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i suggest not dividing the trans community and treating transfem and trandmasc people equally, instead of treating trans women like shit.
well at least this one was sent to the blog i actually answer these on
anyway
i suggest actually looking at how i act yay
I didnāt steal it from isff and I didnāt misgender maidslime (I think that was its username?) on purpose
Some yall piss me the fuck off actually (first one was chill but like annoying but second one pissed me off majorly. I hate when yall mfārs say āoh waittttā or wtv like stfu this isnāt a gotcha youāre just being a bitch)
There was another one but my phones bugging so the screenshot didnāt save that was like āthink about how your words come offā and put some quotes of me entirely out of context (āI donāt have any biasesā and then immediately after that I said ok yes I do but not relating to this conversation, āim white butā and then immediately after that I said sheās a grown ass woman who is literally a lawyer bullying me on the fucking internet, āwe been known she was doing badā or wtv I said cuz yeah. We been known.? Whatās your provings there???
She being yay-bunnies obv
newest research suggestsa that its lpiterally against the rules to be mad at bunys
thats fucking right!!!!!
Breaking the rules everyday boys hell yes! Rules ā morals woo!!!
dont call me a bitch in the tags and dont block evade to get at me. fuck off.
Iām not??? Block evading??? Dawg I didnāt even know you blocked me I still see ur blog n stuff š¤· mb
bunny fact: discourse archive sideblog is am enemy of all bunnies everywhere
Enemy to myselfā¦ unfortunate but true lmfaooo
yourre just not a buny anymore.....
Ok fuck off then Iāll be a hare theyāre cooler anyway dickhead
Oh hi there weāre just saying it now again
What if I did it tn tbh
newest research suggestsa that its lpiterally against the rules to be mad at bunys
thats fucking right!!!!!
Breaking the rules everyday boys hell yes! Rules ā morals woo!!!
dont call me a bitch in the tags and dont block evade to get at me. fuck off.
Iām not??? Block evading??? Dawg I didnāt even know you blocked me I still see ur blog n stuff š¤· mb
bunny fact: discourse archive sideblog is am enemy of all bunnies everywhere
Enemy to myselfā¦ unfortunate but true lmfaooo
I think there's a thing to the argument that "people demonize testosterone as this horrible thing" but also this argument is 9 times outta 10 used against trans women being dismayed by dysphoria who arent actually saying this shit. Like, there are actual terfs trying to spread misinformation about T to dissuade transmascs from wanting it, a lot of fear mongering, but the people doing that are not the people getting shit for it. It's always transfems talking about how they feel having a T based puberty ruined their life or some shit. And I think that's the thing about the transandro groups that annoys me and just makes them look 100% like a transmisogynistic movement - they never actually target anyone that's actually taking part in the oppression of transmascs, it's always harassment campaigns against trans women. And if you scroll their blogs you find that the one or two times they do deal with terfs they treat them better than they treat trans women they disagree with and it's kinda telling.
Oh what a surprise she also doesnāt know basic transandrophobia theory and claims itās targeting trans women ok
EDIT LEMME CLARIFY IM SHE-ING YAY-BUNNIES not maidslime
You reblogged a person's post to directly address a seperate person who happ3ned reblogged the post? Really? Were you so rabid that you failed to consider the original poster to be a person? seperate from the one you've spent months (if not years) of your life cyber stalking?
Wait guys trying to find a specific post relating to yourself and then happening to legit see other posts means youāre cyber stalking whatttt
Also yeah I was referring in general to yay-bunnies cuz she sucks ass and is a bully that is not nice :3 (also months? Really? My whole thing is that I ignored her for months until SHE brought it up again lol and then I ignored it again until I wanted to check to see if she was still talking about me and then turns out she wasnāt anyway so Iām gonna go back to ignoring her)
Can you get off my post. I don't care about how you think a black trans woman deserved to be called a bunch of racial slurs.
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Alr wtv mate
I think there's a thing to the argument that "people demonize testosterone as this horrible thing" but also this argument is 9 times outta 10 used against trans women being dismayed by dysphoria who arent actually saying this shit. Like, there are actual terfs trying to spread misinformation about T to dissuade transmascs from wanting it, a lot of fear mongering, but the people doing that are not the people getting shit for it. It's always transfems talking about how they feel having a T based puberty ruined their life or some shit. And I think that's the thing about the transandro groups that annoys me and just makes them look 100% like a transmisogynistic movement - they never actually target anyone that's actually taking part in the oppression of transmascs, it's always harassment campaigns against trans women. And if you scroll their blogs you find that the one or two times they do deal with terfs they treat them better than they treat trans women they disagree with and it's kinda telling.
