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Good morning.
I wanna suck on him til he lactates.
Hi Would You Like To Talk To Me About Dinosaurs?
Yes Absolutely
i scribbled this out so fast this is such a funny concept
minor tag preservation
#aaron: wanna know some cool facts about dinosaurs??? #lady d:…. #lady d: im listening.
being a woman isn't a feminist action btw
being a lesbian isn't a feminist action either. It's just a thing
There is nothing inherently evil or wrong about how masculine or feminine you are and I wish people would stop acting like one is better than the other. The way you act and speak as a person says more about what kind of person you are than your gender presentation. There is plenty of people capable of being horrible people and there are plenty of people that are capable of being good people. It's a choice, gender has nothing to do with it.
Since watering means giving something water but milking means extracting milk from something that must means that water's default is to give but milk's default is to take. So water must be inherently kind while milk is cruel
The supreme good is like water, which nourishes all things without trying to. It flows content through the low places that people disdain.
Thus, it is like the Dao.
-Lao Tzu, 4th century BC
Milk is cruel.
-tumblr user kitkat-245, 21st century AD
Cloth Mother Was Right
im getting on my soapbox again. sorry. getting irritated about this shit once more.
not gonna engage directly with the Original Post because im not super interested in debating the wider Point it was making but. there's a Bit in a post i saw this morning that's bugging me.
nobody's gonna like hearing this but it's been a thought in my head for A While. It feels, to me, very much like a "no true scotsman" fallacy to claim that "no transfeminist actually believes" that Men are Evil or whatever, when I have, over and over and over again, seen sentiments like these from individuals who loudly label themselves as transfeminists:
I dunno. I see these sentiments often enough that, at least from my perspective, it really starts to make tumblr's particular Flavor of transfeminism feel like a cover for hurt, scared, bitter and angry transfems to have an Acceptable Target to be wildly hateful toward, because they feel justified in doing so because of how much horrific shit that we've faced. Don't twist my words: I'm not saying that IS what transfeminism is at its core, because I recognize that that doesn't make for a Coherent ideology, and I'm not nearly well-read enough to make that claim. What I am saying is that from the outside looking in, it sure fucking FEELS that way.
Im not tying names to any of these posts because I'm EXTREMELY uninterested in starting a fucking witch hunt or debating these people. i'm just. tired. i'm frustrated. As fucking sick as I am of seeing transfems on this site get walked all over, stalked, and harrassed into fleeing the site altogether, I'm nearly as sick of seeing my fellow transfems descend into being so so comfortable feeding their most hateful impulses and lashing out at anyone and everyone outside The In Group on principle.
this place has been my internet home for a decade and a half. and every passing year it's feeling more and more inhospitable from every angle. and that fucking sucks, a lot. i'm tired of trying to connect with people I think are cool initially, and rapidly feeling the need to unfollow or even block them because they're just. so, so ready to be so vitriolic at any moment and that's just NOT the kind of person I can feel comfortable around. taps the sign.
idk. i don't really Expect to change any hearts and minds with this. i feel like the people who engage in this behavior are generally so deeply rooted in their bitterness that it would take a lot more than some exhausted whinging on my part to make them budge. i guess just...if I have to continually, loudly hear this shit on here on a weekly basis, then I think i have a right to vent about it.
I miss the days when Dropout doing copaganda was a ridiculous joke that would never actually happen.
No company is your friend, and though it hurts I'm at least thankful to be reminded of that.
An Open Letter to @dropoutdottv & @samreich
I speak not as a representative of any media outlet or anyone with influence on that kind of scale. I'm simply a transfem member of your audience, one with a moderate following on tumblr at best, one who has introduced multiple friends to your shows, and one who has been rooting for you since I discovered the joy of Game Changer and your other shows around...probably mid-2022, to my best estimation? A good few years, at least. I speak as, I think, an overall average audience member in most respects.
However, as of late I've had a couple of concerns and frustrations with what I'm seeing from your network, which I know I'm not alone in.
I'm sure you're at least familiar to some degree with discourse that brewed up a couple of years ago here about lack of transfeminine representation. The numbers I've seen compiled on the demographics of the cast across your shows is a bit staggering, but up to now I'd been willing to chalk that up to maybe being due to factors outside of your control. The more I've been ruminating on that though, especially over the past day or so, the more I feel a bit troubled.
