To put it very bluntly.
You will always make a better impact helping people who need it than trying to hurt people you think deserve it.
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To put it very bluntly.
You will always make a better impact helping people who need it than trying to hurt people you think deserve it.
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Reducing the calories does not inherently increase the healthiness of your food.
Reducing the fat content does not inherently increase the healthiness of your food.
Reducing the sugars does not inherently increase the healthiness of your food.
The only way to increase the healthiness of your food is by adding additional nutrients to it.
I saw a video of someone complaining that fucking chicken tikka masala "wasn't healthy" so they made a "healthier version" that was, in fact, LESS HEALTHY. Because they made it with only fat free dairy products, rendering many of the vitamins they would have otherwise gotten from that meal utterly useless, because the body needs fats in order to absorb them properly.
Two tbsp of brown sugar does not render a meal "unhealthy." Full fat dairy products do not render a meal "unhealthy." Calorically dense foods do not render a meal "unhealthy."
If you're really concerned about your health, add more nutrients. Eat extra veggies or extra protein. But you're not actually worried about your health. You're worried about your weight.
You're worried that in the process of eating a homemade meal with lean protein and veggies and a rich, delicious sauce you will consume more energy than you can use today.
You're worried that energy might be stored so that your body can use it when it needs to later.
You're worried that your relationship with gravity might change. You've been taught to worry about that. You've been taught to misconstrue manufacturered body issues as being "health conscious." But you're not doing things to promote health. You're just trying to reduce your energy consumption no matter what.
And I am begging you to consider, that this is not actually a "health conscious" mindset at all.
guy working on an artwork they knew would push them technically: what the hell why do i keep doing this wrong. am i haunted by malevolent spirits and such
Do you have more art of Violet planned? She's so pretty! If you don't mind minor requests, I'd love to see her in traditional Korean clothing!
I have a lot of pieces of Violet that are unfinished and on my patreon. I plan on drawing her in Hanbok at some point, but honestly I rarely have time to do any personal art when I'm busy with commissions.
it's sad to me that cis people never apply their "loved one with a wanted-pregnancy" script to medical transition. like cis people often indicate they don't know how to react to hearing about medical transition, but a huge portion of that social script is directly applicable.
tell someone "congratulations!" tell them "I'm so happy for you. I know you've been trying for a really long time." ask them "do you need help with anything?" throw them a party with loved ones where you all give them some gifts in acknowledgement of how expensive it is. celebrate how far along they are. take photos with them so they have a record of being loved while their body changes. allow them to voice fears and doubts and anxieties about how it'll go, and reassure them that they'll get through the intense medical procedure coming up & you'll be there for support no matter what. let them tell you about the gross parts and laugh together. really listen to them when they talk about how amazing and profound it is that the human body can do this. share in their excitement for beginning a new stage of their life.
If there are complications, comfort them and help them navigate what's next. If they lose access suddenly due to finances or criminalization, treat it like a miscarriage and hold them while they grieve.
And it can be done! My closest friend is a cis man, and he's held my hand through all the hardest parts of my transition (and life in general, since he's been in it), including but not limited to:
Being the one to call me when I got the news that my surgery would not be in some months, as I'd been previously told, but some years. Even after I told him "I'll survive", he said that saying that means there's at least a consideration of not surviving, and that even if I wasn't a suicide risk (I wasn't), I deserved care. He listened to me cry profusely for an hour, showed more empathy than I would have thought possible for a cis person, and helped get me back to at least neutral.
Being the one to understand how anxious and stressed I was about my surgical consultation in case there was any reason they could find more delays, and giving me so much emotional support around that, texting non-stop and calling for a while right before my appointment.
Being as happy for me as I was when I got my surgery date; maybe in some ways even happier than me because I was still worried something could go wrong to make some delay.
Being the one to ask me, when my surgery date was nearly reached, if there was anything that'd make things easier for me, anything he could help arrange or such. I didn't ask him to come be with me as (I was fine with his care from a distance and) I knew full well he'd committed months in advance to hosting a large international event in the Netherlands that weekend. But, I heard from a mutual friend afterwards, that he'd privately expressed (i.e. behind my back, so not "just being polite") that he'd otherwise have come over.
Being the one to take time out of the big event he was hosting to at least call me (his offer, not my request) as soon as I got out of theatre and was back on the ward, and he was visibly overjoyed for me (all our calls are videocalls)
And so many cis people say "I'm trying but I just don't understand", as though they never could, but half the time they're not even trying and just want an excuse not to.
