More About Me
Name is Tara. Early thirties. She/Her. Iām a fun combo of ASD & mixed ADHD w/ sides of both sensory seeking and sensory avoiding tendencies. Iām also a recovering heroin/crack addict (11 yrs, 8 months) recovering from myriad eating disorders (4 years, 6 months). Iāve been very successful in life in spite of all this, yet I donāt often acknowledge that b/c, yk, abysmally low self-esteem, but I get better about that everyday b/c I work the 12 steps. My gratitude for life was borne of the adversities Iāve faced, the obstacles Iāve overcome.
I find value in labels, (for introductions, disclaimers, self awareness, community/connection), but I also rebel against them w/ the intention of not limiting my personal growth.
Iām a Cancer and an INTP = tons of feelings, but they donāt much guide me.
Aaaaand yet, I'm super empathic. Grey ace/aro, hyper/bisexual, fatsexual. Probably poly, or at least poly friendly, (I feel compersion, not jealousy).
FFA/Feeder (in a super gay way) with a strong lean toward soft feedism. Like, no CNC for me in that context. It's gotta be soft and lovey and joyful and indulgent and adoring.
Fmr. paid sex worker who avidly supports and patronizes paid sex workers.
I have the following physiological ASD comorbidities: hypermobile EDS, (bendy af), MCAS, (Mast Cell Activation Syndrome), subclinical secondary (hypoandrenergic) POTS, Chronic Inflammatory Response Syndrome (from Lyme @ 16) and secondary low T3 hypothyroidism.Ā I have low proprioception w/o dyspraxia but because of the joint hypermobility
I have a B.A. in Psychology & an M.S. in Nutrition & Integrative Health. Human disease/disorder is my primary special interest. Music is my secondary, but itās a fickle/choosy one. Psychopathy/true crime is tertiary. Math/numbers and words/etymology/accents/dialects/language/slang are both quaternary. Iām a finance/HR director.
I have no inclination toward animals. Animals are lovely, but I donāt connect w/ them. Instead, I adore and go āawwwā at all of the baby humans.
Rlyyyy random but I'm vehemently opposed to veganism for the human race. Itās a principle thing and Iām autistic so I have an arsenal of debate material on deck w/o fucks to give about personal feelings; thereās no use in coming for me. I (acknowledge the privilege I have to be able to afford to) practice ethical, environmentally conscious omnivorism. People should live however, and eat whatever, tf they want to, though.
I love to sing, dance, and lift weights. My personal style is the athleisure version of Lydia from Beetlejuice. Petite / short / athletic / hourglass / big boobs / fat ass.
The DMV is home, but Phoenix AZ is my spiritual home, (the rotting cacti give me gut-lvl catharsis...I bawl like a baby about it). Ik, Sedonaaaaa, and sure, but also Phoenix.
Severe existential dread often poisons my naturally gleeful disposition. Very in touch w/ my inner child, VERY silly. Boundless love and adoration to give. Terrified of dying alone, but also need a lot of personal space/time.
Minors: leave me alone.
