saw that daysleftofsecondterm has been interacting with more outright terfs, new regulars there who are terfs, which was what i figured would occur if daysleft dug in their heels about transmisogyny, it is what ive watched happen for a year or two now that those who are willing to sexually harass and speak over trans women are quickly befriended by terfs
did not see that daysleft's main, lizluvscupcakes, has been marked red on shinigami eyes, which was not what i was expecting since daysleft deletes their harassment of trans women to avoid backlash more than ever make things right, and thats how terfs tend to avoid getting marked red for as long as they can while spewing terf nonsense
if you think it is only an online thing when women dont take well to being told to shut up and learn to suck dick, i dont think youve talked to many women.
tumblr the sjw website where if you get mad when some tells you to learn to suck dick to stop hating men you'll be told to log off where apparently women are happy to be told they are manhating bitches who need to sexually please men to be better
if you think it is only an online thing when women dont take well to being told to shut up and learn to suck dick, i dont think youve talked to many women.
tumblr the sjw website where if you get mad when some tells you to learn to suck dick to stop hating men you'll be told to log off where apparently women are happy to be told they are manhating bitches who need to sexually please men to be better
misandry = any dislike expressed towards men for whatever reason, occurs as much as if not worse than misogyny
transmisogyny = any dislike expressed towards groypers, and not transmisogyny (liz does not believe in the existence of transmisogyny or TME/TMA), but transphobia
not transmisogyny = telling a trans woman to learn how to suck dick to stop being a misandrist
Saying "of course I don't hate all men, but on average during my interactions and life as a Trans woman I've been treated far worse by men than women in general and I think there's a big issue with rape culture in masculine spaces, including the queer ones, how eager men are willing to sexually humiliate Trans women for clout from other men and I generally feel the need to feel out if the guy I'm talking to is a normal person or if he's gonna stalk me with his nazi ass friends for years on end" conveys the frustration but saying
"I hate all men" while dishonest stupid and exaggeration it makes men so insecure they start screenshotting my every post I make trying to debunk my every word and pisses people off making them pay attention to the real issue which is misogyny. Even if they think of me as a complete fool and an idiot in the end, they have to face what I'm saying and deconstruct it showing their true biases, and what they really believe, how they really treat a woman, a litmus test a vibe check for a guy, seeing how he handles a woman in man's world saying she hates men
"tgirls are terfs, whipping girl is transphobic, im literally nice, stop messing up the vibe freak"
lil example:
Trans Woman Manifesto
THIS MANIFESTO CALLS FOR the end of the scapegoating, deriding, and dehumanizing of trans women everywhere. For the purposes of this manifesto, trans woman is defined as any person who was assigned a male sex at birth, but who identifies as and/or lives as a woman. No qualifications should be placed on the term “trans woman” based on a person’s ability to “pass” as female, her hormone levels, or the state of her genitals—after all, it is downright sexist to reduce any woman (trans or otherwise) down to her mere body parts or to require her to live up to certain societally dictated ideals regarding appearance. Perhaps no sexual minority is more maligned or misunderstood than trans women. As a group, we have been systematically pathologized by the medical and psychological establishment, sensationalized and ridiculed by the media, marginalized by mainstream lesbian and gay organizations, dismissed by certain segments of the feminist community, and, in too many instances, been made the victims of violence at the hands of men who feel that we somehow threaten their masculinity and heterosexuality. Rather than being given the opportunity to speak for ourselves on the very issues that affect our own lives, trans women are instead treated more like research subjects: Others place us under their microscopes, dissect our lives, and assign motivations and desires to us that validate their own theories and agendas regarding gender and sexuality.
Trans women are so ridiculed and despised because we are uniquely positioned at the intersection of multiple binary gender-based forms of prejudice: transphobia, cissexism, and misogyny. Transphobia is an irrational fear of, aversion to, or discrimination against people whose gendered identities, appearances, or behaviors deviate from societal norms. In much the same way that homophobic people are often driven by their own repressed homosexual tendencies, transphobia is first and foremost an expression of one’s own insecurity about having to live up to cultural gender ideals. The fact that transphobia is so rampant in our society reflects the reality that we place an extraordinary amount of pressure on individuals to conform to all of the expectations, restrictions, assumptions, and privileges associated with the sex they were assigned at birth.
