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wow! i just love love love when pride month for me starts with ace/aro people not being queer discourse and somebody trying to push a new asexual flag that ignores the original history and meaning because she found it boring!
im being sarcastic but actually that second one is pissing me off because of half the quotes im reading about her opinion. "it's boring" "i prefer the pan or lesbian flag visually" "the white streak represents allies!" 1. most of the older flags are simple because they were supposed to be easy to make stuff for and recognizable.
2. okay??? i think other flags are prettier than some, that doesn't mean i critique my own flag.
3. the white streak is for non-asexual /partners/, yknow aka ace people who are dating allo folks???? which ends up being a large portion of asexual peoples' experiences???
like use whatever flag you want but don't push this narrative that the original was bad because you didn't like it and didn't understand what it meant. it shows a lack of understanding your own community's history
also if anyone tries to pull the "you're probably white" card. i'm not. this isn't a racial critique, it's a critique on how this person came off to me as not knowing her history here.
also it's far too similar to the nonbinary flag and this flag will get mistaken for either the nonbinary flag or even the queerplatonic flag. it feels like it was poorly thought out if she really wanted it to be unique and less boring.
adding on
i personally will be blocking anyone using the new ace flag
as looking deeper in the entire flag makes me deeply uncomfortable as an asexual who struggles with the concept of love to some extent
being colorblind the flag is a headache to look at. so i will struggle to look at it & struggle to tell it apart from the nonbinary and queerplatonic flags
the entire push of telling white aces that their opinions on the new flag don’t matter & if they dislike it for any reasons ive shared they’re racist isn’t a fun thing to have seen either
so use the flag if you want but be warned if you sound like you’ll be using it i will be blocking you. just as a preface since i saw a few people interacting who seem to be using it rn
wow! i just love love love when pride month for me starts with ace/aro people not being queer discourse and somebody trying to push a new asexual flag that ignores the original history and meaning because she found it boring!
im being sarcastic but actually that second one is pissing me off because of half the quotes im reading about her opinion. "it's boring" "i prefer the pan or lesbian flag visually" "the white streak represents allies!" 1. most of the older flags are simple because they were supposed to be easy to make stuff for and recognizable.
2. okay??? i think other flags are prettier than some, that doesn't mean i critique my own flag.
3. the white streak is for non-asexual /partners/, yknow aka ace people who are dating allo folks???? which ends up being a large portion of asexual peoples' experiences???
like use whatever flag you want but don't push this narrative that the original was bad because you didn't like it and didn't understand what it meant. it shows a lack of understanding your own community's history
also if anyone tries to pull the "you're probably white" card. i'm not. this isn't a racial critique, it's a critique on how this person came off to me as not knowing her history here.
also it's far too similar to the nonbinary flag and this flag will get mistaken for either the nonbinary flag or even the queerplatonic flag. it feels like it was poorly thought out if she really wanted it to be unique and less boring.
thinking about the idea of a forsaken x tcoaal (thanks to like maybe 1-2 posts in the prosaken tag about it)
and i really wanna like, do sprite edits for it. but also i'm indecisive and unsure about like who to put as andrew and ashley for it.
like there's a few options - elliot x mia (though the age gap is a bit bigger than canon)
- chance x lance (twins though, so the age gap isn't exactly what i'd be aiming for)
- bluudud x c00lkidd OR pr3typriincess (not necessarily siblings in canon but i can fiddle around with things)
- itrapped x noob (not canon siblings but i see a lot of people headcanoning them as related)
and probably others i've forgotten. dunno if i should just like make a poll for it and see what people would wanna see.
man... i think the proship discord i was in got deleted and moved while i was asleep or something...
like man that was probably the one server i was active in, this also seems to be a trend for them. makes me debate on making my own, not like i don't have experience helping to moderate servers. it's just kind of a nightmare.
i guess right now it's just more, if someone wants to help me make & moderate a server. won't just take like the first come first server bc i'd need to like check out the person before agreeing but still.
