The Narrative Of An Enby

My concerns as an enby college student and my journey with my gender.

[briarrosefromthedead]

And Now the Screaming Starts! (1973) dir. Roy Ward Baker

[leatherleaves]

I thought this was a deleted scene or something from pride and prejudice and I was like damn Darcy is having a meltdown.

[enbycanbe]

Why is Florence Pugh literally rapunzel??

[bloodcountessabendroth-deactiva]

Hi, I'm 25 and debating starting male-to-female HRT. However, I'm scared that HRT won't help me at all. It seems like HRT does so little after puberty, especially by the time one gets in their 20s. I'm really scared that I'll just end up being someone in a male body, but with breasts. Is there anything you can say to someone having this fear? Thank you, and sorry, I suspect this is a silly question.

Actually, the claim that HRT doesn’t do much after puberty is a myth.  I started when I was 31 years old and now I’m 35. =)  

It’s never too late to transition!  

[lady-feral]

Yeah, anon, have you seen my timeline?  I started at 29.

It’s never too late.

[transgirltumbling]

Seriously, I transitioned at 39 and I’m 41 now.  Hormones are magic whatever your age and while some things stay, many things change and it’s been totally worth it for me.

[maikai-hoolilo-deactivated20200]

OMG!!! I love seeing posts like this. The hope it inspires. especially in girls like me, is unprecedented. Thank you!

[antiquityashley]

Hope

[themaddahlia-deactivated2023040]

I felt the same way before I started transitioning and especially because I have a fair masculine build. But you know what I’ve learned from my experience so far? Fuck it! There is always hope and you could end up surprising yourself with the results. 

[djzoetrope-blog]

I think results vary, I don’t see much difference between pre-hrt and 8 years on hrt

[alexfromawen]

Just adding another voice to the barrage: It. Is. Never. Too. Late!

The top two pictures are from 2011, age 32. The bottom three are from this yeah, 2016, age 37, and (almost) 2 years on hrt. Hrt is magic.

Never.

Too late.

[iwant2bshiela-deactivated201610]

REBLOGING!!! Always! Forever!

[the-belfry-doll]

Reblog to help someone find the courage uwu

[alpacajess]

Always reblog

[nonbinary-dysphoria]

Look at these amazing and brave women!!!! A reminder to all my followers, it’s not too late!! You can do it!!!!!

[ewok-brock-blog]

This is what I needed to see in my day ☺️ I’m only 23 but I think about making this change on a daily basis and it’s been 3 years since I’ve been thinking that. Hrt is in my future (:

[misshorrorotaku-deactivated2024]

Look at all these gorgeous women! <3

[puppylovesystem]

THIS is what i needed to be able to send to my struggling trans friends

[preppyprincess33-deactivated202]

I needed this

[thefingerfuckingfemalefury]

<3 Never too late <3

[mijomii]

July is disability awareness month but a lot of people tend to forget it :/ :/ :/

[mijomii]

It’s all OK if you didn’t know, don’t feel bad about it, it’s a great occasion to listen to disabled people! We might not have pretty flags who will catch your attentions like during pride months, but we’re still here!

[yamino]

[yamino]

Have another fake preview…

[yamino]

You guys are just encouraging me with these notes. 👀

[enbycanbe]

Would legit pay so much money to see this show

[enbycanbe]

So I’m in the South and a lot of young people get engaged. It’s weird for me because it feels like they’re already like a quarter into the sims game and I’m still here customizing my avatar …

[fickes]

also it helps me walk or whatever

[ID: a digitally drawn two-panel comic. / Image 1: Text reads: “How I expected using a cane would feel:” Panel depicts a miserable person in tattered clothes, hunched over a cane and shaking as she walks. / Image 2: Text reads: “How it actually feels:” Panel depicts the same person, now standing tall and wearing flowing wizard robes and a long white beard. Her cane is at her side, glowing with magic, and she looks confident and powerful. /End ID]

[noping-out-deactivated20241117]

Ooooh, can you do one for wheelchairs except it’s a throne? Because I definitely feel like I’m cruising around on a throne.

