forgive them even if they are not sorry

she/her Mostly cats and stuff Hi there.

[depsidase]

[piosplayhouse]

breast poll (all genders can answer): do you wear a bra ever day?

Yes

No

I wear a binder

Voting ended onApr 3

[piosplayhouse]

and a follow up, do you wear a bra while you sleep?

yes

no

Voting ended onApr 3

[hazard-symbols-that-fuck-hard]

it’s crazy how accessible waterboarding is. like, you can do it to yourself whenever you want and you don’t even have to go out and buy anything.

[de-activated-offical]

I don't use Chat GPT. I stare blankly at a piece of paper for hours like God intended.

[biomancy-artificer]

[kropotkindersurprise]

We salute an absolute icon 🫡

[gaylor-moon]

[pangur-and-grim]

I feel so insane about ai. I've had face-to-face conversations with people who use it for therapy, who use it to calculate the safety of pill interactions, who use it for all their emails and grant applications and legal documents and academic papers and finance sheets and for every single question they have about the world, and if you tell them about the ecological costs they just laugh and say "I guess I've used a lot of water." and I've been in multiple gatherings of 10+ people where I'm THE ONLY PERSON who doesn't use chatgpt. it's turning me into a ranting raving pariah, because how don't you people see??? why don't you understand??????? this bullshit didn't exist five years ago, you absolutely do not need it, and it is destroying everything

[moshroom]

he had to jump in the ballpit to cool off after getting all airplane ears over a treat puzzle that proved a little too advanced

[moshroom]

he's done this a few times now. the ball pit actively soothes him when he gets mad over puzzles. i could learn something from this

[moshroom]

[do-or-die-trying]

Trigger warning for pet loss and grief

Fucking everything about losing Charlie is so unfair. We had finally got his allergies under control for him to eat a foreign object and rupture his bowels. And of course we didn’t see the signs soon enough because they mimicked his food allergies. No blood in his vomit or pee. Only lethargy once he was septic, and by then it was too late.

It’s not fair that I just lost Lulu the month prior. How could any kind universe take both of my babies so close together??? And my love, my rock, who always sees the best in everything, is so heartbroken he can barely function. He couldn’t even drive us when we got the news because he was catatonic. My heart breaks twofold watching his grief. We’ll never have human children, but Charlie was our son.

Every inch of our house is saturated with memories. I don’t have to keep my bedroom closed to keep him from stealing my makeup anymore. I can’t do our special meow and hear his feet thunder up the basement stairs to answer me. No more Sunday lay-ins in bed with him curled between us. He will never steal my spot on the couch as soon as I stand up again. No begging for chicken from the fridge or begging me to open the back door so that he can go out on the porch. He can’t push the door open to rub all over my legs while I’m in the bathroom. No more hopping into my lap when I’m working bc I’m about to have an episode and he wants to comfort me. I don’t get to say “there’s a little guy in there” when we’re returning from a trip.

I hope if there is an afterlife, he’s waiting for us with all the spring toys he wants and as much chicken he can have again and that he’s biting anyone who pets him just a little too wrong. My little guy, my buddy. I don’t think we’ll ever be whole without you.

[do-or-die-trying]

For my love

[pussyhoundspock]

joining the war on kids reading any book they want on the side of kids reading any book they want. simply you will be fine. it's even good to be confronted with things you don't understand and even find upsetting, uncomfortable and difficult. it's a surprise tool that will help you later.

[gridmaster5000-deactivated20241]

why is privacy so eroded. I get treated like a nutcase if I say no, I don't want strange companies taking pictures of my home and putting them online for maps or whatever. I don't want to be in the background of your tiktok, and I think it's weirder for you to assume I'm okay with it than it is for me to politely ask you to refilm it so my face isn't in the frame. I don't enjoy handing my employer a list of every online account I have and feeling under surveillance when I'm just shit posting or sharing pictures of my cats or garden harvest. I don't want to hear your private calls on speaker on the bus, esp when the person on the line doesn't know you're broadcasting their words to strangers. I don't want an algorithm guessing what will piss me off the most so I spend more time online, engaging with shit I don't want to see or hear out of outrage. I don't want any of this. it's total ass.

[ishowdespair-deactivated2026012]

[danepopfrippery]

Actor Johnathan Joss was just murdered for being gay. On the first day of pride 2025. He was best known for playing John Redcorn on King of the Hill.

I had no idea he was gay but he was married to a man named Tristan Kern de Gonzales (on valentines day 2025!)

They lived in San Antonio Texas where his family is from and he grew up. He was 59.

In Janurary 2025 his home was burned down which made news. It killed some of his beloved dogs. He didnt elaborate beyond he believed it was arson (gofundme is still up and i suggest donating to help his funeral costs and his husband

Donate to Help ‘King of the Hill’ Actor Jonathan Joss After Fire, organized by Logan Kostroun

We are raising funds to support Jonathan Joss, the beloved voice… Logan Kostroun needs your support for Help ‘King of the Hill’ Actor Jonath

)

Now we know he and his husband had been threatened by several neighbors for being queer. They told pigs, pigs being pigs did nothing before or after it happened.

