evaiswritingg

i am only mildly harley keener

[evaiswritingg]

about me

hiii my name is eva but you can call me anything (not colour blind or harley keener bc i am neither)

my ao3 is evaiswritingg (feat. inconsistent updates with varying chapter lengths)

i love writing, art, music and

my music taste is anything and everything

im a d1 yapper

i love marvel, mlb, gossip girl, etc

tags:

eva writes -> anything related to my writing

eva's asks -> answers to my asks box

eva's headcanons -> headcanons

eva's quizzes -> my quizzes on uquiz!! usually mcu themed but we'll see

masterlist -> any masterlist i've made

my fave artists/bands i like (in no particular order):

beyonce, slayyyter, pink pantheress, RAYE, britney spears, pierce the veil, taylor swift, sabrina carpenter, kendrick lamar, ariana grande, lorde, girl in red, van halen, SOPHIE, tiffany day, sonic youth, self, the police, u2, tate mcrae, glass animals, panic! at the disco, doja cat, rihanna, zendaya, 5sos, 1d, say now, tame impala, zara larsson, troye sivan, zedd, disclosure, fred again, leighton meester, the neighbourhood, adéla, tv girl, billie eilish, lady gaga, marina, carrie underwood, lana del rey, beabadoobee, childish gambino, the weeknd, addison rae, charli xcx, chappell roan, coldplay, asap rocky, playboi carti, imogen heap, frank ocean, swae lee, nelly furtado, beastie boys, future, doechii, megan thee stallion, brent faiyaz.........

thats def not all of it

[angelmydear-deactivated20210714]

That scene in iron man where Obadiah stane is buttoning up Tony’s shirt (after he shows him the arc reactor) gives me the creep

[ssironstrange]

There’s a lot about obadiah and Tony that are fucking classic tells of a toxic relationship women so often find themselves in. It’s creepy because its real. Same with the scene of obadiah taking the reactor out of a helpless, paralyzed Tonys chest. It’s rape without the sex. It’s the nightmare so many of us have lived or live in fear of. I’m honestly so glad they made Tony to be the “damsel in distress” if only for the fact so many more people can now realize these things.

[marvelsfemalepresentingnipple]

“It’s rape without the sex” That scene always gave me the absolute creeps and this post really finally helped me put my finger on why that was. Especially as he had essentially been roofied.

[ssironstrange]

Yeeeeeup. everything about it has always made me see direct parallels to sexual assault. i hate it and it makes me sick to my stomach but it’s such an important and masterfully done piece of cinema.

 tony has been incapacitated. his consent cannot be given and yet he is aware of whats happening. obadiah is gloating over him - and it doesn’t help matters that he’s almost straddling tony, only furthering his power play. and not only is he gloating, but he’s blaming tony for this. it’s tony’s fault he’s in this situation. furthermore, obadiah was someone he trusted like family, and about the last person he would expect this from. and for the cherry on top, the camera is off center and tilted, almost putting us in tony’s perspective, making everything feel just so many kinds of uncomfortable as he’s being assaulted.

[theoutermenace1986]

Thank you.

THANK YOU.

I’m honestly glad I was not the only one skeeved out by this because honestly - I’ve been wanting to say it for years, but I was always terrified that someone would say I was just reading into it too much.

I mean…let’s be frank (especially if we are talking about parallels to rape/sexual assault):

Tony was a playboy - he was not shy about his drinking, sexual history, or lifestyle. He had garnered a reputation for it. While fun loving and a good time kind of guy, he makes sure that consent is present during any liaison.

Here’s Obediah - this huge wall of a guy, acting like a friend and mentor. It gives him an in to be close, touchy-feely under the guise of a friend. Tony trusts him, hence why the closeness doesn’t bother him. That’s just how Obie is! Right? Right….

Tony has a traumatic encounter that changes his entire life….and no one takes him seriously. Pepper, Rhodey, Obediah - they are all guilty of trying to tell him that he just needs to sit back and get over it/get his mind straight/threaten to walk out on him because they think he’s crazy.