Oh what a surprise she also doesnāt know basic transandrophobia theory and claims itās targeting trans women ok
EDIT LEMME CLARIFY IM SHE-ING YAY-BUNNIES not maidslime
You reblogged a person's post to directly address a seperate person who happ3ned reblogged the post? Really? Were you so rabid that you failed to consider the original poster to be a person? seperate from the one you've spent months (if not years) of your life cyber stalking?
Wait guys trying to find a specific post relating to yourself and then happening to legit see other posts means youāre cyber stalking whatttt
Also yeah I was referring in general to yay-bunnies cuz she sucks ass and is a bully that is not nice :3 (also months? Really? My whole thing is that I ignored her for months until SHE brought it up again lol and then I ignored it again until I wanted to check to see if she was still talking about me and then turns out she wasnāt anyway so Iām gonna go back to ignoring her)
Yay bunnies made another blog and like first minute in made a post abt me and I got a bajillion hate anons and I just got mad abt it again after a bit and I needed to tell someone so Iām telling a hashtag trusted adult this is not like asking for help Iām just frustrated at the fact that she is (anon and discourse blog bc I want to keep my vibes up on other accs)
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I think harassing people is like, a hobby for her at this point not gonna lie. I hope she takes a step away from the internet and learns to stop being such a bitter hate-filled person and to just block and ignore people she doesn't like, it'd do her some good.
She just Ourgh pmo (I did go through her blog so I was doing a shitty thing just now but like in my defense I was seeing if she had ever responded to my other thing cuz I had her blocked for the longest time and then I got mad abt some things I saw so uh)
newest research suggestsa that its lpiterally against the rules to be mad at bunys
thats fucking right!!!!!
Breaking the rules everyday boys hell yes! Rules ā morals woo!!!
dont call me a bitch in the tags and dont block evade to get at me. fuck off.
Iām not??? Block evading??? Dawg I didnāt even know you blocked me I still see ur blog n stuff š¤· mb
I think there's a thing to the argument that "people demonize testosterone as this horrible thing" but also this argument is 9 times outta 10 used against trans women being dismayed by dysphoria who arent actually saying this shit. Like, there are actual terfs trying to spread misinformation about T to dissuade transmascs from wanting it, a lot of fear mongering, but the people doing that are not the people getting shit for it. It's always transfems talking about how they feel having a T based puberty ruined their life or some shit. And I think that's the thing about the transandro groups that annoys me and just makes them look 100% like a transmisogynistic movement - they never actually target anyone that's actually taking part in the oppression of transmascs, it's always harassment campaigns against trans women. And if you scroll their blogs you find that the one or two times they do deal with terfs they treat them better than they treat trans women they disagree with and it's kinda telling.
Oh what a surprise she also doesnāt know basic transandrophobia theory and claims itās targeting trans women ok
basic transandrophobia theory
? Yes.? What does this mean chat
I love having a blog to release all of my hatred onā¦ anyway Iām done now!!
I think there's a thing to the argument that "people demonize testosterone as this horrible thing" but also this argument is 9 times outta 10 used against trans women being dismayed by dysphoria who arent actually saying this shit. Like, there are actual terfs trying to spread misinformation about T to dissuade transmascs from wanting it, a lot of fear mongering, but the people doing that are not the people getting shit for it. It's always transfems talking about how they feel having a T based puberty ruined their life or some shit. And I think that's the thing about the transandro groups that annoys me and just makes them look 100% like a transmisogynistic movement - they never actually target anyone that's actually taking part in the oppression of transmascs, it's always harassment campaigns against trans women. And if you scroll their blogs you find that the one or two times they do deal with terfs they treat them better than they treat trans women they disagree with and it's kinda telling.
Oh what a surprise she also doesnāt know basic transandrophobia theory and claims itās targeting trans women ok
EDIT LEMME CLARIFY IM SHE-ING YAY-BUNNIES not maidslime
newest research suggestsa that its lpiterally against the rules to be mad at bunys
thats fucking right!!!!!
Breaking the rules everyday boys hell yes! Rules ā morals woo!!!