From my perspective at least, Dropout as a whole seems to market itself as being a hub of creative diversity, that invites the viewer to feel connected with your performers. Once I realized though, that I can count on one hand the number of times I can recall seeing someone appear on one of your shows that I share my sense of transfeminine identity with, it's something that's continued to itch at the back of my mind. Persephone is an excellent cast member, and I'm delighted and starry-eyed every time I see her show up on Game Changer or any of your other properties. But when she's the only transfem on your network I can name at a glance, to me, it also can start to feel very...tokenized?
This matters to me because we as trans women and other assorted folks affected by transmisogyny are at a point in history where we are under exceptional scrutiny, suppression, and oppression. We are a people in need of positive representation and community, and as a network that has overall seemed to be extremely welcoming and supportive of the queer community as a whole, I think it would mean a hell of a lot to those of us particularly looking for lifelines to see that we're not universally hated and ignored, to be seen, to be acknowledged, to be considered in the same regard as anyone else, instead of feeling like an afterthought at best.
I don't want to come swinging out the gate with bold accusations of intentional transmisogyny on the part of your network, frankly that kind of combativeness leaves a sour taste in my mouth when nothing of the like has been proven. But ☝️ I do have Questions. Things I'd like to see some kind of clear recognition of and response to. I'm doing my best to come at this not from an "us vs them" kind of perspective, but with a sense of communication and collaborative effort, the kind of thing I hope you and your teams might still value. And I guess those questions fall under one particular Umbrella Question:
How does Dropout decide who gets to become a cast member?
Do you hold open casting calls? If so, how accessible are they to people of marginalized identities and means? Do your methods leave adequate room and availability for people outside of normative cultural identities to feel comfortable to apply?
If not, do you instead scout and hunt out talent directly? Are your criteria for finding new people geared at all toward uplifting marginalized people? Has there been any consideration in recent years specifically toward branching out for more gender-diverse talent? Because I promise you there are some very funny transfems out there, I can't imagine they're that hard to find.
Listen, I'm personally not going to go so far as saying that we are Owed An Explanation. I'm not in a position to make that kind of demand. BUT. I do think, at the very very least, some transparency on this long-standing matter would go a decent way toward repairing some of the goodwill that has been lost by myself and others like me, who might otherwise be some of your most devoted supporters, were it not for the, I think, pretty poor handling of this subject.
......I wish that were all I had to say here.
But. On the subject of goodwill. I'm not sure I would even be speaking on this if it weren't for the latest bit of news that has me strongly questioning the decisions and creative direction of Dropout's leadership. As kindly as I can muster asking:
What in the world led to you going forward with a collaboration episode with The Rookie, of all things?
I'm, frankly, completely baffled and sideswiped by this decision. I had never heard of the show until this news broke. But I know copaganda when I see it, and I would be shocked if Sam and Dropout leadership at large didn't. Y'all straight up sell merch on your site amplifying the sentiments that many of us on this side of the political aisle resonate with, acknowledging the police in general as an adversarial force. Show me a world where this decision to cooperate with a show that stars a fictionalized version of the LAPD, known ICE collaborators, does not seem wildly inconsistent with the views that we as viewers have seen the stars of your shows take. Like, hell, it feels like you may as well have invited on Tucker Carlson onto Make Some Noise or something, y'know?
I dunno. I'm just. Frustrated and disappointed, and confused, and troubled. I want to know how this happened. Is this indicative of a larger trend toward the kind of mainstream outlets Dropout plans to work with moving forward? Is this just a one-off Whoopsie? Who thought this was a good idea in line with the network's apparent values??
I've been a supporter of your shows for a few years now, and I don't relish the idea of giving up on that. But if things keep heading in this kind of trajectory, then I will be making that choice, and I wouldn't begrude anyone else to do the same. I want y'all to be the best you can be, and in my eyes at least, this definitely isn't it. I would like to see some transparency and course correction if I'm to continue my support.
I know I can only truly speak for myself, but. I post this here in case others read this and wish to echo or add onto these sentiments [in a PRODUCTIVE way, please!!! No harrassment, death threats, etc. we're all humans, we all have the capacity to make mistakes and learn and change.]