Huh….what does that sound like? Sounds like dismissal - a regrettably loathsome reaction many have towards victims of trauma and while not malicious (except for established douchebag Obediah), it can make bad situations worse and gives Obediah the perfect in for Tony’s downfall (the injunction, claiming it’s for his own good, all that jazz…exerting a shit ton of power over Tony and simultaneously trying to strip Tony of what power he has left)

To make matters worse - the scene itself where Obediah assaults Tony: Tony is alone. He is vulnerable. Obediah overpowered him, incapacitated him, but left him fully aware of what was going on. He penetrated him without consent (the mechanism literally punched in and pulled his “heart” out), gas lit him to hell and back by using not only his own past but his father’s past to justify his treatment bring “deserved”…..and then leaving him broken and for dead.

The reason a lot of people didn’t view it that way: we don’t normally see a man - especially an outgoing superhero type - being stripped of his agency in a brutally visceral manner. Its s shocking scene to begin with….but it gradually gets worse when you put it through the lens of a rape victim.

If that isn’t a giant parallel for sexual assault, I don’t know what is.

[ssironstrange]

Oh and the fact obadiah has basically been grooming tony since he was a teen, robbing him of bodily autonomy, pressuring him and forcing him into situations he doesn’t particularly want to be in, and always asserting his dominance with grabbing/holding/touching, or in some cases like OP pointed out, even dressing him. Obie is a predator in every sense of the word, and way too similar to how a rapist behaves for it to be a coincidence.

[amethyst-noir]

I hate, hate, hate this scene. It makes me so uncomfortable that I can barely watch it. IM1 has some of the most vicious, brutal scenes in the MCU and glosses over much less than the following ones.

It’s a brilliant movie but a painful one as soon as you look beyond the shiny armor.

[ironman3s]

okay i dont normally reblog stuff like this, but i’ve mentioned in tags tons of times that their entire dynamic creeped me out. I’d never talked about it this in depth before but yeah, he definitely used touch as manipulation, and I believe he touched tony more than any other character this entire movie 

(yes i spent way too much time making that.)

When Tony gets back from Afghanistan, gets out of the car with the burgers, Obadiah has at least one of his hands on him the entire way into the building. As someone else mentions – he buttons up tony’s shirt which - yeah tony has a busted arm, but he unbuttoned it relatively easily – so the creep factor still applies. and then you’ve got the other examples too. Also the fact that they’re business partners//mentor/mentee//father/son dynamic …. and obadiah deadass calls tony shirtless. like i dont know much about grown men but im pretty sure thats not that common even among friends. 

and anyway if we look at the other characters who touch tony in this movie, it’s rhodey and pepper and christine. Tony in this movie doesn’t initiate touch nearly as much – he usually reacts to it (e.g. even though he’s the ‘playboy’ christine is the one who takes the lead in sex. rhodey is the one who initiates almost all of their contact, etc). after this movie that changes. You can definitely see him start to initiate almost all touch, except with pepper and rhodey (e.g. him poking bruce, him slapping steves hand off him, but putting one on steve). this is definitely a way of asserting contol over a situation – idk if the writers did it purposefully…probably not, but it is interesting. one could argue, i suppose that afghanistan/torture is the cause, but….i think him being scarred by obadiah is more likely.  

also, Obadiah used tony’s name. A Lot. We don’t really think about it bc with the Avengers it’s always last name, last name, last name. (the ones who call him tony are easy to notice – fury, pepper, rhodey, sometimes steve). But Obadiah uses Tony’s name a lot more than seemingly necessary. And we all know calling people by their first names is a way of acknowledging them as a person, but also it also indicates familiarity/fondness aka a bond. Someone compiled a video of it. 

[irrepressible-domovoy]

I’d also like to mention how Tony hardly ever touches people later on, even Peter when he obviously treats the kid like his own.

Stane’s influence effected him years later, possibly even to the point of being afraid of becoming like him. As a lot of abuse and assault victims do, sexual or otherwise.

[sorka42]

This is also demonstrated in IM2 with his reaction to Justin Hammer. I mentioned in another post that when Tony is at the race in Monico. Justin Hammer gets into his personal space intimating a relationship that is not present. 

I’m actually quite upset with Pepper in this scene because Tony sees Justin approach and whispers to Pepper “Don’t leave me” and she still walks away. 

At one point Justine is literally leaning on Tony and Tony mutters “god that’s awful” as he tries to pull away. Putting his sunglasses on so that no one can see his eyes.

It is only a few minutes later that we see Tony testing his blood for toxicity levels and decides to take over driving his own car in the race. This could just be seen as an attempt to just be reckless, but it is also a desperate need to assert control over something when he just escaped a moment where he was once again stripped of his choices and support by the people around him. 

