Scary Trender Ur Momma Warned You About

Jem 🐸 18 🐸 It/Its preferred 🐸 He/Him is okay 🐸 Main is @elandslachten

[crpl-pnk]

nonbinary is a complete gender. you can be just nonbinary. you really don’t have to align yourself any more specifically than that

you don’t have to find the perfect just right word for your experience, you don’t have to parse out what named gender you’re closest to on a spectrum, what subset of nonbinary most closely reflects your truth, weigh your masculinity against your femininity against your androgyny to see what the total comes out to, you don’t have to label your gender by its relation or opposition to the gender you were assigned

all those things are great for exploring your gender & if you can find a home in them more power to you

but you don’t have to. you really can just be nonbinary

[ecoqueer]

Why are transmeds so fucking annoying, it’s like they were all raised on 4chan

[elandslachten]

It’s ugli boy hours.

[juicetrending]

hey truscum, try this! stop depicting nondysphoric trans people as overly “feminine” and with sexualized bodies

[discoursephobe]

[printed-paws]

I agree that caricatures of Tucutes is harmful and disrespectful :( I also believe there’s disrespectful people on all sides though, redrawing people’s characters without permission and “making them better” just because you think they’re shitty isn’t good. If they’re disrespectful, the folk who are transmed (and not shitty) will call them out, because that doesn’t solve anything. But stealing character designs is harmful to both the trans community and the art community.

[trenderish]

theyre not “characters” theyre empty souless drawings made with the specific intent of mocking nondysphorics but ok ell oh ell

[queerautism]

@transmed-but-still-soft your entire ideology is based on y'all thinking you can judge other’s identities better than them and keep them from accessing medical care and transition resources based on it so?? A bit of disrespect is the least of anyone’s fucking problems? Anyway you don’t want your ‘art’ stolen stop drawing shitty transphobic propaganda

[queer-sammy]

All furbies say: “Fuck cringe culture!”

[kedamonoz-archive]

gentle reminder that mother’s day is not for all moms. it’s for good moms. abusive and neglectful moms do not deserve to be celebrated on this day. and if you are the child of one of those moms, you should feel no guilt in ignoring the day altogether. I hope you can stay strong kiddos! ♡

[official-cisphobe]

"Stop saying minors can be ace! They can't! They're pure innocence who shant be exposed to obscenity!!" Bih I've been verbally id'ing as ace since I was 14 and learned the word... But even then, I was having ace experiences since being 10. These people ain't no different to the folks who insist I was oversexualizing my own body for knowing I was trans at 7yo because "I shouldn't know the differences or purposes of a male or female body [at that age]". Different labels. Same damn story.

People these days really think 13 yos don’t know what sex is

[dysphoria-appropriator]

The idea that minors can't be ace is what pushed me to stop Iding as ace when I was about 14, because I thought that well if kids can't be ace there must be something wrong with me. This mindset completely fucked up my mental health and led to me dangerous coping methods and to seeking out very Hm...content as a way to try to "fix" myself. I've only very recently started IDing as aroace again and already I feel so much better.

Anyways minors can very much be aspec and this line of thinking also throws CSA survivors under the bus because so many of us have way to much knowledge of our own sexuality at a young age because of our trauma.

[idezwitch]

and i oop-

[whatevercomestomymind]

Boost this. Malicious fucking compliance y'all. Tie up their legal system with tens of thousands of cases. Burn their state government’s cash on this issue. Force them to play by the Nth degree of this idiotic rule.

[dysphoria-appropriator]

I woke up with intense back pain which inspired me to go off so...

I have severe back pain, ranging from "holy shit I can't move" to "ow my bones". I also have severe breathing problems; I can't even walk without getting out of breath, I find myself unable to breathe in completely normal situations let alone ones where my chest is being pushed on. I cannot wear a binder regularly. It would be extremely damaging to my physical health. It could kill me if I tried to wear one more often than I already do.

