ryan

he/him, 26 // terfs dni 

[earthbound-in-doubt]

🎵 I loves the boys and I loves good wine 🎵

[allthingswhumpyandangsty]

[cannabiscomrade]

I wasn’t going to derail the disability pride month post for people with peanut allergies but in relation to that topic

I have never seen another allergy that has been so viscerally hated and mocked by people working in education like nut allergies. I’ve seen fellow teachers cringe that their classroom was the “nut free” classroom that year. Support staff that are trained and willfully don’t follow cross contamination protocol in the lunchroom because it’s too “tedious” or “time-consuming”. Full preschools + childcare centers that refuse to accommodate nut allergies. Schools where the only free lunch is a PB&J. Before/after school programs and summer programs whose food curriculum has nuts and doesn’t provide an alternative activity.

Allergy discrimination is so so insidious and prevalent. It’s happening behind their back and it is everything from the exposure joke to possibly causing someone to go into anaphylaxis from willful ignorance.

Also other parents in the classroom are guilty too. The “not my child not my problem” brain rot means that those lunchboxes are like bombs for airborne exposure allergies

[cannabiscomrade]

A woman with a severe peanut allergy says airline staff laughed at her and ignored her requests when she tried to fly to Costa Rica

A 22-year-old woman said Lufthansa staffers were not sympathetic to her condition when she tried to explain her life-threatening peanut alle

I was not downplaying this. The stigma is real, and people are 100% willing to let people with allergies die.

This woman was laughed at for asking for allergy accommodations at multiple points in her trip, and was denied to the point that she was practically told she’d be refused care in the event of anaphylaxis.

[bethany-sensei]

I work in healthcare. I cannot get my coworkers to consistently change their gloves after handling a PBJ. They literally do not think of it, and I don’t understand why. I also don’t know how to make it stick in their brains that this is a thing they need to do.

[trixree]

I grew up in the early 2000s with severe allergies to not just peanuts, but ALL nuts as well as beef, pork, shelfish, seeds, kiwi, and some food dyes. The resistance that my family faced from educators in the early 2000s is frankly bananas, not to mention the shit other parents and kids got up to.

When my mom tried to enroll me in preschool, the school principal refused any basic accommodations like asking everyone to wash their hands after lunch before re-entering the classroom, not bringing straight up peanuts to snack time, etc. There was no such thing as a nut free classroom at the time. The principal told my mom and me (I was 4 at the time and definitely in the room when this happened) “if she’s so sick, she belongs in a bubble, not at school.” THE FUCKING PRINCIPAL! My mom had to threaten legal action under the ADA to get them to comply.

Look, I was on a 504 accommodation plan under the ADA for the entirety of my formative education (elementary thru high school). That’s all 12 years!!! And yet I have had teachers hand me items I’m allergic to as a “reward”. I have had other kids intentionally try to send me into anaphylaxis. One girl in 3rd grade asked me why I “wasn’t dead yet” when she had put on a lotion with almonds in it and then held my hand. I’ve had other parents write letters to the school saying what a terrible inconvenience it was to them to not be able to send their kiddo to school with PB&J, demanding I be Removed to a special education only class if my “needs” were such a “burden” to others. During elementary school “parties” held in the classroom on holidays and for student birthdays, I was always sent to sit out in the hallway or go to the library, because even though parents were only supposed to bring safe foods into the room (they had a list of all my allergies) they never once got it right. Administrators fought me tooth and nail for the right to carry my epi pen and other meds on my person at all times. Why they thought I would start dealing benadryl on the playground, I do not know. At lunch, I was always sat at a specific segregated table labeled the “Nut Free Table” alone because who the fuck is going to sit there with the literally segregated outcast? But ONCE notably I was sat on one side of a line of blue masking tape down the table top with the rest of my class on the other. One side was the NUTS side!!! As if allergens would respect that tape barrier. (Spoiler alert: they do NOT!)

Literally from preschool to my senior year of high school, I was “the peanut kid”. Other parents gave my mom books about how to “cure your child’s food allergies from HOME” by micro dosing with things they are allergic to (please never ever ever even attempt anything like a food challenge with a known allergen outside of the care and supervision of a medical professional, holy shit that’s so dangerous). My mom joined the PTA in my last year of high school so that I could maybe participate in all the senior-focused events like pool parties and breakfast at school on the first Friday of the month. The number of times another parent either (a) decided it wasn’t worth it to care or (b) intentionally brought peanut products to an event to spite either me or my mom??? I literally could not count. It happened constantly.