To those of you against the currenr use of intersex phrasing in the game:
Those features of hlthe game were made several years ago, before herm/hermaphrodite became a slur (just like tranny/transsexual or fag is now, to a lot of people, considered slurs). Back then, hermaphrodite was a much more accepted term in the community, as "intersex" just... wasn't something anyone even knew about back then. If we're taking into consideration the general era in which the game takes place in as well, the terminology fits too. And in fact, when the game was created, hermaphrodite WAS the accepted term to use, as the slurs and sexualized terms were way worse.
But a huge piece to keep in mind...the main gimmick of this game is that it hypersexualizes everything and anything. Literally everything.
So... Maybe just remember this is a rape game that's going to sexualize PC in every single way, shape, and form, and understand that you're playing a fucked up game where slurs are going to happen. Even in the settings. Lol.
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I keep accidentally deleting my draft so here's a rundown of the history around the term from an intersex person who herself reclaims hermaphrodite and finds it hot to be called one.
Intersex was coined in 1917 by Richard Goldschmidt. It wasn't commonplace until in 1993 Anne Fausto Sterling published her article "The Five Sexes: Why Male and Female Are Not Enough"
Until the mid-20th century, "hermaphrodite" was used synonymously with "intersex". Medical terminology shifted in the early 21st century, not only due to concerns about language, but also a shift to understandings based on genetics.
DOL was released in 2018 when the shift in terminology had already happened.
I personally hold no ill will towards Vrel especially considering people still are by and large unaware of Intersex Activism. Even those who are queer may not know much. It's okay for us to point out that slurs are used uniquely for us. I have yet to see a single other slur in the game. Please correct me if I'm wrong though. Again I personally think this isn't a case of intersexism. Fetishization? Absolutely but that's the point. Honestly being a woman or a man is just as fetishized as being a intersex person in this game. I also don't think the use of the term was part of that fetishization. The word was probably what was taught to Vrel as the correct term as it was to me as a kid.
I’m also an intersex individual this does still count as intersexism. When intersex people go “hey! there are other terms that would work better.” and the response is to double down because “it’s what I was taught” or “well people don’t /actually/ have both” it comes off as brushing off information and input from that community.
put it in perspective of any other community. if you accidentally used a slur for gay people or people of color you’d fix it. why is that suddenly less of an issue when it comes to intersex people? it is intersexism due to the impression that intersex people’s opinions and feelings on a slur for them is less important than perisex individuals.
hermaphrodite & herm are still huge slurs used against intersex folk and changing it would be perhaps one of the smaller changes they could make.
I get some find it hot but that is almost more often than not a very small percentage. As the usage of the term actually keeps me from playing the bigenital option because I don’t like seeing it used for my characters.
I hope this made sense as I’m slightly sleep deprived rn. 😔
i know i like, barely post at all but!
if i got back into making like those ship edits you find on tiktok would people be interested in me posting them here?
i'd probably still post them on tiktok but like it'd be nice to have another place where i'm less likely to get that much attention.
Oh my god this is literally like 4 people arguing with each other back and forth, both accusing each other of manufactured positivity or hate and claiming that no, the OTHER side is entirely made up of alts. There's serious revisionism happening too. Anons are claiming there's no Gwylan hate anywhere outside the blog which is complete nonsense, trying to get any positive Gwylan content was miserable until December when the yumeshipper meltdown was happening on twitter. Other anons are claiming that Gwylan haters are the majority and no one could possibly like Gwylan without being a PG dickrider. Yes, I'm sure the hundreds of artists who make Gwylan fanart here and on twitter are all PG on an alt. No one could possibly differ from your universal opinion and be genuine. Shut the fuck up, this is a confession blog and this is turning into a flamewar. If Gwylan haters are so insufferable, block the #gts hate tag. If DoL is now 'unplayable' because of Gwylan (delusional), go play CoT or some renpy slop.