So for context what happened was yay bunnies reblogged a typical tumblr absurdity post that said like āIām glad the gods granted you sentience but Iām not sure I wanted such a complicated relationship with my sex dollā and tagged it ātransmenā. When someone responded to the effect of what the fuck, bunnies replied āwhatās not clickingā. The original post was a joke but that kind of tag from someone hateful towards trans men who frequently denies sexual violence against them is incredibly disturbing
People who hate us are perfectly capable of viewing us as sex objects. Objectification is kind of impossible without hate for the object
[tme voice] the trans woman is actually literally pinning us down and raping us with his disgusting male cock when he posts about being sexually abused
š¬ 9Ā Ā š 1431Ā Ā ā¤ļø 2534Ā Ā·Ā listen um. i think its great that the gods imbued you with life as a testament to the fervent passion and peerless sk
Interesting thing to say to a stranger
funny how it always works out like this huh? "you can't possibly be talking about the sexual abuse marginalized men inflicted on you as an equally marginalized woman, clearly you're bragging that you want to rape maginalized men" was a neutral action, gossiping "we thought she bragged about being a rapist because she's a man-hating meanie" was a neutral action, and when she calls out your misogyny she's invading your boundaries.
very subtle.
Hi i run @isuggestrespecttranspeople I love how we all collectively ignore the fact that I did apologize for the misunderstanding. However it is still strange to say ātrans men see trans women as rape dolls.ā In my opinion. Which no one has explained to me in a way that isnāt āyou wouldnāt say this to anyone else now would you youāre clearly just itching to be racist and transmisogynistic duhā which is false.
Nobody really likes to hear my side huhā¦ kinda seems hypocritical based on what yallāre saying about meā¦
Subtle double standards from me huh?
One, sorry for double posting, tumblr mobile has borked, didn't post one of my reply posts, and then eventually posted it an hour after I made another one. Sorry for that. Anyway.
Okay regarding yay-bunnies.
If a white woman was hurt by white men, and so when venting accused white men as a class; if a Black woman was hurt by Black men, and accused Black men as a class; if a gay woman was hurt by gay men, and accused gay men as a class...
Would you feel need to scold them? Or would you recognize that a woman has right to complain about men from her minority group, the oppressed group she belongs to?
Even if you disagreed, would you at least leave her alone when she was ranting about her sexual abuse on her private blog, recognizing that even if you don't agree, maybe it'd be best to leave her alone?
I am asking seriously. I am not trying to scold you, I am trying to illustrate to you what exactly did you do wrong.
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You came to a personal blog of a victim of sexual abuse, who was angry and bitter at men from her minority group for hurting her, to say "Not all men".
I want you to think about this in context of feminist theory - because it looks like a blind spot. You took a woman from your minority group, mad at men in the group who abused her, and scolded her that she complained about men who sexually abused her by basically saying 'not all men'.
Even though in all other context, a Black woman complaining about Black men would instantly be understood as being hyperbolic and not talking about literally all Black men; a disabled woman would be seen as hyperbolic and not talking about literally all disabled men; and a gay woman would be seen as hyperbolic and not literally talking about all gay men.
The argument already includes implied framing that it doesn't apply to all men, yet you came in, scolded her that you didn't understand the universally applied framing, and basically incorrectly mansplained her own vent to her by going "Not all men!".
Like you do see the issue here?
If you want to counter negative stereotypes leveraged towards transmascs... I feel in this situation you have done more bad than good. And don't even understand it.
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Yes, trans men are oppressed by patriarchy as a gender glass compared to cis men - often even compared to cis women. But within bounds of our minority group, trans people, transmascs are higher - however little - than transfems. Transmascs simply don't have to deal with entire specific *kinds* of oppression and stereotypes. There's no V-Coding for transmascs. Transmascs aren't being arrested for undressing in a locker room, which is the nominal purpose of a locker room. Transmascs aren't being forced into sex work, or raped by cops under threat of arrest as sex workers. That isn't to say transmascs are treated well by society - just slightly less horrific in some specific regards.
But that just makes it worse. The fact that transmascs are men/masculine people who are directly oppressed by misogyny and need feminism should require you to be better feminists, rather than making such basic blunders in feminist theory like telling a fucking female rape victim on her blog that 'not all men'. The reason people tell guys like you you sound like an MRA, because you do.
Come ON, dude!
