Lots more people know what Demigirl means than what Girlflux means.

SO in conclusion. I use they/she pronouns as a default, because my pronouns change every day or so, and so I don't want it to be too confusing for my friends and other people around me. But if there are any days where she/her feels wrong, and one of my friends uses she/her for me, I'll just subtly mention "Hey, could you try and use they/them today for me?" and luckily they're all super understanding!

[daycare-offical]

Intro Post

We are the Offical Officalverse Daycare!

We take care of all young officals that (oh so desperately) need care. We also provide parenting and childcare advice, as that is our specialty. Feel free to send us an ask if you have any questions!

Here at the Officalverse daycare we value intellectual as well as social and emotional development and finding a sense of community for all the little ones in the Officalverse! We hope to teach, support, and of course welcome new officals to the world through the best (and only, as far as we know) childcare available.

Officals we are currently caring for:

No one as of yet, since we just opened. But don’t worry! We’ll have the place crawling with youngsters in no time!

Feel free to sign up (whether it is for yourself or for a young offical you’re worried about) by simply asking us (through any means) if there’s a spot open!

We wish for all Officals to grow up in a loving, welcoming environment!

@kid-offical @baby-offical @child-offical @satan-offical @satans-autistic-officals-autism @satan-offical-autistic-offical @satans-mum-offical @britain-offical @lemon-offical @lime-offical @carl-offical @human-offical @real-human-offical @offical-democracy @offical-potato @demigirl-offical @demiboy-offical @homosexuality-offical @no-one-offical @nonbinary-homo-offical

[demigirl-offical]

Ah! Hello! I am a new offical blog! Would I be welcome in the Officalverse Daycare?

[daycare-offical]

Every offical is welcome to the Officalverse daycare! Signing you up right now!💙💜🩷

[demigirl-offical]

yayayayayay!!

[daycare-offical]

Intro Post

We are the Offical Officalverse Daycare!

We take care of all young officals that (oh so desperately) need care. We also provide parenting and childcare advice, as that is our specialty. Feel free to send us an ask if you have any questions!

Here at the Officalverse daycare we value intellectual as well as social and emotional development and finding a sense of community for all the little ones in the Officalverse! We hope to teach, support, and of course welcome new officals to the world through the best (and only, as far as we know) childcare available.

Officals we are currently caring for:

No one as of yet, since we just opened. But don’t worry! We’ll have the place crawling with youngsters in no time!

Feel free to sign up (whether it is for yourself or for a young offical you’re worried about) by simply asking us (through any means) if there’s a spot open!

We wish for all Officals to grow up in a loving, welcoming environment!

@kid-offical @baby-offical @child-offical @satan-offical @satans-autistic-officals-autism @satan-offical-autistic-offical @satans-mum-offical @britain-offical @lemon-offical @lime-offical @carl-offical @human-offical @real-human-offical @offical-democracy @offical-potato @demigirl-offical @demiboy-offical @homosexuality-offical @no-one-offical @nonbinary-homo-offical

[demigirl-offical]

Ah! Hello! I am a new offical blog! Would I be welcome in the Officalverse Daycare?

[totally-cis-offical]

Tag game!

Go to this site(emoji 8-ball by xkcd), click “ask” and post how you will die here

I got ⚡️, so I’ll get electrocuted

@14-opossums-in-a-trenchcoat @b0ys-will-be-bugs-right @trans-girl-weird @trans-offical @random-jojo-reference @krisdreemurr-offical @janedoodlee @fishinatreeofficao @sometimes-cis-offical @chaoticharmony15 @iliketoschmooveit (+open tags)

[14-opossums-in-a-trenchcoat]

🍀🐇

My friend's rabbit (who likes clovers) will Eat My Soul

@the-sun-of-endless-ash this is your fault

@perturbedalmondmilk @the-silly-creature @turtlereefsoul13 @ruler-of-nothing-important @adinosaurwithtinyarms @troupesys @blooooooooooooooooooooooooop @c0nstantlyscreaming @dejunitize @cranberry-branflakes @famous-last-wordzz @kris-preservation-society @aroace-not-arokay @candiedcasts @mymissalicorne @angel--pop @science-demon @dreamless-cosmos @0vercl0cked-m4ch1ne @chaos-triangle

(random mooties + new moots I still haven't added to the moot post)

(no pressure ofc)

Open tags !

[ruler-of-nothing-important]

🐌🚃🐺

What.

Okay i think i got it:

i see a cute snail and theres a train thing coming so i go to move the snail but then a wolf jumps off of the train thing and kills me.

@what-is-going-on-im-confused @blacklicoriceisgood @hauntedmoontimetravel @sparklywafflefry @stargazin-on-mars @its-oliver-bitches @purple-dinosaur17 @duality-the-chaos-god @snowheartart @avhira +open tags sry sry

[snowheartart]

🏈🐛

TF? How DO I die?