It might not seem that severe but for someone that has already dealt with trauma on the levels that Tony has, it could be triggering.

[movrings]

The scenes with him always make me so uncomfortable. Now I finally know why!

[amaluelmwood]

I am so glad I’m not the only one that noticed all this. Tony’s specific brand of female-coded trauma is a huge part of why I identify with him so strongly. And why I’m so. FUCKING. Pissed. That MCU killed him instead of letting him recover and move on.

[notaparty-trick]

Heavy but incredibly important

[fluencca]

Wait, we need to rewind. Back to Afghanistan.

Cause I’m always shocked when Obadiah calls Tony in Afghanistan, and he’s

half naked

in bed

calling Tony m’boy!

I’m always appalled. This always struck me as flat-out harassment, exactly the insidious kind you don’t know how to report, cause men can be topless, right? and it was a business call? and nothing lewd was said, so I guess it’s not really harassment?

And Tony reacts exactly the way women do, which is playing it off like a joke even though you know it isn’t. “Why aren’t you wearing those pajamas I got you, lol?” It’s funny now, right? He knows I’m uncomfortable and that I sort-of called him out for being shirtless on a business call? That’s surely enough, right?

Obadiah exists in that nefarious little sludge-hole of deniability of harassment, and that’s what makes him such a disgusting—and incredibly significant—character.

Dude bros, pay attention. Obi’s there as a mirror for you.

[deehellcat]

I’ve reblogged posts on this topic before, not sure if I have this one though–it includes some specific points I don’t recall from the others, such as that last one about Stane in bed.

[erodottir]

redraw of my first drawing of Erling EVER uhmmm a little improvement I think

[evaiswritingg]

SO GOOD EROOO

[gracieparkerr]

when a nuke is sent for nyc, fury doesn’t comm the avengers. he singled out tony stark; told him, not the team. fury knew tony would immediately have a solution, one that he would execute without asking. that’s how tony worked. and fury knew that.

and fury was right, because what did tony do when he got the call? he asked fury how long they had. and then he Got To Fucking Work.

[soopermax]

peter parker would pull a push door

[burningfudge]

Iron Man (2026) #6

[gracieparkerr]

just remembered what this reminded me of. it’s the peanuts debut comic

[erodottir]

Redid post endgame tony design I love him I missed drawing him

Some silly headcannons below if you’d like to read :o)

- the scars would’ve been loosened with multiple surgical revisions over time to allow full range of motion in his face, neck, arm etc. they would’ve been tight and even painful during his first few months of recovery.

- his eyesight in his right eye is almost totally lost, though he’s able to make out some lights/darks. He has depth of field issues now and it’s not uncommon for him to bump into objects.

- turns off his hearing aid and pretends not to hear anyone (he has full hearing in his left ear he’s just annoying)

- he goes to PT for his whole body, as he’s a little frail now LMAO. Especially for his arms, torso and neck which were most affected. Plus his time in hospital initially recovering left him with atrophy in his muscles, so he’s worked hard to rebuild his strength

- he does OT for both arms/hands, working with his prosthetic and also working to strengthen his left hand so he doesn’t have to rely on his prosthetic

- the dad weight definitely symbolises that he’s truly hung up the Ironman suit, and he’s finally allowed himself to relax. I love this trope so I had to include it. Plus he’s everyone’s pillow now.

- he’s still buff under the dad weight, that man can and will pick up his daughter one armed, he’s just not as agile as before

- says his hair is punk. Peter likes to remind him it looks like it’s receding.

- always adding new stuff to his prosthetic arm. It’s probably got some really ridiculous things added. Confetti cannon? Movie projector? Laser pointer? Who knows

[archerinthevents]

Peter made Ned, MJ, and himself in the sims. After the spell, when he was lonely and missing them, he'd log on and play their save. His own character is gone, but that's okay.

[evaiswritingg]

ok but important question does he even still have a registered account

[moonlightsprisoner]

rue might be the last time we ever see studaya and i don’t think i can process that

[lokaror]

i eat your grandads clothes

[flyingsquidzeez]

Macklemoth

[honeydewdrops333]

[fentanylaced]

[justlous-art]

my heated rivalry

[luluisoff]

female tony stark ✨ (+fem!Rhodey)

[soopermax]

thinking about peter copying tony’s mannerisms the more time he spends with him. I think we sometimes forget that tony was peter’s IDOL for YEARS before he recruited him during CW. Like imagine your favorite celebrity just sitting in your living room when you come home from school one day.

peter adores tony, but tony builds this emotional wall between them from the get-go, mostly because he’s afraid he’s going to be a bad influence. At the beginning of the mentorship he keeps peter at an arms length, because he knows everything he touches turns to ruin.