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I'm not saying this out of hate or spite or anything else. I wish this entire idiotic discourse stopped, especially now, as trans women and transfems, and any Black trans people are getting their blogs mass-deleted. If you say you should support trans POC, don't support vague generic idea of trans POC - support actual *people*. Yay-bunnies is a Black trans woman, one of the fewer and fewer still active on this site.
The reason this discussion started today because her blog got nuked. And perhaps you don't realize, but you contributed - if passively - to the dogpile that got her nuked. You have contributed to this. Some of your followers, as you can see from their messages, actively hate yay-bunnies, they want her to shut up and all the bad stuff. These people read your blog, they're your community and it's not a leap of logic to assume they were one of people who falsely reported yay-bunnies.
Did you call them out for it? For their racism and transmisogyny? No, you basically agreed with them. Why did you do that?
If you believe this is wrong, this is disgusting and fucked up - please take a stand. Make a statement.
You don't have the power to stop it, but you have the power to stop contributing to it.
Ok thereās a lot here so imma go bit by bit, I hope you donāt mind <3 /gen not trying to be mean or anything I realize that comes off a little snotty
Tumblr mobile is shit so thatās ok I didnāt mean any malice with what I said, and I fully get it I was legit on a plane (on flight WiFi) so I figured you maybe didnāt see it even.
In regards to your first point: personally would feel the need to say āthatās not helpful and saying that isnāt the best overall.ā And if you think Iām shitty for that thatās your choice and opinion.
The reasoning I think that is because feminism is relating to all people regardless of specifically gender should be equal. I believe this, so I believe you just shouldnāt say those things regardless of whoās saying it and of whoās being put in the box. Also, as a trans man, (we have higher rates of rape, mind you, but I donāt like to say āxyz has it worse in abc regardā and Iāll get to that in a minute) I felt a bit butt hurt, Iāll admit, to being put in the ājust sees trans women as sex dollā box. I love trans women personally, and I know many trans men who feel the same, and I am aware that as a usamerican I would be nowhere rights-wise without the combined efforts of both the transfems and the transmascs of yore.
No blogs are private btw itās the internet thatās public. If I heard someone talking and saying something wildly incorrect and shitty I will call them out in the middle of whatever meat space gathering weād be in in this hypothetical as much as I would here. (I might be deterred only by the fact that Iām a skinny sometimes non-passing and not medically transitioned trans guy in the Midwest which I donāt have to deal with here on tumblr)
Yay-bunnies followers have come to my personal blogs, my gimmick blogs, my blogs that have been dead for ages, and told me the worst things you can tell a person. Even if and when it wasnāt her followers, people can and will say whatever they want. Itās the internet. There is no privacy. You are speaking publicly.
She wasnāt complaining about men who abused her, she was putting all trans men into a box and saying āthese people view trans women as sex dollsā and I find that unacceptable.
I would, in all of those hypotheticals you listed there, btw, say āhey thatās not cool to sayā
I do not understand the issue. I took issue with her saying something, I retorted, I got told to kill myself, several months passed, and now you come to me asking me to apologize when I did not do wrong, in my opinion.
I think Iām doing great things for the people that support the same causes as I do, and I believe that Iām creating a space where many people from many different walks of life feel safe speaking their minds to me, such as yourself right now. I enjoy what I do here. Itās not much in the grand scheme of things, but Iām not out to fight the good fight and defend transmasculine honor. Iām out to create somewhere that people can go to when they want to see respect, and they want to see good faith conversations. Iām out to respect trans people. Iām out to respect *people*.
Trans mascs are being silenced, shunned, ignored in research, and told to sit down, be quiet. Our forefathers are getting reframed as the lesbian heroes of yesterday and itās seen as a great celebration when we get into sports on the womenās team while being forced to not medically transition. We all have it bad, both sides. Letās not play this game, Iām not into it.
I feel like Iāve been speaking out about it? And if you look through my blog you can see me speaking out whenever I come across a post calling out @staff for these fuckass, disgraceful, pathetic mass bannings.
I will continue to stand up where I see opportunity to! This isnāt a āI did it once so Iām done now :3ā this is me saying I plan to continue and that I have!
Iām glad youāve entered this civilly you are doing me much more of a justice than most do <3
I hope in the end we can find common ground somewhere, I believe there is food and your heart and you care deeply about this cause for good reasons, I think we just see it differently.