I've read a few recently published books, and there's this recurring pattern where if anyone does anything bad and interesting, they have to later talk about it in a way that makes it clear that it was a misunderstanding/ justified/ not their fault, so they're still a good person. and if they have a disagreement with another character, they have to therapy talk it out, regardless of their background. it doesn't matter if this is a street urchin with three teeth who just stabbed and kidnapped someone, you will get eloquent sterile therapy speak that will smooth out any possible emotional tension. and everyone asks for permission before they kiss, and waits for a clear enthusiastic yes. again, doesn't matter the character's background or situation, they will ask "can I please kiss you," because if they didn't, that could get all yucky and uncertain, couldn't it? and if a character is from a rich family, they will hate being in a rich family, and hate wealth signifiers, and actually be all for class equality. and everyone is casually queer, without thought being put into how that would mesh with the society that is being described. like yes, this is violent class-based system obsessed with inheritance, but no, it's not actually a problem that the child they've coldly groomed to take on the family mantle is unwilling to beget an heir because of gay. the parents might be terrible, cruel and fascistic, but they're not homophobic! I don't know, it just seems like EVERYTHING that could actually be messy gets sanded and sanded until it's smooth as a shark, but the Fun Violence is allowed to stay, because bloodshed doesn't actually bother anyone or have any consequence apart from your rogue character shrugging and going oops, was that me? the rogue is still a good person though. if you think they're not, just wait for the two solid pages of introspection. and yes they started the book by slitting two throats, but that was fine. they will ask permission before hugging you.
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A small warmup collab with Miorjah.
I did the sketch and they did the colors. Featuring my Violet as a cow anthro and of course their Miorjah. š
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BUT WAIT! THEREāS MORE! SHE DOIBLES DOWN!
It is actually rare that I get shown stuff that could ACTUALLY be the spawning point of a new and proper named heresy within Holy Roman Catholicism.
āJesus actually survived the crucifixionā is legitimately one of the most terrifyingly viable heretical traditions you could start. It fulfills the exact ramifications for a popular and overwhelming heresy: It supports and glorifies Christās strength (so powerful he could not die in a meaningful way), encouraging different theological philosophies and understandings of the source material, and is COMPLETELY RUINOUS about the WHOLE POINT of Jesus as the Lamb of God. He is destined to die to take on the sins of all humanity forever so we can br forgiven. The death and the resurrection of Christ after his journey into Hell for three days is cosmologically as important as the Trinity. It is one of the pivotal foundations of the entirety of the religion.
If Jesus didnāt die, he didnāt die for us. That changes a LOT of things. But it is at its root a heresy which is not anti-Christian and is instead just a completely irreconcilable veneration.
I love this woman. I need to encourage her to be like this.
tOxIcItY iS a ChArAcTeR tYpE this is fucking amazing
Okay itās been several hours and Iām still not even slightly over this.
Like, Jesus said āI am the resurrection and the life, except the resurrection bit is metaphorical, because Iām too swole to actually die.ā
āFor God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son, but not really, for he made his only begotten son super fucking butch. Like, obviously way too butch to actually succumb to a little crucifying.ā
āPilate was surprised to hear that he was already dead. Summoning the centurion, he asked him if Jesus had already died. The centurion said to him, āJesus is too shredded to kill, heās like the Terminator, nothing can take him out.ā Pilate sent Joseph away with nothing, for Jesus was indestructible.ā
āThe angel said to the women, āDo not be afraid, for I know that you are looking for Jesus, who was crucified but absolutely did not die. He is not here; he has risen, just as he said. Come and see the place where he was just taking a little nap. Then go quickly and tell his disciples: āHe never died, you all really jumped the gun this time.āā
āThe Son of Man is going to be betrayed into the hands of men, but it would take an atomic bomb to kill him, heāll be fine.ā
Let he who is without sin cast the first stone, for he shall be positively jacked, and for his swollage will enable him to bung the biggest rock he could lay his turkey-sized hands upon those that displease him. Amen.
anyone want to start a new branch of christianity with me? iām calling it Unkillable Jesus
turns out they very much did not kill jesus
How dare you leave āmaāam? MORMONS donāt even do thatā in the tags
An Adaline sketch~
Some Sybella outfits~
I have so many planned for her. I wanted to keep with a super feminine theme for her. Lots of bright/light colors that contrast with her skin. All of these are currently wips, obviously (don't even have the crystals colored in on the first outfit).
are you Korean? I noticed on Violet's bio it said she was Korean and i was wondering if you were as well.
Nope! I just don't like writing exclusively white people as my protags. I like adding diversity to my stories.
i ENCOURAGE perverts to come into my ask box actually