I certainly think that, in the earliest stages of their relationship, before peter started to see the more human side of him, he would copy his mannerisms, even simple little things like the way he stands with his hands in his pockets or the way he nods at the receptionist when he walks into one of his fancy business buildings. He thought that maybe, if he was more like tony, tony would like him more.

SCENARIOS:

when they’re in the lab, peter copies little things about tony, the way he sits, the way he stands with his arms crossed, the way he moves seamlessly around the room swiping at holograms and picking up tools in a controlled, chaotic dance. At this point, peter doesn’t know where everything is in the lab yet, but he feels insecure asking, so he just kind of fumbles around until tony helps him.

peter yells at DUM-E to pass him things the way tony does, except DUM-E doesn’t listen to him.

peter starts picking up some of the sayings that tony has, even the less… school appropriate ones.

peter gets kidnapped while he’s out on patrol. it’s the first time this has happened, and quite frankly he’s terrified. when tony is scared he doesn’t show it. so, he tries to act all tough and smart like tony. it only ends up making the kidnappers more angry with him, and they hurt him more.

after this, tony has a heart to heart with peter about all this, sort of an expansion on the classic “I just wanted to be like you / I wanted you to be better” moment from Homecoming, where he explains to him that he likes him just the way he is, and the reason he’s been so distant is because he doesn’t want to rub off on him.

peter explains that the reason he’s doing all that in the first place is he wants tony to be proud of him, and think he’s worth his time.

from there, they start to open up to each other.

inspired by this post by @wanderinghumanposts and a chat i had with my buddies @gracieparkerr and @birds-0fprey

[evaiswritingg]

this hurts my heart they both just want to do their best but they're doing it in the most unhealthy ways

[shit-post-things]

are we joking <3

[marblethickets]

tagged by @eowyns-fantasy ty!! 🤍

rules: make a poll with 10 of your favorite shows, they can be just 10 shows you loved watching or your top 10 tv shows of all time, then tag 10 people!

High Fidelity

Twin Peaks

A Knight of the Seven Kingdoms

I Am Not Okay With This

Freaks and Geeks

Sharp Objects

Big Little Lies

Pen15

Lovecraft Country

Fleabag

Voting ended onJun 5

tagging: @mabelwinters @flameshadowwolf @oldmanenjoyerrr @springairs @thisistotallynotaduck @victoriqueweasley @ildico-the-golden @mongrelcryptid @pink-euphoriia @platosreader (zero pressure hehe, also if you haven’t done this and we’re moots pls feel free to!!)

[thisistotallynotaduck]

idk if i've even watched 10 tv shows (i don't watch tv very often lmao) but imma give it a try

:)

A Knight of the Seven Kingdoms

Good Omens

Supernatural (currently watching - unfinished)

Hannibal (currently watching - unfinished)

Sherlock

Ocean's 11 (ik it's a movie i couldn't come up with anything else 😭)

Star Trek TOS (once again unfinished)

Voting ended onJun 6

welp i guess i really need to up my tv-watching game haha

@asteralpanda @giyuisacutie @friendly-neighbourhood-demonz @abaet3rno @ironspider-loki @a-wanderer-thats-not-quite-lost @booksandchaos-world @daughter-of-a-wolf @moonlight-lunna @between2waves

[ironspider-loki]

thankssssss for the tag! :D

I think I don‘t have watched 10 shows either

Sherlock

Spider-Noir

Brooklyn nine-nine

WandaVision

Loki

Hawkeye

The Falcon and the Winter Soldier

Stranger Things

Outer Banks (unfinished)

Avatar the last airbender (yup it’s a childhood show but didn’t find more)

Voting ended onJun 6

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[evaiswritingg]

dude i havent watched many shows in AGES... im more of a movie person!!! i dont have 10 faves fs so these are just ten ive watched

vote!!

gilmore girls

pretty little liars

wandavision

the falcon and the winter soldier

miraculous ladybug

hawkeye

shameless

supergirl

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