"The reasoning I think that is because feminism is relating to all people regardless of specifically gender should be equal. I believe this, so I believe you just shouldnāt say those things regardless of whoās saying it and of whoās being put in the box." Feminism is about liberation of women, and genders being hurt by patriarchy. It is not for 'everyone', it's there to stop misogyny. Cis men can be feminist *allies* but are not primary or even secondary targets of patriarchy, any harm they get from patriarchy is incidental. If a feminist says "I hate men" and a man comes onto her blog to tell her she's wrong - that's fucked up. That's wrong. That's not feminist. Sometimes you should just let things be instead of getting into people's personal business.
"No blogs are private btw itās the internet thatās public." That kind of reasoning is most commonly used by bullies and fascists from Kiwifarms trying to fish for personal information to use for doxxing or harassment campaigns. Personal blog is a personal space and it's de facto impossible to make a private space on the internet because that'd be unprofitable to Big Tech companies that we have to rely on to provide us these spaces. It's one thing is a blog is clearly intended for public activism - like yours - but framing a personal blog of a Black trans woman as a public space is misogynist and transmisogynist. People deserve right to privacy, also online. Especially people who are the most marginalized in real life.
"Yay-bunnies followers have come to my personal blogs, my gimmick blogs, my blogs that have been dead for ages, and told me the worst things you can tell a person." We are not talking about this. If you want to take issue with things yay-bunnies said to you, feel free. I won't care. But this is completely unrelated to situation at hand. If you believe what she's done is bad, then you just admitted what you've done is equally as bad. And if you don't believe it's bad, then it's not an argument.
"She wasnāt complaining about men who abused her, she was putting all trans men into a box and saying āthese people view trans women as sex dollsā and I find that unacceptable." No, she did not. Again, "I hate all men" statement is always hyperbolic. "I hate all white people" is always hyperbolic. But when a trans woman complains about specific subset of trans men, you immediately assume the most negative framing possible. Taking any statement immediately in the most negative possible light is a very common form of transmisogyny (and transmisogynoir).
Do you come to blogs and accounts of cis feminists who say they hate men and accuse them of being evil? Why not? Why did you believe that a trans woman feminist is an appropriate target, but a cis woman wouldn't be?
"I do not understand the issue. I took issue with her saying something, I retorted, I got told to kill myself, several months passed, and now you come to me asking me to apologize when I did not do wrong, in my opinion." The fact that you think you did no wrong is exactly the issue here. Your subconcious biases are at full display but you refuse to acknowledge them, let alone unpack them.
And the reason this is coming back after a few months is because yay-bunnies reblogged a post about this situation on a new blog after she was terminated, probably bitter about the whole situation in light of her blog being termed.
"I think Iām doing great things for the people that support the same causes as I do, and I believe that Iām creating a space where many people from many different walks of life feel safe speaking their minds to me, such as yourself right now. (...)Iām out to create somewhere that people can go to when they want to see respect, and they want to see good faith conversations. Iām out to respect trans people. Iām out to respect *people*." The issue is, respecting everyone equally never works out, because everyone has biases. Black trans women are consistently treated the worst of any gender and race combo in our society, and you - WE - need to prioritize them above everyone. Actively persecuting them for 'bad opinions' doesn't advance any causes of equality, it just gives ammunition to the bad actors. This entire nonsense was one of the dominos that resulted in hate campaign that got yay-bunnies termed. I know it's uncomfortable to realize, but you DO have to realize your behavior is partially responsible for what happened. It's not nice and not pleasant but denial won't help anyone, least of all you.
If things are to change, to improve, you need to do better. We all need to do better. And you have to start with yourself. I'm trying to start with myself, part of the reason I'm trying to reach out to you in good faith.
"Trans mascs are being silenced, shunned, ignored in research, and told to sit down, be quiet. Our forefathers are getting reframed as the lesbian heroes of yesterday and itās seen as a great celebration when we get into sports on the womenās team while being forced to not medically transition. We all have it bad, both sides." We all have it bad is a meaningless sentiment. We need to focus on people who have it the worst - and those are usually Black and Native American trans woman, usually disabled ones. Saying 'we all have it bad' is an empty platitude. No, we don't all have it bad. There's no 'both sides'. I'm a white trans woman with a moderate disability, with a decent support network and access to healthcare. I don't have it *great* but I absolutely do not have it nowhere as bad as any Black trans woman I know.