I know this has been long and perhaps rambling, but. I've had a lot of thoughts and they're difficult to un-jumble. And if you've stuck with me for all this, thank you. I appreciate your time and patience, and I wish us all well. 💙
I need all the people who don't understand cosmic horror to SHUT THE FUCK UP
you cannot, CANNOT, expect cosmic horror to be explained to you, you can't expect it to tell you whats going on, the POINT is that you dont fucking know
as soon as you know whats happening- as soon as the lights are turned on, the glinting of something sharp in the darkness will turn from the threat of jagged teeth into a reality of simple broken glass, passive, and safe at distance
this very issue, the fact that people think that a lack of information is a flaw, is what ruined Stranger Things. It went from interesting, and mysterious, to boring, as soon as things were explained.
You can have horror in excruciating detail of course, it's one of the best ways to have horror in general, sometimes knowing is worse than not knowing, especially if there's no consequence. But cosmic horror?? the fear of something incomprehensible?? you shouldn't know, and the not knowing should scare you.
in conclusion, I think Iron Lung was amazing.
Just a reminder to everyone that discord is rolling out age verification. If you don't want to be monitored or deal with discord any more, I have done some research and the best alternatives I have found is Matrix and Stoat.
Matrix is great if you either want to host your own stuff, or want a decentralized network where it's almost impossible for it to go down forever. It essentially works like Email where there are multiple different clients (I recommend element, it's good) and many people host their own servers. If the person who manages their own server allows it then you can still talk to everyone else on Matrix (whose server allows it). You can just register an account through their official servers if you just want to give your data to a more trustworthy company but I would recommend against it as long as it's possible to run a different server. I may set up my own if you guys trust me any more than this company, but if possible I'd advise you to set up your own or use a friends if they have it, but it's still better than discord to use the official server. I compare it to email to better illustrate how it works, but it's still a fully complete discord alternative.
Stoat/Revolt is closer to the actual discord experience. It's free and open source and you can host your own servers on it too. The main difference is that there is no talking between different servers, so if you don't have any friends with a server and can't/don't want to set up a server yourself, then you're basically forced to use the official servers instead of your own, which, again, puts your data to the mercy of a company. But it's definitely more like discord if everyone had nitro. If your friends are stubborn or you want a more traditional chat experience, Stoat is probably what you want.
Teamspeak, don't use it. It's significantly less secure and unless you only stick to people you know and your own servers, your chances of getting DOSed are pretty high if you so much as share your screen and someone doesn't like you. Just, please, don't use it as a discord alternative. It barely even supports text chat.
I know there's probably a million writeups about this topic out there right now, but I wanna contribute even the slightest bit to people getting off this completely awful app.
Valour seems like an interesting Discord alternative, and they're not adding ID verification to it either :)
There's no linux client at the moment, but I would like to use it when they release one.
Join the movement for a more flexible, transparent, and open platform made by communities for communities.
So... since Discord is expanding its age verification globally, Let me make a quick list of alternatives you can use that better respect privacy or doesn't have age verification bs in no particular order:
Stoat Chat:
Signal (good for group chats)
Download Signal for Android, iOS, Linux, macOS, and Windows.
Element (very good for privacy)
Download Element, an end-to-end encrypted secure messenger and collaboration app with voice and video chat. Available on Web, Android, iOS,
in case Discord decides to actually implement ai age verification worldwide...
there's a Discord alternative called Stoat that is worked on by individuals. it currently does not have all the features Discord has (it's lacking notifications, streaming, etc), but it does have the basics like servers, channels, voice chat, emojis, and more. be patient with the developers, but it is being worked on, and they have a dev server where you can see updates. unfortunately the mobile Stoat app only works on wifi for Android users right now, due to cloudflare being declared not secure by Android. but this may be resolved in the future, and for what it's worth, it's a decent open-source alternative that may be better than Discord collecting your sensitive information.
Fluxer is an open-source, independent instant messaging and VoIP platform. Built for friends, groups, and communities.
After hours of research, weighing options and the pros and cons of multiple alternatives to Discord I believe I have settled on Swedish-based Fluxer.
It's UI is based off of Discord, and operates in the same way giving server owners familiar moderating tools and ability to assign permissions for their individual servers and users. Servers allow for custom emojis and stickers so the experience should be familiar and mostly seamless.
Their community guidelines also mirror Discord where the only content that is banned is real-life violence, real life gore, hate speech, CSAM and depictions of sexual acts of minors (even fictional) among other universal prohibited topics (terrorism, harassment etc).