So I have severe chest dysphoria most of the time, and I mean severe in the way that it brings me anxiety attacks and makes my depression so much worse on bad days. I am also an E cup, which means that even when I wear a sports bra that's tight enough to still be comfortable, loose shirts, and a fucking XL hoodie that I stole from by boyfriend, it is still very visible that I have breasts.

The truscum/transmed caricatures that make having large breasts, or not binding to be something only ""trenders"" do very much triggers my dysphoria.

I'll also say that I'm one of those people who ""flaunts their chest""; On days when I feel more feminine I tend to dress as such. I have several shirts that are very tight around my chest, since I'm only a medium in every other measurement but my chest. I recently bought a bright pink dress that happens to show of some cleavage when I wear my bra with it. And oh yea, I own a bra! It's lacy and everything.

So anyways, moral of the story is that if truscum saw pictures of me they'd call me a "trender" they would tell me that I'm faking being trans or w/e other clown shit they're on. Even though i have extreme dysphoria, so i fit their "trans enough" criteria. Based purely off my appearance which I cannot control as much as I'd like to.

But I am also nonbinary so some of them would just kill me on the spot for that anyways.

[megan-against-nasties]

Yes I’m asexual, yes I commit tax fraud, yes we exist!

[trendernepeta]

hello! reminder that…

gnc ≠ nondysphoric

non-passing ≠ nondysphoric

closeted ≠ nondysphoric

unable or not wanting to transition ≠ nondysphoric

never t / never e ≠ nondysphoric

using “weird” pronouns ≠ nondysphoric

trans women using he / him + trans guys using she / her ≠ nondysphoric

“having boobs” ≠ nondysphoric

having noticeable body parts you can’t hide (ex. breasts, adam’s apple, etc) ≠ nondysphoric

being a curvy trans guy ≠ nondysphoric

having a deep voice as a trans woman ≠ nondysphoric

having some types dysphoria but not all of them ≠ nondysphoric

having dyed hair ≠ nondysphoric

wearing makeup ≠ nondysphoric

NOT wearing makeup ≠ nondysphoric

liking being trans ≠ nondysphoric

liking your body ≠ nondysphoric

having an uncommon name ≠ nondysphoric

having unaccepting parents ≠ nondysphoric

stop calling everyone who doesn’t fit your “real trans” ideals nondysphoric / trenders challenge!

[trendernepeta]

rb if you bully cishets who say they don’t agree with the lgbt

[official-cisphobe]

Shout out to all the agender folk out there! 💚🖤💚🖤💚🖤

[yourfriendjellybean-deactivated]

Which is worse, cis girls identifying as a “demi” girl, or cis girls identifying as a “demi boy”?

[opossumqueer]

how about cis girls identifying as “transmeds” and butting their heads into issues they don’t know shit about?

[misogynistcatgirl]

Y'all realise that you’re supposed to be uncomfortable when we talk about transmisogyny right? I don’t do this shit to make you happy, it’s the hard truth that trans women are hurting, and dying, and if that makes you “too uncomfortable” then good, cause you need to face the consequences of your actions, transmisogynist.

Also, when I start talking about transmisogyny, and you start talking over me, or making excuses for it, or you try to change the subject? You are part of the problem

**no group is exempt from this post, this is not just about cis people, trans people can be and often are transmisogynistic too**

[misogynistcatgirl]

The amount of times I’ve been talked over or ignored while talking about transmisogyny is in the thirties, the amount of time people have got angry at me for “making the uncomfortable” is in the hundreds, all by people who get into ace, transmisandry and transmed discourse all day, it’s almost as if it’s “too uncomfortable” when it’s hurting trans women, and you don’t wanna admit you’re part of the problem

Being uncomfortable is a normal part of finding out you hurt people everyday

Non transfem reblog this or I’ll assume you’re part of the problem too

[passionpeachy-deactivated202312]

snufkin isn’t sorry for tasing a cop, he’s just sorry moomin had to pay for it

[passionpeachy-deactivated202312]

snufkin electrocuting cops is child appropriate 

[0sbrain]