I don't go hungry (in fact I struggle with being overweight). I have zero risk of being homeless barring some extreme disaster. I have access to mental and physical healthcare, I have access to white market HRT, I live in a Western decently wealthy country, and as I'm white I don't deal with the racism common in Poland. I don't have it great, but acting as if I had it 'as bad' as Black trans women I regularly see having to barely make by, beg strangers for money, do sex work, and then be regularly villified for all of that through hate campaigns - no I fucking don't. And you neither.
We need to focus on people who have it worst. We cannot take these people to some ridiculous scrutiny. Your actions don't exist in a void. Look at the 'yay-bunnies' tag on tumblr - most posts come from a hate campaign directed against her.
This is what you are, unwittingly, feeding into. Coming after people for 'bad opinions' - somehow after people you subconciously see as acceptable targets but never people who are privileged over you - when there are open Nazis on this website isn't doing anything good. It's net negative.
'I feel like Iāve been speaking out about it?' I'm glad you speak out when people come to your blog hating on her, but perhaps you should consider WHY these people consider your blog a safe space to hate on her. Why do these people believe you are on their side? Why do they think you will agree with them? Do you want to be SEEN as someone who is on their 'side'? Is this what you want to be? Is this what you want your work to be? Taking people who hate Black trans women and want their blogs terminated in good faith and invite them to hang out with you?
Of course yay-bunnies is bitter and angry - how is she supposed to tell you apart from people who attack her in bad faith? How is she supposed to tell you apart? You haven't really done much effort to make your space inhospitable to these people, since they keep coming here. If she can't tell you apart from transmisogynists, terfs and nazis who are using a pretense of 'just asking questions' and 'just being concerned' to be hateful, the kind of people to who saying to kms would be reasonable... maybe you should ask yourself - WHY can't she tell you apart from these people?
What are you doing to stand out and be actively different from these people, to actively oppose them?
Think about it. Think about which societal trends and biases you're feeding into. And if that's what you want this blog to be.
āIt is not for everyoneā big dawg I hate to break it to you but thatās incorrect. Like radfem level incorrect. Feminism is about making everyone regardless of gender equal.
Yay-bunnies blog left for awhile there (havenāt checked lately) was advertised as a public space for bunnies and whatnot to convene and talk and stuff. And even if it wasnāt, worst person you know just made a great point, the internet is public! If somebody wants privacy, start a discord server or do journaling or something. (Or block someone, which I had to block yay-bunnies originally. Grown ass woman who is literally a lawyer couldnāt block me)
All I said to her was āhey thatās fucked upā and then I had 9 William people coming to my everywhere calling me a legit rapist in some cases. Like??? By your reasoning she was leveling her followers against me! Which I believe she probably wasnāt and I believe I have made it clear that if you go to her for anything harassment wise you are being a piece of shit. Thatās the only reason I brought it up.
Saying āI hate all [group]ā or āall group [do bad things]ā or anything like that is not a good thing no matter the group.
I donāt think I have biases tbh I mean I know I do literally but like those donāt apply here??? In my opinion Iām being very reasonable. āPlease donāt say all trans men only see trans women as sex dolls thatās fucked up to say I thinkā is a reasonable thing to say and I donāt see how you donāt get that???
Dawg she is realistically higher status than I am in the grand scheme of things im a teenager sheās a grown ass lawyer???? And when we do take race into account yeah Iām white but like she doesnāt go hungry sheās a lawyer. Itās a completely different discussion.
Anyway, I think that we should lift everyone up, not just bit by bit and only focus on the worst of it. Thatās how trans men are being silenced.
I will admit. Likely part of the reason that the mass report of her blog and the consequential termination of her blog was partially due to me saying that she was doing something not great in that moment. However, we been known that she has been running people off of the site and hating and shitting on transmascs for ages with her old blog soā¦ I feel like maybe I am the more passive one here tbh. Why arenāt we holding her accountable for all the times she said and continues to say horrid things about transmascs? Double standards here folks.
Youāre slowly dropping out of good faith. I want to get to a place where everyone is equal, so Iām treating everyone with the same level of respect across everything. You seem to want to get to a place where everyone just lets people shit on everyone else publicly and no one says anything about it.
Basically all of this to say, in a tldr fashion, my bad for being a bit peeved that I was told that I see trans women as nothing but sex dolls because Iām part of a group.
And then she never respondedā¦