@sourgummy @cutelover76

[cutelover76]

☔️🐲

Guess I thought fighting a dragon with an umbrella was a good idea. 🤷‍♂️

@stargazingdustbunny @daliatheportalmaster @smileything @minnesotamedic186 @hoshi-neko-hikari @ambulance-mom

[stargazingdustbunny]

🏡

Either A. I die at home and peacefully in my old age or B. I get the wicked witch treatment

@tilnavann @dorky-vest-incarnate @verysociallyakward @bunnyinatrenchcoat @liviedaltonvintagedoll

[alucardshousespouse]

\* mun for @bunnyinatrenchcoat here :3 😭 \* i go out crying that's fun @tulipisagarden @theguybehindthechair @thesufferer-mothham @donkoogrr * and anyone else who wants to join !

[tulipisagarden]

🌎⛳️

What is that supposed to mean...??

@m0n5t3r-3n3rg7 @silly-little-arson-frog-offical @silliest-tax-evader @critterpede @luniimunii27 @cinnamon-does-wacky-shit

[silly-little-arson-frog-offical]

😇

do... do I get raptured or something? Either that or my guardian angel gives up and stops saving me from the dumb crap I do.

(Also ty for the tag)

@the-pineapple-offical @cia-offical @pavement-offical @/open tags

[pavement-offical]

🚫⛽️

hey idk if I like this game anymore

[mountain-offical]

🎈

um.. i get dragged to space by a helium balloon?

@tgirl-offical @gaslight-offical @racoon-offical @zizzy-kitty

[gaslight-offical]

Someone is going to spike my coffee, and it'll be the death of me. For shame.

@girlboss-offical @gatekeep-offical @sweden-offical @lies-offical @vengeful-unholy-ghost-offical @real-human-offical

[vengeful-unholy-ghost-offical-d]

I fight a snake with a shower hose

@death-offical @demigirl-offical @lemon-offical

[demigirl-offical]

pretty straight forward I think.

@arson-offical is this your doing?? 🤨

[demigirl-offical]

Hello, new offical!! I love your profile pic!! It’s very cute!!

Have a wonderful day/night!! Make sure to hydrate and eat something today!!

-@random-citizen-offical

tyy!!

I hope you have a wonderful day/night as well! <3

[demigirl-offical]

Very surprised there isn't already a demigirl offical blog?? Like what?? Maybe there is and I'm stupid and I missed it but until I find another one I'm gonna make my own!

(Obligatory new offical blog tags under the cut)

@satan-offical @whitenailpolishoffical @blacknailpolishoffical @homosexuality-offical @autism-offical @adhd-offical @asexual-offical @fish-offical @lesbian-offical @bisexual-offical @aroace-offical @mlm-god-offical @wlw-god-offical @sappho-offical @ao3-offical @wattpad-offical @aromantic-offical @elvis-offical @hallucinations-offical @nonbinary-homo-offical @watermelon-offical @ur-least-fav-gal-offical @cactus-offical @arsenic-offical @arson-offical @period-offical @orlando-offical @cishet-offical @aesthetic-offical @compy-offical @gatekeep-offical @gaslight-offical @girlboss-offical @america-offical @brazil-offical @australia-offical @cyanide-offical @knife-guy-offical @thing-offical @nblnb-god-offical @zest-offical @sensory-hell-offical @gay-uncle-offical @offical-offical @wine-aunt-offical @blorbo-offical @lie-detector-offical @typo-offical @mental-illness-offical

[gaslight-offical]

I've seen about 20, actually. But hello!

[demigirl-offical]

Help I was so confused for a second until I saw ur name 😭

[demiboy-offical]

new official i guess. he/they/blade.

@demigirl-offical @tgirl-offical @tboy-offical

[demigirl-offical]

hiii!

[demigirl-offical]

Very surprised there isn't already a demigirl offical blog?? Like what?? Maybe there is and I'm stupid and I missed it but until I find another one I'm gonna make my own!

(Obligatory new offical blog tags under the cut)

@satan-offical @whitenailpolishoffical @blacknailpolishoffical @homosexuality-offical @autism-offical @adhd-offical @asexual-offical @fish-offical @lesbian-offical @bisexual-offical @aroace-offical @mlm-god-offical @wlw-god-offical @sappho-offical @ao3-offical @wattpad-offical @aromantic-offical @elvis-offical @hallucinations-offical @nonbinary-homo-offical @watermelon-offical @ur-least-fav-gal-offical @cactus-offical @arsenic-offical @arson-offical @period-offical @orlando-offical @cishet-offical @aesthetic-offical @compy-offical @gatekeep-offical @gaslight-offical @girlboss-offical @america-offical @brazil-offical @australia-offical @cyanide-offical @knife-guy-offical @thing-offical @nblnb-god-offical @zest-offical @sensory-hell-offical @gay-uncle-offical @offical-offical @wine-aunt-offical @blorbo-offical @lie-detector-offical @typo-offical @mental-illness-offical