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Reblog if you think itās okay to platonically sayĀ āI Love Youā to your friends
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hey btw if ur transphobic donāt interact with my blog. we support trans people here
LISTEN SPREAD THIS PHOTO THIS IS NOT A DRILL PPL ARE GETTING KIDNAPPED AND SOLD TO THE SEX TRAFFICKING INDUSTRY. DONT CLICK THE LINK SIMPLY DELET THE TEXT AND BLOCK THE NUMBER. AGAIN THIS IS NOT A DRILL SPREAD THE WORD PLZ - love your local worrying boy
I have gotten a text like this before, and it is probably one of the scariest things. After receiving the I blocked the number the message came through, and changed my phone number.
Many people do not know that these traffickers only need the smallest amount of personal information to get to you.
one time a stranger on neopets years ago told me āschool makes you think you have to be good at everything but sometimes itās ok to just be good at one thing. even if itās not something you get a grade for. they donāt grade you for being a good personā and tbh i still think about it little did i know all i needed this whole time was in glowing purple text and that icon of the goth fairy
Dear girls, be intensely wary of men considerably older than you obsessed with āmentoringā you. Theyāre most likely trying to groom you. Speaking from experience.
I want to make it clear Iām not just speaking to underage/teen girls. Any younger girl, and this can happen to not that young women as well.
Just because the guy isnāt technically a pedophile, doesnāt make him any less predatory. When youāre in your 20s you may not be a kid anymore, but youāre not fully developed as an adult either. Youāre still vulnerable to predators who have the advantage of more experience and thus tools you donāt yet have, in addition to the other advantage of power imbalance due to gendered relations.
A man who wants to be your mentor, especially if he says he wants to āshapeā you or anything similar, is a man whoās trying to turn you into his puppet, to make you ādevelopā (be molded) into the girl/woman that serves his pleasure, even if not directly sexual.
Thereās predators who get off on the intellectual performance of the younger female objects of their obsessions. Thereās predators who get off on your social development fitting their not-necessarily sexual fantasies. Thereās predators who get off on the idea of taking a depressed girl and becoming her āsaviorā.
Thereās people who get off to feet and fucking statues, you best believe thereās predators who get immense satisfaction from mental games against vulnerable girls/women even if theyāre not (directly) sexual. And even if those things arenāt sexual at all to you, it will fuck you up. Because youāll know or feel that youāre being used against your will, that youāre not being treated as a human, youāll feel trapped, youāll feel controlled, youāll feel hopeless and disgusted with what heās turning you into.
Itās about control, itās about possession, itās about ownership of who you are, itās about having the perfect doll to play with.
Itās about you becoming mentally, emotionally, intellectually, socially dependent on them. Itās about a boost of their egos.
Regardless of your age, but especially if youāre considerably younger than him, and you see signs of him being fixated on this, RUN AS SOON AS YOU CAN.
Can people reblog this version? Because Iām tired of people who supposedly care about abuse victims dropping any concern and compassion for female victims of grooming as soon as a girl turns 18 like she wasnāt a literal kid five minutes ago.
weird and horrible how as soon as a girl turns 18 she loses any protection from being taken advantage of⦠17 and a half is a child but just turned 18 is fair game for male sexual predators
the fact that men think an 18 year old girl has all the wisdom and capabilities of an adult woman is bad, but itās particularly barf-worthy to realize that they donāt actually think 18 is the line between a girl and a woman. itās only the law that says that. men think a girl is ready to become a woman and do things women do as soon as she ālooksā like a woman or begins to imitate women. male sexuality is inherently wack and we are failing girls by exposing them to it.
can you guys please rb this version instead
hot take but some of yall just hate trans people
like⦠some of yall think trans people who havenāt started their medical transition/choose not to medically transition āarenāt really transā
and trans people who have been on hrt for many years and underwent surgeries are āno longer transā
just say you hate trans people
cis people can rb this
ICONIC
I was gonna put this in my queue but tbh I think itās more relevant right now.
Yeah.
A male colleague was making fun of the #metoo movement a few days ago, and many more (Iām one of 5 women in a department of 200 men) joined in. So I raised my voice and said I was glad women were speaking up about sexual harassment and assault and that I hoped that everyone who perpetuated this toxic behavior got taken down.
āYeah but itās a trend now, lots of them are just saying it for their 15 minutes of fame.ā He then continued to say that he didnāt know anyone who had been harassed or any man who had done it.
I asked him if he had a daughter. He did. I asked him how old she was. She was was 17. I told him Iād bet my rent money that his daughter had experienced sexual harassment.Ā
āThatās impossible.āĀ
āDid you ask her?āĀ
āNo.āĀ
āWell then, do it.ā
The next day, he came in the office with five bouquets of flowers for all the women in our department, including me. He publicly apologized for making fun of sexual harassment and for making our lives harder by doing so. He said that he simply hadnāt known how widespread it was. Apparently, his daughter deals with it very regularly. She hadnāt told him because of the way he spoke about assault cases that were on the news. She thought heād think less of her if sheād mention it. It was her idea that he should make a public announcement. He said he felt like a bad father.Ā
I said:Ā āYou were. Same goes for everyone who laughed with you. Be better, now you know better. And educate other men that still think the same way you did yesterday. And next time someone tells you about an experience they have, donāt automatically assume that because you havenāt seen it, itās not true. That kind of willful ignorance is why we still deal with this shit.ā
He also offered to pay my rent as that was part of the bet, but I told him Iād rather have him put effort in being a person his daughter and wife could be proud of.Ā
In conversation the other day my mom stopped and asked my dad about what percentage of women he thought had experienced sexual harassment. He said about 20-30% maybe. My mom told him that both of us had been harassed multiple times at work (same goes for both of her sisters) and that she had actually been assaulted by a groper on a public bus. I have never seen anyoneās face go slack so quickly before as he realized that literally every woman in his family had experienced this. And while Iām glad he believed us and has changed his view on that subject I still canāt shake the frustration, the anger, that it required being sat down and spoonfed these incidents that we didnāt particularly wanted to relive. This is something that women have been saying for years, but men just never listen. Not even when theyāre forced to sit in mandatory harassment in the workplace training seminars.
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Never trust the man who canāt treat their mother right. If he has no loyalty to the woman who carried him, birthed him and raised him, he sure as hell will have no loyalties to you.
Donāt be afraid to destroy menās lives over crimes they chose to commit.
āOpposites attractā should be reserved for like āsheās messy and heās neat!ā Not like āsheās supportive and heās a soul-sucking toxic person!ā
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PASS IT ON
I BRING FORTH THIS KNOWLEDGE TO ANY FELLOW TUMBLRITES/SEIZURE-PRONE PEOPLE THAT MAY FOLLOW ME
KINDLY THANK THE OP FOR THIS KNOWLEDGE
I AM A HUMBLE MESSENGER
For any of my epileptic/seizure-prone followers!
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If someone is wearing makeup in the pool, donāt deliberately splash them. If someone has done their hair nicely, donāt mess it up. If someone in a t-shirt has scars on their arms, donāt ask them about it. If someone doesnāt want to get in the water, donāt push them. If someone still wants to wear jeans, donāt laugh at them for it. If someone has sweat patches, donāt point them out. If someoneās chest is obviously prominent, donāt stare. If you can see someoneās underwear/ binder, donāt comment on it. If someone is blatantly covering something up, donāt try to reveal it.
Not everyone can feel totally comfortable with the fact itās Summer, donāt make them feel worse.
this is so important
me after one glass of wine: I need to get FUCKED