TMA (transmisandry affected). shoutbox for things im too nervous to put on my main. i am a deeply hateful person so tbh this wont be a fun place for most people.
about me: bert, over 25, he/they, agender & a trans man. you can figure out how that works in your head idc. i have a chronic disabling illness and a plethora of mental illnesses. your local government leech. i probably got c-ptsd but i dont got time for that. american.
this blog is my dumping ground for various angry hateful thoughts in my head. this is a whole diff tumblr acct to my main. i log on when i have things to say or feel pissed off. trying to debate me or call me out will probably just get you blocked because idrc.
i <3 trans men
opinionsâ˘ď¸:
(ive recently been told some of my phrasing is intersexist and transphobic. my bad. im trying to reword it, feel free to dm me suggestions)
queer is a slur. idc what you think or how you hear it used. if you try to gaslight me on my own fucking past and memories im going to attack. if you call it "the queer community" or refer to lgbt ppl as "queer people" im eradicating you with a moonbeam
for the astutely stupid: the above point does not mention self-identification. idc what you self identify as. it's putting the word on other people i beef with.
you gotta wanna transition in some way to be trans. idc if you pursue medical transition or are even in a position to transition at all. you gotta have the desire get away from your first gender and be perceived as something else
^ nonbinary is a real thing. grow up and expand your imagination. gender is a social performance at the end of the day and is primarily a tool to divide people.
idrc about contradictory labels if you actually put thought into it. sexuality and gender have complicated relationships w/ everyone. but if you call yourself some shit like "boydyke girlfag" you come off as putting in no thought and are spitting buzzwords lol
i am not using it/its for a living human being
i dont think nondysphoric trans ppl exist tbh. i think you guys just havent IDed your dysphoria yet
transandrophobia/whatever you wanna call it is real and a very big problem. exorsexism is real and a very big problem.
tma/tme are useless. everyone can be affected by transmisogyny.
i have no respect for trans women sry âď¸ seeing "transfeminists" on this site has turned me bitter and evil and hateful. im an unironic transmisogynist atp and i dont rly care
transfeminism is not a legit movement anymore. it's become a hate movement entirely co-opted by radfems. actual feminism is awesome and based.
trans radfems are terfs. they are excluding trans men and usually nb ppl from their feminism
ppl thought to be born as a woman will always be more oppressed than anyone thought to be born as a man. die mad abt it. this is feminism 101.
gender socialisation is real too. we have at length discussions on how those seen as girls and those seen as boys are brought up different. finding out that you're trans doesnt automatically undo how you were taught to be.
pro-fic/pro-ship/whatever but you gotta understand that putting your thoughts in public makes it no longer a thought crime. that's out in the world now. yes that includes your constant posting about raping lolis. ppl are going to judge you for that. and yes this blog counts as public too, im not that much of a hypocrite.
cats >>>> dogs. i cant fucking stand dogs. theyre fucking ugly and gross and loud.
idk enough on the politics of the middle east or russia to form nuanced opinions but i will always hold the belief that genocide, murdering civilians, and war as a whole is Bad.
i honestly dont care about worldpol much anymore. i burnt myself out and my life is too much of a shitfest to be concerned with people across the ocean. maybe one day if im not constantly on the verge of homelessness.
FAQ:
i just made this i dont have any questions let alone frequent ones
"why is your icon a woman if youre a guy" columbina is a trans man to me. either you get it or you havent opened your mind.
i'm sorry but after the great Transmasc Takeover we will have to send all the girldickrider trans guys to the reeducation camps :( we will give you cake for your struggle though
have transfeminists ever actually bothered to clearly define what "transmisogynized" and "transfeminized" actually mean, or do you just have to guess based on vibes.
what i ASSUME it's that it's people who are-- actually now that you point it out. im not sure. you have such a good point.
please dont kill yourself. i think you deserve infinite love and peace. im so sorry for the abhorrent things that my fellow trans women have said, i hope that you know that not all of us are so hateful, though i understand if that doesnt do much to assuage your anger and sadness at the horrible things you have had to read. you deserve better, i love you, and i hope that you feel better.
i appreciate the kind words. i do know not all trans women are like this. im friends with many who are perfectly normal about trans men and trans discourse. i don't go after specific people or @ anyone here on purpose. at the end of the day, this blog is to complain in a small space that doesn't really do any damage. ive posted in tags like maybe 3 times total.
in regards to the suicide thing, ive already said a fair bit about it. i would heavily suggest putting your sorrows and concerns into someone who isn't going to be a sink. there are many beautiful, bright people who are also on the brink and could be dissuaded
Imagine making a post about how funny it is to get men pregnant, and when the demographic of men who can get pregnant tells you it's not funny you whine because we ruined the joke. Genuinely you sound no different than a cis man who complains about being called out for a sexist joke
Being ignored over text especially in a group chat is so embarrassing like Ok FaceTime me right now we can have a group reaction to me swinging from the ceiling
The transfeminized are more important to support than a whiny cunt complaining that he's not getting the spotlight while trans women are literally constantly fucking killed, tmes should all permanently go away istg
lets see the checklist:
â calling trans men whiny for speaking about their issues
â use of stereotypically gendered insult
â implying trans mens issues are less important or donât exist
binder companies need to post ads for fat big busted trans guys and not just skinny androgynous twinks with body fat percentages in the single digits and yes im serious
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