dualcom cg @dualcom-caregiver - Tumblr Blog

Working on a proper intro, but for now this will do.

Call me Snow, I'm a dualcom caregiver who is pro-kink and always had a soft spot for caregiving kiddos.

I'm in my late 20s, he/him, and I'm always educating myself on kink and caregiving.

This blog is 18+, proship / anti-harrassment, anti-c para friendly, and anything else you're curious about, just send an ask.

If you decide to take a look at my blog, you're very welcome here.

#dualcom #pro kink #kink positive #prokink agere #anti harassment #proship agere #proship safe #pro para #para safe

sapphireh3arts

*little at the kindergarten water cooler voice* yeah, i've been getting weally into juice lately

dualcom-culture-is

Dualcom culture is finding dualcom content blogs that end up going inactive 😔

#this also applies to me. I will try to be more active on my blog so people can continue to have positive dualcom content ⭐️

horsebasket

Here's a little shoutout to hypersexual littles, or tinies who have sexual thoughts or urges while regressed, or those who's sexual urges get stronger when regressed. There's nothing wrong about your body having needs. You aren't yucky for them. You aren't evil for them, either, I promise.

Whether you are comfortable or uncomfortable with these thoughts, remember that you aren't alone! You're loved 'n cherished and just as valid as everyone else!

thatbutterflybaby

One of the best ways to put me in littlespace is to ask me to count things, or ask me what time it is, or what color things are, or to read something, or to tell you what something is. Bonus points for helping me if I accidentally-on purpose get it wrong.

“What color are the pretty Christmas lights baby? Is that one of your favorites?”

“What’s that you’re writing in cutie? What’s it called?”

“How many sides are on the stop sign baby? Can you count them for me?”

“Can you read the clock baby? What time does that say? How long until we have to leave?”

“Can you read that sign baby little one? What’s it say?”

dualcom-culture-is

dualcom culture is finally finding a place that you can exist, in peace. where you don't have to be "pure", or fit into the boxes people make. NSFW or not, sexual or not, you can be yourself and that's a community you cherish

dualcom-culture-is

dualcom culture is being able to regress again after years of not doing so bc you stopped holding yourself to standards set by sfw agere spaces

#🥳

ajewishclowninleather-deactivat

a LOT of kink content on tumblr is fantasy and does not reflect what kink should actually be like. it is totally ok to be turned on by these fantasies and it's good to incorporate them into your sex life in safe ways. however a lot of the hot hardcore kink scenarios that make it seem like everything was spontaneous are not necessarily lying to you, but they are leaving out the "before" part. kink requires a LOT of discussion and communication. you should not forsake this part of kink because you wanna get to sex immediately because the before and after of kink are just as important, if not more, than the during.

Hullo dualcom caregiver...

One of my moots recently had an anon ask trying to explain paras to them, because they have certain dnis in their blog

It's always really hard to tell with some people, when they are against the para entirely even if there's no contact, because they think that just having the para means they would be procontact

I have confusing feelings...

I dont want to feel ashamed and like i have to hide my paraphilias just because society sees them as synonymous with "predator"

But i feel forced to, because if i didnt, then there would be very serious repercussions otherwise..

So we hide behind terms that arent so stigmatized, like "paraphilia" and "proship" and "prokink"

But how long until those become stigmatized too?...

I guess, i just should block them and move on... They never "liked" or reblogged any of my content anyway. But also, does that mean i should refrain from following people who dont have any stance publicly available at all?

I feel icky...like im not supposed to exist, and definitely not allowed to exist anywhere near anybody else, or in public, or...anywhere at all. I just want to hide away and never come back out and delete all of my things so i dont make anyone else feel icky ever again...

Hello, sweet anon.

I'm sorry that people have made you feel like you have to hide certain aspects of yourself, that's never a good feeling. You should never feel forced by your peers to restrict information for your own safety, and I'm very sorry to hear that these people have been making you feel unsafe.

I understand how scary things are. People have been pushing for censorship a lot lately, but I promise you, not all is lost.

There are communities around you that you can step in to, friends to make that will make you feel more comfortable being open about these things, and spaces where you will be accepted with open arms, like this blog.

It's going to be okay sweetheart. I know the world is scary right now, but there are people that will accept you the way you are, without having to hide yourself.

There is nothing wrong with having a paraphilia, and having a paraphilia does not make someone an offender, or predator.

May I offer a suggestion? If you're comfortable with it, I'd look more into following ( sfw or nsft, depending on your comfort levels ) blogs that are more accepting of paraphilias, than following people who are against having them. Personally, It's brought me a lot of peace of mind being among like minded people, without fear of being shamed for things people cannot control.

You are not icky, sweetpea. You are someone who is being stigmatized against for something you're not able to control. Even if the world is scary right now, you're always welcome to come here for comfort. You will never be judged here, and you're very welcome to come back any time you need.

Take care sweetheart, you're going to be okay. I promise there is a space for you in this world.

#ask

A little late, but Happy Valentines Day to all dualcom regressors & caregivers!

For the littles who need to be treated with stuffie friends, candy, and cuddles, and for the caregivers who get shown appreciation for their relationship dynamic, a very Happy Valentines for you!

And for any little ones or grown ups who have no little to take care of or a caregiver to snuggle up to, here is a flower and bear as thank you for being so sweet. 🌹🧸

#dualcom #prokink agere #proship agere #pro kink #pro para #dualcom cg #dualcom little #kink regression #proship regression #snow.posts

mutt-boy

lets overthrow mama

I'm so happy I found this blog. Ive been lost, bullied etc since forever and I've never felt like ok cause my family is ultra religious and yeah it's hard. I'm so ready to work on myself and understand more so I can finally feel happy. I know sometimes all of this is because of trauma but I cant remember all (only parts of it). Do u know if there is a way I can remember apart from therapy. Or is it better to not do it?. Ive tried working on it but I cant afford it anymore. Anyway any suggestions will help. Sorry if this is too much to ask. Anyway, thanks for having this blog. E🎀

Hello E, I'm sorry to hear that life has been so difficult for you. You never deserved any of the abuse or trauma that you have suffered, and I sincerely hope that life starts looking a little brighter for you.

Unfortunately, my dear, my blog is not a mental health advice blog. I don't have the qualifications to assist with trauma related questions. It's very unfortunate that you're not able to afford therapy at this time, I know it can help trauma survivors a lot.

I hope things go a little better for you, and my blog is always open for dualcom related topics if you ever have something you'd like to share.

Take care sweetheart. 🩵

#ask #trauma