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not even trying to start anything with this person but i kind of don't want to sit and read this when the last paragraph is just kind of. shit?
one. CoT & "renpy slop" (which makes me think you just don't like beginner game devs because renpy is a fine engine if you're willing to learn) will not fill the same needs DoL does. they don't even really touch the same genres besides like being erotic text games.
two. calling people delusional over stuff like this is just ableist. coming from me, a person who has dealt with genuinely awful delusions. say they're overreacting or whatever, but don't use a term as an insult that applies to mentally ill people. just makes you look like the ass in the long run.
wow! that was gore in the anti radqueer tag! thankfully i was able to like clock it and cover the gif before i saw anything and blocked
but like seriously? gore gifs? ik radqueers are often like awful people but i’ve never really witnessed something like that before 🧍
THIS IS NOT A POST FOR DEBATE, THIS IS PARTIALLY A VENT. I WILL BLOCK IF YOU START TO ARGUE IN MY REPLIES.
Sometimes I just try to see what’s up in the proship tags and I always get so genuinely aggravated whenever I see pro endos in them.
I block them obviously, but the whole thing feels so disrespectful. Especially build an alter or headmate blogs, or like people who try to sell alters?
Idk whole thing makes me feel icky and I can’t even filter out the word endo because that’s what folks with endometriosis shorten it to. Just overall aggravating when I’m trying to see proship opinions :/
really sad to see this one forsaken blog go down, i had a few things on there but i understand why they did
i mean i cannot imagine getting harassed about being a pedophile as a minor just because you wanted to make a blog for all fans to have a place to talk about things they liked (canon or headcanons i’m pretty sure it just avoided super negative opinions)
genuinely i think the situation could’ve been resolved if wishes were respected but unfortunately not too shocked, just kinda saddened and hoping the moderators affected are alright. it was just after two vent posts so i get a little worried 😔
What leak screen shots?
Alas, the tweet with the leaked chat screenshots have been taken down.
I had a feeling the screenshots might disappear from Twitter, so I saved them all. I was planning to add them all to the post but there's 59 different images and neither Tumblr or Imgur will let me upload that many in a single one. So I saved them all to a google drive link. I put them in the same order I downloaded them.
But yeah. Here's the link for anyone who wasn't able to see the tweet.
might have to listen to the demons and start posting about a freaky game i’m into
which means i finally have to pull out my minors dni banner for certain posts 💀
sweats eyeing the current state of the game
so it was degrees of lewdity and holy shit bro, i took a short break bc of adult life stuff and now there's a mention of ww2 being like a both sides were bad with a character, sounds like almost every kind of -ism you could have in their discord, and just bad shit all around
like still might post about the game bc the new updates don't really do much to me (i wasn't /that/ interested in gwylan or avery so their updates didn't mean much to me + i use mods)
but like expect me to be critical of a lot of stuff (their use of hermaphrodite for intersex people is yikes, the real lack of trans inclusive writing, the way too much focus on the temple, etc.)
like mostly i'll probably just post about my pcs and their basic information but we'll see. anyways yeah i was talking about DOL in my og post about it.
might have to listen to the demons and start posting about a freaky game i’m into
which means i finally have to pull out my minors dni banner for certain posts 💀
✨Introduction Time! ✨
Sup, hoes! Name's Crypt and I'm here to post things that're going to piss off a lot of people! >:P
Info abt me:
🖤18 | Nonbinary | He/They 🖤Proship/Profic + Prokink | Comship | Darkship | Dead Dove 🖤ADHD + Possible Autism | Bipolar Depression | Severe Anxiety
DNI Criteria (Block on Sight): 💔 Basic DNI 💔Minors 💔Antishippers
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Physically hurts my soul seeing other leftists cheer for censorship of fictional media they don't like.
you must always think about a mentor figure exploiting the power imbalance with their mentee. and you must sexualise it as well. otherwise a gazillion hungry angels are going to hell