College was better, but I still occasionally had people BALK when I asked them to please not eat a Nature Valley bar with whole nuts in it right the fuck next to me in lecture, thanks. Work parties and catered lunches were always impossible. A few conferences I went to as an undergrad were SUPPOSED to be nut-free, but always fucked up the catering. At one, they set up snack tables by every exit of the conference auditorium so that when people left after the talk, they all congregated around the exits and opened macadamia nut cookies and granola bars. When I had subsequently had a massive allergic reaction and needed help getting home (I’d walked) after taking like 200mg of benadryl, the staff offered me a stack of napkins and a lukewarm apology.

Food allergy is a disability which touches literally every aspect of a person’s life. Everytime I share with someone new about what it was like growing up with my allergies, they have never heard anything like it in their lives. They’re always like “holy shit, seriously??? People did that??? Kids tried to kill you??? Parents wanted you kicked out of the classroom????” Yeah, man. Yeah. My own brother (who doesn’t have any allergies at all) doesn’t understand why I don’t “eat more adventurously” and why I won’t travel internationally. So, saying it REALLY LOUDLY for people in the back:

FOOD ALLERGY IS A DISABILITY FOR WHICH EVERYONE SHOULD BE ABLE TO ACCESS ACCOMMODATIONS AND HAVE THEM TAKEN SERIOUSLY.

[radar-and-his-one-am-thoughts]

So this story is less about me and more about an acquaintance of mine. About a year ago some classmates and I were privileged enough to go visit Germany for 3 weeks as a school trip. My acquaintance, who for the sake of her privacy we will call Amy, had a deadly allergy to sunflower seeds and certain other grains. I do not know for certain if the flight attendants were made aware of this fact.

When on the flight Amy was fed bread that contained multiple things she was allergic to. The packaging was completely unlabled and she was never offered an allergy warning before or during the 13 hour flight. She had an allergic reaction and had a very hard time breathing and had to take the ONE epipen she had access to for this whole trip that day. She would not be able to get a new one. The flight attendants did not give a singular fuck about what happened to her and the position she was put in because of their carelessness.

Fast forward to the end of the trip. Luckily Amy had no further incidents during the trip. We get on the plane for the flight home and Amy asks about the food for the flight and if she can have the ingredients list. She also makes it clear to the flight attendants that this is really important because she has already had an incident and no longer has her epipen.

Do you want to know what the flight attendants did?

They kicked her off the plane. They kicked a seventeen year old off a plane and left her behind in an unfamiliar city because they would rather not deal with her disability. She delayed the flight for several minutes begging and crying for them to not leave her there. She told them she had no way of accessing a new epipen here, but they said she couldn’t fly without it. Me and my friend who were sitting next to her held her and argued with the flight attendant to keep her on the plane. She sobbed as she said she could just not eat anything, or that she could eat what she brought aboard. They still kicked her off. Bless the chaperone that chose to stay behind with her so she wouldn’t be alone.

You want to know the most fucked up part after that? The flight attendant who kicked her off was amused about the whole thing like it was some funny joke. Another one complained that “In all his years of working this job he had never been so disrespected.”

Amy and the chaperone ended up sleeping at that airport over night before they could get on another flight. I don’t remember if she was able to get another epipen for the flight home but I think she was.

Case in point, allergies are a serious disability that NEED to be treated with more respect and severity. Regardless of what they are. Someone’s life could be at stake. When someone has a disability they need to be accommodated. Don’t give them a hard time or make jokes at their expense. So what if you have to give up a thing or two to make sure they don’t die. You’ll survive not eating that specific thing for a bit. And as someone who grew up with someone with a serious allergy, I promise you it is not that hard to give something up for the safety of others.

[rarehertz]

cock reveal in 12,000 years

[cheddar-baby]

11,999 years

[cheddar-baby]

11,998 years

[pilferingapples]

Bohemian Rhapsody Lyric Poll #4

One more time, choose your lyric:

So you think you can stone me and spit in my eye?

So you think you can love me and leave me to die

Can't do this to me baby

Just gotta get right outta here

Sick Guitar Riff #2

ooh yeah, ooh yeah

Nothing really matters, anyone can see

Nothing really matters

Nothing really matters to me

(any way the wind blows)

Remaining time: 2 hours 22 minutes

[pilferingapples]

What Lyric from Bohemian Rhapsody are You pt 4

Pick your lyric, pick your fate :

I see a little silhouetto of a man

SCARAMOUCHE SCARAMOUCHE

Will you do the Fandango?

THUNDERBOL AND LIGHTNING

Very very frightening me

GALILEO Galileo GALILEO Galileo Galileo FigaroOOoo

I'm just a poor boy nobody loves me /He's just a poor boy from a poor family

Spare him his life for this monstrosity

Easy come, easy go, will you let me go ?

BISMILLAH NO we will not let you go

Oh Mamma Mia Mamma Mia

Beelzebub has a devil put aside for me for me for meeeeee

Remaining time: 1 hour 22 minutes

Poll #1 Poll #2 Poll #3

[pilferingapples]

Bohemian Rhapsody Lyrics Poll 3

What Lyric are You

Too late, my time has come

Sends shivers down my spine

Body's aching all the time

Goodbye everybody I've got to go

Gotta leave you all behind and face the truth

Mama, ooh (any way the wind blows)

I don't wanna die

I sometimes wish I'd never been born at all

Sick Guitar Riff #1

Remaining time: 56 minutes

Poll #1 Poll #2

Poll #4

[pilferingapples]

Awright carry on carry on-ing:

What Lyric from Bohemian Rhapsody are You (pt 2)

Mama just killed a man

Put a gun against his head pulled my trigger now he's dead

Mama life had just begun

But now I've gone and thrown it all away

MAMAAAAAAA ooOOOOoooOOOoooo

Didn't mean to make you cry

If I'm not back again this time tomorrow

Carry on carry on as if nothing really matters

Remaining time: 10 minutes

More to come SORRY FOR THE POLL SPAM but this is for A DREAM Prev BR lyrics poll

[pilferingapples]

This has nothing to do with anything but I am fulfilling a friend's dream here

What Lyric from Bohemian Rhapsody Are You (1)

Is this the real life?

Is this just fantasy?

Caught in a landslide

No escape from reality

Open your eyes , look up to the skies and see

I'm just a poor boy I need no sympathy

because I'm easy come easy go

Anyway the wind blows doesn't really matter to me

Remaining time:

Poll #2

Poll #3 Poll #4

[genderkoolaid]

transmasc cinderella but this version no one recognizes cinderella at the ball bc he’s magically transitioned into his ideal gender presentation for that night,,,

(funny comedy version of the slipper could be that his packer falls out) (not comedy version would probably still be a shoe. or like a ring or something)

YES I LOVE TRANSMASC GAY CINDERELLA!!!!!!!!

It also makes the ending so much more romantic. Because it's not just that the prince recognizes Cinderella without all the finery. The story becomes the ultimate gay trans man's fantasy: to be recognized as a man, by a man, even while in full girlmode. And then to have that man take you away from your abusive transphobic family (who gets their eyes pecked out by the down with cis crows).

[genderkoolaid]

transmasc cinderella but this version no one recognizes cinderella at the ball bc he’s magically transitioned into his ideal gender presentation for that night,,,

(funny comedy version of the slipper could be that his packer falls out) (not comedy version would probably still be a shoe. or like a ring or something)

YES I LOVE TRANSMASC GAY CINDERELLA!!!!!!!!

It also makes the ending so much more romantic. Because it's not just that the prince recognizes Cinderella without all the finery. The story becomes the ultimate gay trans man's fantasy: to be recognized as a man, by a man, even while in full girlmode. And then to have that man take you away from your abusive transphobic family (who gets their eyes pecked out by the down with cis crows).

[kirbyofthestars]

> “mannish features”

> look inside

> literally just common physical traits among women of colour

[kirbyofthestars]

you can’t separate transmisogyny from racism. the radical feminism movement is so overwhelmingly white because their idea of what a woman is is so thoroughly steeped in white supremacy.

[isuggestrespecttranspeople]

You can’t separate transmisogyny from racism. Very important to remember

[anglerfl3sh]

I love post like "you all are against rich people until they're a fictional character" because it's completely true. I am against rich people until it's a fictional character. I don't think liking Scrooge McDuck makes someone a class traitor

[brightlotusmoon]

[lamine-19]

scientific fact

[killrockstar]

[elbiotipo]

"warm, shallow seas" is one of the most beautiful phrases in paleontology and it's everywhere... these mollusks lived in warm, shallow seas... scientists think that photosynthetic life evolved in warm, shallow seas... in that era the Earth was covered by warm, shallow seas...

I wish I was resting by an antediluvian warm, shallow sea

[trumpetsbyjasonderulo]

one must imagine sisyphus in margaritaville