"tgirls are terfs, whipping girl is transphobic, im literally nice, stop messing up the vibe freak"
lil example:
Trans Woman Manifesto
THIS MANIFESTO CALLS FOR the end of the scapegoating, deriding, and dehumanizing of trans women everywhere. For the purposes of this manifesto, trans woman is defined as any person who was assigned a male sex at birth, but who identifies as and/or lives as a woman. No qualifications should be placed on the term “trans woman” based on a person’s ability to “pass” as female, her hormone levels, or the state of her genitals—after all, it is downright sexist to reduce any woman (trans or otherwise) down to her mere body parts or to require her to live up to certain societally dictated ideals regarding appearance. Perhaps no sexual minority is more maligned or misunderstood than trans women. As a group, we have been systematically pathologized by the medical and psychological establishment, sensationalized and ridiculed by the media, marginalized by mainstream lesbian and gay organizations, dismissed by certain segments of the feminist community, and, in too many instances, been made the victims of violence at the hands of men who feel that we somehow threaten their masculinity and heterosexuality. Rather than being given the opportunity to speak for ourselves on the very issues that affect our own lives, trans women are instead treated more like research subjects: Others place us under their microscopes, dissect our lives, and assign motivations and desires to us that validate their own theories and agendas regarding gender and sexuality.
Trans women are so ridiculed and despised because we are uniquely positioned at the intersection of multiple binary gender-based forms of prejudice: transphobia, cissexism, and misogyny. Transphobia is an irrational fear of, aversion to, or discrimination against people whose gendered identities, appearances, or behaviors deviate from societal norms. In much the same way that homophobic people are often driven by their own repressed homosexual tendencies, transphobia is first and foremost an expression of one’s own insecurity about having to live up to cultural gender ideals. The fact that transphobia is so rampant in our society reflects the reality that we place an extraordinary amount of pressure on individuals to conform to all of the expectations, restrictions, assumptions, and privileges associated with the sex they were assigned at birth.
I hate when non-women make jokes about hating women. When men do it it makes me want to stab them repeatedly but I hate when nb people do it too. Like at minimum it makes me trust you less.
I hate when people make jokes about how much they hate a gender. It just ain’t cool. It’s not very nice. I don’t see why there’d ever be a reason to do it ever.
imagine telling a woman "learn how to suck dick" to shut her up when she's speaking ill of men and then imagining that you are fighting rather than enforcing sexism. this is indistinguishable from the crudest bullshit that antifeminist men shout at women. you sound like some asshole on the street. legitimately, what the fuck is wrong with you. you should be deeply ashamed of yourself.
Christ, what the fuck is wrong with you people? Can't you just be nice to each other?
Like, try to understand each other for a minute. You have on one side queer people saying that transphobes don't consider, regard or treat trans men as men, and on the other queer people saying that trans women are affected by transmisogyny. And you treat each other as enemies?
Disclaimer for the reading comprehension website: I'm not arguing for universal niceness. You can tell a fascist to go fuck themselves. But is that what's going on here? Aren't these people that we act towards like this the ones we should have a community with?
Yeah, don't tell a woman to learn how to suck a dick. Also don't say you hate men, esp when the context makes it seem targeted at queer men? But also don't hijack posts about transmisogyny to talk about the shit trans men deal with. But also why are you partaking in this toxic discourse. But also also... you could go on forever. This post is a trainwreck at each word, as is this site's culture and this useless discourse.
Yea tumblr intersex and trans masc communities have a transmisogyny problem, but we trans fems do also have problems with intersexism and oppression olympics, and to be honest internalized transphobia as well. So what are you going to do about it? Keep parroting talking points that probably originate from right wing trolls, partake in harassment campaigns started by terfs, virtue post about historical psy-ops and learn nothing?
@dorothylarouge, @thoughtgod, @lizluvscupcakes, how about all of you apologize to each other.
Genuinely cannot believe this fucking asshole tried to do this half-assed “apology” which says nothing about what was actually done and does not address me at all. The absolute unmitigated gall.
How are people writing a whole essay on this I could barely write a few sentences on this. You said something wrong. You apologized and deleted it. End of story. Are these people just making shit up lmao
Well the essayist here repeatedly mentioned a book they have either written or are writing (wasn’t terribly clear) so maybe this is just a really lame advertisement for it?
(Don’t worry if I post it I won’t say their book’s name or their name)
So they’re writing an essay on how you’re a bad person for a mistake to advertise their book? That’s the most random thing ever and also not a very good advertising strategy. This is incredibly confusing for someone to do and also incredibly funny to hear about