Yesterday Joss and his husband went to check their mailbox wherein they found one of their dogs skulls (statement from his husband

)

As they weeped and mourned in shock, a neighbor, Sigfredo Alvarez Ceja, came out and aimed at de Gonzales…but Hoss jumped in front of the bullet and was instantly killed.

Ceja, homophobia murdering coward, tried to take off but de Gonzales had called pigs who vaguely tried to do something. He was arrested and his bail set for $200k. Or as my sister said who the fuck sets bail for a murderer?

San Antonio.

De Gonzales is clearly mourning, posting pics on Hoss’ fb page. This one really struck me

This is why we need pride people, and not rainbow capitalism. Please donate to the gofundme and let san antonio cops knows what you think. De Gonzales said multiple neighbors had threatened them…id like to see those people investigated for arson.

Go into pride with rage and knowing. Have joy, kiss puppies, dont bow to homophobes. And maybe enjoy a little king of the hill.

[do-or-die-trying]

a boy brought me mcdonalds today bc i was hungover is it sad that this is the most romantic thing anyone’s ever done for me

[do-or-die-trying]

The same boy brought me eggs last night so I could make a cake for my mom 💗

[do-or-die-trying]

update number three: i told him i was feeling sad and he dropped by my house and surprised me with a king-sized kit kat bar

[do-or-die-trying]

He my bf now :)

[do-or-die-trying]

We're coming up on two years owning a house together. He asked me a few months why I stayed with him that first year and a half even though he had glaring commitment issues. I told him it was because even when there was no reward, he still did good things because he knew it would make me happy. Even now, he'll come home from the store with flowers and the newest snoopy plush, just because he wanted to see me smile. Currently he is laying on our sectional, snoring softly next to our cat, and I can't help but think about how much I love him. My special little guy; I never thought this kind of love would find me.

[byjove]

How often do you vacuum?

Weekly

Every other week

Monthly

Every other month

Quarterly

Less than 4 times a year

I don’t have carpet/I’m ashamed to say/Show results

Voting ended onMar 12, 2025

[moveslikekeithrichards]

lately my kids have been playing Baby Knife, which consists of somebody acting as a baby with knife hands chasing people while going "baby knife baby knife" over and over. is this a thing or are they just insane

[moveslikekeithrichards]

we have a new teacher this year who has never had kindergarten before & she rounded em all up & told em No Baby Knife and No Zombies and idk how to tell her that 1. all kindergarten recess games boil down to Give Birth And Kill Each Other and 2. the absurd vaguely inappropriate games they make up are usually better than when they try to play an Actual game like soccer

[moveslikekeithrichards]

Baby Knife is straightforward. theres a baby knife. baby knife chases you. thats about it. when they try to play Real Sports every single child is playing by a different set of rules unbeknownst to the others and none of them are playing by the Actual rules. everybody is mad at everybody else and running up to tell on their colleagues for cheating every 3 minutes. this doesnt happen when they play Baby Knife

[kedreeva]

if no one's said it, it's normal. It's just Tag with flavor. Tag is boring so you gotta add imagination.

Our baby knife as kids was Raptor Tag. Raptors hunt in packs so the person who was "it" had to run around pretending to be a velociraptor and to tag people they had to actually tackle them and "eat" them for 5 full seconds (others could come to the rescue and save them in that time, but risked getting eaten too or instead if the raptor switched targets). Eaten players then became raptors, until the whole pack was teamwork-hunting the last wily or lucky kid. There were no winning survivors- the game was won as a group once everyone was a raptor.

[gallusrostromegalus]

My kindergarten played "wolves" where a pack of 4-12 children, usually all the girls, would try to chase down and "kill" the deer (usually me)

I was bulled extensively in elementary school, but 1. Mostly by my teachers and 2. Not during this, because we ALL had PBS Nature and as Deer, I was allowed to gouge, kick, bite, keep running even after being grabbed, or body-check the larger children into the picnic tables and other architecture.

You know, for realism.

In point of fact, I was usually The Deer because I was the best at evading/ not going down without a fight, whereas most boys would just start crying or tattle, which is no fun at all.

[derinthescarletpescatarian]

We were incredibly boring. We played "murder ball" which was just Capture the Flag over the whole school grounds (outdoors only) and violence was permitted using the ball.

[derinthescarletpescatarian]

#We played Leeches (people run past you and you grab their legs and make them fall)#And Roadkill (body-slam your friends to the ground)#The teachers did not like these games

Your school would've loved Get Down, Mr President

[screaming-weevil]

PLEASE elucidate the rules of this game to me that my friends and I can play it on the quad

[derinthescarletpescatarian]

I haven't played it, I learned it from someone else on the internet.

The prerequisites of Get Down, Mr President is that everyone in the group knows the rules of Get Down, Mr President. They do not at any point have to actually agree to playing.

The game is initiated when one person puts two fingers to their ear, like a secret service agent trying to hear something in their earpiece. The object of the game is to notice when somebody is doing this and copy them as soon as possible. When there's only one person left not listening to their earpiece, all the 'secret service agents' yell "Get down, Mr President!" and tackle the unfortunate loser to the ground.

I've been told that injuries are common.

[juney-blues]

"I'm not disabled! on a *good* day I could totally get way more done than this!"

- girl who's last "good day" was several years ago