NSFW/adult content is also allowed which many other Discord options actively prohibited, preventing me personally from being able to fully use their services without breaking their guidelines.
So sex and violence is allowed.
Fluxer's stance on AI
Fluxer will not use your content to train AI and thus far it does not appear to have any plans to partner with AI or use AI in any features.
Fluxer's Monitoring/Content Screening
Fluxer has been the only messaging service I have found to be this transparent about how their screening works out of the gate, typically I have found you need to email someone to get this information, or they have to be forced to show it.
Basically your images are scanned for CSAM and that is it, it is not retained or collected so they are not hoarding your information.
This is also something many other services already do whether you realize it or not.
Fluxer on Age Verification
Fluxer is not asking for anyone's ID or facial scans to prove their age, and because this is a Swedish based company, unless laws there change, it is unlikely they will require this. You confirm your age at signup as a faith-based system.
They even have their own version of Nitro called Plutonium.
There is no wait to sign up as of yet.
Nothing is perfect, what are the cons?
It is a baby app, meaning it is brand new and thus some accessibility features MAY be missing some people require to fully participate. Because it is so new, these features may come later following feedback. Note: I do not know what features may be missing as I do not use any accessibility features other than changing the theme to dark mode, and making the font bigger, which Fluxer allows.
IT HAS NO MOBILE APP YET THEY ARE IN PROCESS OF CREATING ONE. It is very likely one will launch very shortly, but for now it is on desktop.
Final Thoughts
I trust this service more than I do other options at the current present by how transparent they have been and their almost immediate communication when I asked them for clarification on violent content. I was confused if they banned fictional violent content and they responded back to my email within 2 hours informing me they were going to update the guidelines to be more clear that fictional violence was acceptable.
Note: originally posted on 2/16/2026 - we will never find perfect but I think this is a better option than others I have seen. If anyone has anything they wish to add that I may have missed, please do.
Remember when I told ya'll last month to be ready to start looking for a Discord alternative?
Yeah things aren't looking good for discord.
#what is the alternative anyway
If you want a direct alternative there's Revolt, which is a free, open source discord clone.
Revolt is the chat app that's truly built with you in mind.
Oh...
It's even worse than I thought.
Time to go back to IRC.
I recommend Element; it's very similar to Discord and has basically the same features but it's privacy-focused and both servers and DMs can both be encrypted so only the actual users of those rooms can read the messages.
This means unlike most popular chat apps, including and especially Discord, Element doesn't sell your conversations or tracking data to advertisers, because the company literally doesn't have access to that data in the first place.
I've used it for years and I think it's a natural fit for Discord users.
sighs. saves for later
The problem with this is transferring YEARS of Discord usage to these new alternatives. Until a tool is made that allows full back up if not transfer of All That, then transitioning to these alternatives isn't feasible for the baseline everyday user.
Exports Discord chat logs to a file. Contribute to Tyrrrz/DiscordChatExporter development by creating an account on GitHub.
Revolt/Stoat has an android app, and can also be used on your phone if you use the firefox app, and then use revolt/stoat through that mobile browser.
Revolt/Stoat wasn't that great to use when i tried it (it never told me when i had unread messages and semi-frequently delayed delivery for hours). I like Element/Matrix a lot better—it's clunky to get into, but the notifications and message delivery are much more reliable (also they haven't rebranded without notifying the end user, so the end user only found out when all their apps broke randomly... really not happy about that move in particular)
eta: they also have an app that works for android and apple, along with mac/linux/windows and web access.
Element is a Matrix-based end-to-end encrypted messenger and secure collaboration app. It’s decentralised for digital sovereign self-hosting
hey here's my currently growing Discord alternative list btw, no particular reason
As an autistic/adhd person going through the job search process I’ve learned to phrase my autistic/adhd traits as corporate friendly things. Here’s some examples:
I have trouble reading between the lines and picking up on implicit information? Actually, I’ve learned the importance of giving and receiving precise, specific instructions in order to avoid time consuming miscommunications.
I’m easily bored with only one task? Actually, I have a curious mind and thrive in places with a wide range of tasks as I prefer dynamic environments where I can contribute to many projects.
I have trouble with white lies that are merely social niceties? Actually, I prioritize a transparent work environment where we can tackle issues head-on.
This way I don’t have to lie, but rather just spin my truth in a way that’s palatable to them.
The Chief Graphic Designer: