eblu

25. he/him. SFW!!!

[eblu3]

this pride month your mission is to be nice to all the aspecs who are sitting in the corner. including the repulsed ones

[eblu3]

ngl being personally repulsed by furry tf has me constantly on edge on here no matter how many tags I mute

[eblu3]

yeah I'll be controversial here, all that stuff makes me super uncomfortable and I'd prefer to avoid it but people tag it a bit too haphazardly and I find it difficult to tell if someone will respect my boundaries about it or not considering that specific one has been crossed twice at this point

[eblu3]

ngl being personally repulsed by furry tf has me constantly on edge on here no matter how many tags I mute

[eblu3]

this pride month your mission is to be nice to all the aspecs who are sitting in the corner. including the repulsed ones

[eblu3]

I need to be able to get super annoying about being aroace tbh tbh

[canonically47]

this pride month, don't forget to shout out asexuals and aromantics. sometimes even pride month can make us feel isolated so DON'T FORGET US!! WE'RE HERE AND WE'RE QUEER!!

[eblu3]

I'm reblogging as much aroace propaganda as I possibly can this month

[naps-and-nonsense]

The classic experiences of figuring out you're asexual include:

1) "There's something wrong with me."

2) "There's something wrong with everybody else."

3) "There's something wrong with me but thank God."

4) "Everybody experiences things differently." (There's something wrong with everybody else.)

[ozalite]

So you see yourself and your desires in stories about hard to name and understand but certainly real and strong relationships

And honestly me too my friend me too

[depressedcryptographer]

Asking for touch as an aspec is so weird like “hey, please touch me, but not in a sex/romance way, just in a human contact way. Interact with my body’s touchscreens. Punch me in the face or something. Please. I’ll take anything at this point.”

Edit: of course everyone here has blanket permission to tag this as Blorbo from their Shows. We love seeing representation, implicit or explicit.

[aro-ace-chaos]

I’m so tired of the “why do people hate aspecs, they aren’t doing anything?” argument. I know that it is an attempt to support us, but it fails so spectacularly to understand aromanticism, asexuality, and any other aspec identity that it’s actively frustrating.

We are doing something. We’re rejecting allonormative ideals and that’s a massive thing to do. We’re actively fighting not just to help other aspecs, but to help everyone, because amatonormativity (and allonormativity as a whole) hurt everyone. Single people who want to find a partner but can’t also deserve to be able to exist.

There are so many issues with the expectation of marriage, including:

A single income isn't enough to get by anymore

Having a spouse is almost necessary under the current medical system

Society shames and pressures people who are single to get into relationships constantly

Rejecting allonormativity means fighting against these things that hurt everyone.

So, no, aces and aros and other aspecs aren't "doing nothing." We're doing quite a lot.

[dogpuppy]

[eblu3]

yeah sure internet outage less than an hour before my work from home job starts that's real nice.

[eblu3]

They can't get a tech out until tomorrow morning 😔

[eblu3]

yeah sure internet outage less than an hour before my work from home job starts that's real nice.

[aroacesafeplaceforall]

Love is love but the absence of it doesn’t make you any less human either

[canonically47]

this pride month, don't forget to shout out asexuals and aromantics. sometimes even pride month can make us feel isolated so DON'T FORGET US!! WE'RE HERE AND WE'RE QUEER!!

[the-irreverend]

And stay safe everyone!