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i made your favorite dish. i made you something you’ve never tried before. i love you. i spent twenty minutes chopping. my grandmother made this for me when i was little. i made this dairy free for you. i love you. i want to eat together. the onions made me cry. i love you. i learned this recipe for you. i love you. i made this special for your birthday. i love you. i know you don’t like peppers. i love you. i love you. i love you.

#is this….. me?

dontmean2bepoliticalbut

saywhat-politics

hilarioushitshq

Not Karl..

Idk how many of my followers have watched The Program on Netflix but if you haven't I'd really love if you did. I went to a school they mentioned in it, in the same organization and it would mean a lot to me if you kept the information in the spotlight. ♥

Thank you!

#troubled teen industry #wwasp #the program

So I'm making icons of all the characters from Hazbin Hotel and I just...

look at this italian man. doing angry italian man hand gestures. i CAN'T lol

#the little things you see when you're constantly pausing #this is from when the commercial got interrupted by vox news

caats

catchymemes

frank-gallaghers-beer

me when the chronic pain is chronic and painful:

emwheezie

Salad

cripplemetal

dear disabled people, how do you accommodate your home?

i have shower stool (my recent purchase and i'm so happy with it) and thinking about getting a tall chair (like ones they have at bars) for cooking/doing dishes

ephemeral--ingenue

shower stool is GREAT. i prep food sitting on the couch with a big cutting board i can sit on my lap and bowls on the coffee table to hold veggies in. stools/bar chairs were too painful to sit in for me bc of the lack of back support and height compared to my counters.

i also take prenatal vitamins, they've helped my energy levels more than regular vitamins.

if you can afford it I get a meal service that has healthy food but also takes less than 20 minutes to make (most of them take between 8-15 minutes) and also has groceries so it's meal prep and groceries in one and i dont have to go to the store as much. (it's called hungryroot)

i sit in my rollator to do care tasks like brush my teeth and do my hair. it helps me to have small disposable cups in the bathroom to use to brush my teeth and spit in instead of trying to stand at the sink.

i have a yoga ball in the living room to sit on when sitting anywhere else becomes uncomfortable. my PT recommended that. it also is the perfect height to prop my feet up when i'm having POTS symptoms.

if you live in an apartment and you can get a note from your dr they have to make reasonable accommodations for you like putting up support bars in the bathroom/shower. those have helped me a lot.

i also have a "med cart" it's a rolling craft cart where I keep all my important things like meds, hair ties, lotions, SNACKS (very important), braces, pulse ox/glucose monitor, etc. so that everything you need is in one place and you can take it easily wherever in the house you are.

#hope these help anyone out there

beggars-opera

The old school lack of transparency on tumblr is amazing because you assume the people you follow must all be equivalent to you and then you see someone write “I brought my youngest to college today” and someone else write “my mom wouldn’t let me listen to Ariana Grande when I was a kid” and then your head explodes