—"Facing it brings me nothing but sorrow…“
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—"Facing it brings me nothing but sorrow…“
Romantic Movies You Need To Watch
Sharing some of the Romantic Movies I love the most from the 2000’s up to date, Here goes:
50 First Date (2004)
500 Days of Summer (2009)
A Walk to Remember (2002)
About Time (2013)
Before Sunset (2004)
Dear John (2010)
Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind (2004)
Everything, Everything (2017)
Flipped (2010)
Letters to Juliet (2010)
If I Stay (2014)
Love, Rosie (2014)
Me Before You (2016)
Safe Haven (2013)
Midnight Sun (2018)
P.S. I Love You (2007)
Serendipity (2001)
The Best of Me (2014)
Silver Linings Playbook (2012)
The Choice (2016)
The Kissing Booth (2018)
The Longest Ride (2015)
The Fault in Our Stars (2014)
The Last Song (2010)
The Notebook (2004)
The Space Between Us (2017)
The Vow (2012)
To All The Boys I’ve Loved Before (2018)
Thoughts.
ok so yesterday i read jon ronson’s amazing book “so you’ve been publicly shamed”, and aside from being a great book with a lot of good insight on current internet callout culture, there was one specific part that i can’t stop thinking about.
it’s when he’s discussing one of the many cases of people who were publicly shamed he mentions through the book. the person in question is a woman who took a picture flipping off a monument to veterans and who then became the target of a massive harrassment campaign that got her fired as a result.
because the picture lives on on google, the woman is in constant fear of losing any future job she might get, or of meeting new people in general. so jon puts her in touch with a company that’s dedicated to cleaning up people’s reputations online. what they do is basically to create a vast amount of online content about that person, so that the news of whatever they did that haunts them is pushed back to page 2 of google results, which, of course, very few people actually look.
the thing is that, in order to create this content, they need information about her, and so they start asking her the most inane things she might be into - like cats, disney or pop music. and then jon hits you, the reader, with this:
“The sad thing was that [name] had incurred the Internet’s wrath because she was imprudent and playful and foolhardy and outspoken. And now here she was, working with Farukh to reduce herself to safe banalities - to cats and ice cream and Top 40 chart music. We were creating a world where the smartest way to survive is to be bland.” (emphasis mine)
and this just… really hit a key point about this culture that i feel is rarely ever discussed. contrapoints briefly touched on it on her video about cancelling, when she talks about the contradiction between fans wanting creators to be “authentic” while also dragging them to hell for the slightest misstep, but she doesn’t really go in depth about it.
one video that does go in depth about it is pschyirl’s video on jenna marbles, “Why The End of Jenna Marbles Is The End of Authenticity”. it’s a great video that i highly recommend, and it basically points out how our current way of engaging with media disincourages creators to be remotely authentic, because authenticity requires being a human being, and part of being a human being is making mistakes.
and just… to me that just hits so deeply, and i think it goes way beyond social media platforms like youtube. there’s this contradictory demand that public figures “use their platforms” to raise awareness for important causes, while also holding the ones that frequently do to impossible standarts (jameela jamil immediately comes to mind). the safest way to be a public figure in 2020 is to be as silent as possible.
and this is often thought of as just a left problem, and don’t get me wrong, the “cancellation” aspect does tend to be left-wing leaning, but massive online mobs come from the right as well. and they also benefit from the essentialist discourse the left constantly clings to. in an essentialist world where creators are harshly judged as people by the media they make, it’s a lot easier, for example, to turn “cuties’s way of dealing with the sexualitization of children is not perfect and merrits critique” into “the director of cuties IS a literal pedophile”. the accusations are spearheaded by right wing people who are working on bad faith, but the essentialized version reaches the entire internet, and no one bothers to question it, and suddenly a female director who made a movie partially based on her own experiences growing up has to delete all her social media because of the harrassment she’s getting.
the message this sends to creators is to stay away from controversial subjects, even if those subjects happen to be relevant to you personally. it teaches artists to not take risks. and i can’t help but find it very, very sad.
canon: they died
fanfic: fUCK YOU
Canon: and so they never met
Fanfic: here’s a funny story
Canon: There was tension and pining, but they never even kissed.
Fanfic: Actually,
Canon: Torture the cinnamon roll.
Fanfic: Torture the cinnamon roll.
Canon: When they traveled they stayed in separate rooms
Fanfic: AND. THERE. WAS. ONLY. ONE. BED!!!!!
Canon: … and they were roommates.
Fanfic: oh my god, they were roommates…
Canon: They were international assassins who assassinated assassins.
Fanfic: But hot DAMN wait till you hear about this cafe they opened
Canon: They had a coffeeshop
Fanfic: but they were ASSASSINS
Canon: they were mortal enemies and attempted to murder each other on multiple occasions
Fanfic: bUT THEY GOT MARRIED AND ADOPTED CHILDREN
Everytime I reblog this has a new addition and it’s the best
Canon: They were straight
Fanfic: Lol
Canon: They lived in modern times and did modern things!
Fanfic: “And they boarded the Titanic on a cold day in 1912…”
Canon: And they were just average people.
Fanfic: …hiding their true shifter/mermaid/fae nature!
So, my friend made herself into 15 foot long cardboard velociraptor with googly eyes
#u hold on to that friend#hold tight and never let go
jungkook really has no business being the cutest boy on earth and Yet.
modern au ahsoka and the twins ✨
yo
More and more people are just starting to say fuck a poker face
lmaooo
they looked at each other like, this bitch 😂
I friggin lost it when they looked at each other.
I couldn’t get these doors out of my head, so I painted them. Accompanying music: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g9hwjQBQFIo .
I’ve finally managed to make a vine compilation short enough that Tumblr will let me post it!
I thought it wasn’t possible to crack an egg in your palm like that how to fuck did he
This is a good one 12/10
this is legit my favorite vine compilation ever, i’m crying
“Lately, you smell like cigarettes.” “That’s what she says, but I don’t really care.”
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Why the fuck would you go big when u can go home
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