[sonneillonv-deactivated20220218]

How I think a wheelchair will make me feel:

How my wheelchair actually makes me feel:

[noping-out-deactivated20241117]

That’s it! That’s it exactly!

[goofygargoyle]

I haven’t gotten a wheelchair yet (blargh hoops) but I’ve rented and used scooters at places and

how you think it’d feel:

how it actually feels:

[catboy-changeling]

If I may add,

How I thought forearm crutches would make me feel:

How forearm crutches actually make me feel:

[noping-out-deactivated20241117]

[ID2: A woman sitting in a wheelchair at an airport looking at something in her lap vs a video game character with purple hair leaning back casually while flying around in a throne-like one-person open craft.

ID3: An old man on a mobility scooter vs a person in racing gear and a helmet whizzing by on a four wheeler.

ID4: A person with forearm crutches staring off into the sunset vs an anime character standing on rock outcrop wielding two swords.]

[youngchronicpain]

This!!!!! This is what young disabled people should be exposed to. We are powerful! Fantastic! Hot and cool as hell!!!! Use your mobility aid and discover your inner badass.

[urlocalllama]

Alex Hirsch is this close to fucking losing it and going on a murderous rampage through Disney’s corporate offices

[enbycanbe]

Don’t buy from Disney during pride month. It’s just rainbow capitalism at its finest. Alex Hirsch( creator of Gravity Falls) can tell you all about it!

[virgomoon-deactivated20240514]

people wanna talk about "don't self diagnose autism" meanwhile the autism test is damn near 3k dollars, a lot of people don't believe women can have autism, and (for black people) doctors don't believe them when they say they have literally anything. so.

[an-alarming-number-of-bees]

Don't forget that an official diagnosis can seriously fuck you over from a legal standpoint.

[wolffangscol]

your friendly reminder that being anti-self dxing is classist and racist and this blog is pro informed self diagnoses

[eighties-toons-deactivated20230]

I made a thing

[enbycanbe]

Inspired to make myself one 🙂

[enbycanbe]

Me: I wish people wouldn’t assume I’m younger than I actually am

Also Me: Has baby face and continually dresses like a kid from The Sandlot

[fcxhole]

today is international asexuality day! on this day, we celebrate those that are under the ace umbrella, including demisexual, gray-asexual, and all kinds of other ace identities.

asexuality is the lack of sexual attraction to others, or low or absent interest in or desire for sexual activity.

asexuality is valid. asexuality exists.

if you are an allosexual person, check in with your friends that are in the ace spectrum today! let them know you are with them every step of the way. and educate those who do not know what asexuality is.

and for us in the spectrum, let's use this day to celebrate our identity! we are in this together, let's not lose the community spirit. we have enough love for everyone.

sending love to my people, happy asexuality day!

[tlirsgender]

I think April should be trans

[tlirsgender]

This post is about teenage mutant ninja turtles but upon further thought I've decided the month is also

[tlirsgender]

Happy April to trans people only

[guerrillatech]

Help my grandmother recover from this trauma, organized by John Chen

Hi everyone, I am fundraising for my grandmother that was racially attacked tod… John Chen needs your support for Help my grandmother recove

[thebiscuiteternal]

Just to note, she was the *second* person he went after that day. The first, an elderly Vietnamese man named Ngoc Pham, also has a gofundme for his medical bills.

Ngoc Pham Fundraiser, organized by Community Youth Center of San Francisco CYCSF

Ngoc Pham, an 83 year old Vietnamese man, was shopping for grocerie… Community Youth Center of San Francisco CYCSF needs your support for Ng

[remy]

URGENT TRANS MAN HAS 10 DAYS TO RAISE $2,475 PLEASE SHARE AND DONATE !

[mclennonwasreal]

probably i just said it but i want to say it again:

- don’t apologise if you don’t know english.

- yes, english is the most common language on the internet but you are not forced to know it perfectly.

- your own language is beautiful.

- non-english people make a huge effort to write in English everyday on this website.

- support non-english people and don’t make them feel bad if they do not know English. 

- actually support all the languages.

- spread more language diversity on Tumblr.

thank you. 

[ironmandeficiency]

life is a fuck ton of mentos and i am but a two liter bottle of coca-cola