[draconym]

i would rather see the information for an event handwritten in sharpie on a paper towel than see another AI generated flyer

[experiment41]

we are NOT bringing 4chan incel terminology to this site, take that "foid" out of your post and go wash your blog out with soap

[cognitohazardous]

the memeification of fascism is a proven method of perpetuating and instilling it in other people. Layers of irony will not protect you once you adopt racist, sexist, ableist, transphobic terminology into your lexicon. you'll be acknowledging and nursing the mindsets and connotations borne of those words.

[just-sans-things]

[evns-1925]

lady at the gas station this morning tried to charge me $1.90 for a large drink refill. when the same reusable cup has been charged as a medium since literally the 80's. apparently it used to be a 70 cent refill. every single time i've gone to any of this chain, it's now 97 cents. i pay with four quarters or a single dollar bill. and this lady says its $1.90. to her credit i told her they usually charge 97 cents and she took my dollar, charged 95, and gave me change back. but i feel like an old person. even the sign on the door has the price we usually pay. it's a small amount of money but i dont care. i only had that dollar anyways. never seen her working there either. i know that refill is 97 cents.

[omtai]

Concerts will have you staring at the taller person infront of you and thinking Why were you born? Why? Why? Why?

[sandwormb]

[emailmore]

[canichangemyblogname]

This June, I need Gen Z queers to understand that some people are closeted.

[canichangemyblogname]

I am saying this as a Gen Z queer, before y’all get your guns out to fucking shoot me.

But I need y’all to understand that if someone doesn’t give you their government name in a queer space, it’s not because they’re “mysterious,” and you do not have permission to take it upon yourself to figure out their “real identity” and go digging for them online like a private investigator. First, that’s creepy and a violation of privacy and reasonable boundaries. Second, some of us keep our private and professional lives very separate because we need to keep food on the fucking table and a roof over our heads, and our private life could jeopardize that.

[canichangemyblogname]

“Why won’t you tell me about your parents?” “Why can’t I know your real name?” “Where do you work?”

1.) Not all our parents would bake us a fucking cake when we come out. Some of us are closeted. Surely you understand this? You also do not need to know my parent’s names or occupations; we are both adults. I do not need nor want to mix you and my private life with my parents and my public life.

2.) Trans people do not owe you their dead name or government name

3.) I’m not telling you for the sake of job security. I am a government fucking caseworker working amidst a fucking lavender panic!

“There’s no way you’re a different person outside this; you’re still you at your core. What harm is there—”

No, I am a completely different person. A different person with a different personality and different interests and a different name and presentation. I am a completely different person because I keep this life and my public life private to avoid fracturing 90% of my interpersonal relationships and 100% of my professional ones.

“You’re not out? But you’re so confident.”

See— that’s part of the issue. Y’all assume someone is in the closet because they hate themselves or lack self-identity. Some of us know exactly who we are, but need to prioritize financial stability or else our entire life gets exponentially harder immediately.

[canichangemyblogname]

You meet queer people over the age of 40 and one of the first/earliest questions is “who knows?”

I need y’all to start bringing that energy. Because it’s not always safe for someone to be out and not everyone is safe to be out around.

There is a misnomer that “the closet” inherently means “doesn’t know they’re queer” and not “isn’t out widely and publicly.” “Outness” is often a patchwork.

[wizardnaturalist]

a book should be $5 a little drink should be $2 and museum access should be free and all hours

[throathole]

This is what burgers look like in your mind when all the places to get food near you have already closed

[yuriinullification]

topless mahjong is gonna be the next big thing

[evns-1925]

important does anyone remember the video that was eminem edited into telling a story about getting chased by gnomes or something im trying to show it to someone but i can't think of what to type to look it up

[depsidase]

[evns-1925]

anyone know what kind of beast this is? i don't know cat types very well

[were--ralph]

they slayed

[crappycheese]

[escuerzoresucitado]

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