The most important thing a woman can have (and so a woman's greatest goal) is freedom. The freedom to a) walk away unscathed b) experience life as she wants and c) her time. These are the 3 pillars to a good life. To achieve this, one must invest in five aspects of life;
Financial freedom. Money is the resource that helps you get other resources. In a capitalist society, money is the currency for life. Your main goal right now should be to build 2 years worth of an emergency fund, nothing else. If you have financial freedom you can walk away . A lot of women are trapped in toxic and abusive households and marriages and neighborhoods and workspaces simply because they don't have enough money to support life if they walk away. You must have enough money to walk away and not feel the burnt of it, and that is two years worth of emergency funds and a lifetime supply of passive income. Use the internet it's 2024 you don't need spoonfeeding. Oh and SET UP AN IRA.
Health. Nothing can replace being healthy nothing. Nothiiiing. You can not have freedom if you're not healthy. Health is a part of independence. You must start viewing your gym, organic foods, supplements, check ups, OBGYN, nutritionists and health scans as investments- and the greatest ones too. Your body is your home and your medium of existence. Invest heavily into it. Do not poison it, do not let random people into it, worship it. Incest in Healthcare, you could easily be one accident away from being dependent on someone- and you need to know you'll get Healthcare whether they chip in or not. Health insurance that covers as much as need covering is self love. Healthy eating is self love. Exercise is self love. HEALTH and HEALTHCARE is self love- don't you ever play with this.
Wordly knowledge. In my home country we have 'village girls' as a term for the little girls from the village that move to the city and get used abused trampled over doormatted left right centre simply because they have no worldly knowledge. Street smarts is smarts. Watch the news. Listen to a wide variety of podcasts. Interact with the world. Travel. Watch movies of every genre available and listen to music. Knowledge is power. You can't get played if you know the game. Gorgeous Gorgeous gorgeous ladies know evolutionary psychology and human nature is the shortcut to life. The more you know the less you suffer. Ignorance is the enemy, and you don't know what you don't know. Keep learning. And learn things that matter.
Social capital. Most women get trapped because they have no social capital to leave. It's actually a tactic men use to isolate you and become your only social capital so you're dependent on them. We sometimes forget we are a social species, human beings will literally DIE in absence of community, there are enough disturbing psychological experiments to prove this. The greatest human need is friendship and community. You MUST have a wideeeeeeeeee community. I can not explain enough how harmful it is to only have one source of community, no matter how big. If your friends at school are your only friends you get trapped in people pleasing because if they dump you you're ALONE, which is literally death level. You don't understand, if you don't kill yourself in absence of community your body will kill itself so you can't bring yourself to eat or sleep or leave the room and you fall sick and you body attacks itself inside out- simply because your boyfriend dumped you and he's your only community. I know you know the pain of losing your friend or loved one, whether to death or altercation, and if you didn't have enough social capital to pull you out you either considered suicide or couldn't bring yourself to eat and threw up everytime you did - your body seeking death because the sustainer of life is community. Make a LOT of friends in a lot of different places. Stay AWAY from people that try to isolate you and learn to have acquaintances and maintain your friendships- then you can easily walk away any time.
Hobbies and interests. The sheer number of women with no creative hobbies or interests they partake in is worrying. Ladies the feminine CREATES. Not having a creative outlet is like a fish having no fins? You'll feel dead inside. You'll feel caged and depressed. You're manifesting autoimmune diseases love, I. And no its not expensive and yes you do have time. We are not discussing this, get a creative hobby. This instant. No no no, phone down, go get one. And yes you do have one, you're a woman. Creativity is the science of your existence, to CREATE. If you don't, Bible you will get depressed. So misaligned.so out of order. You will hate life, and you can not experience a life you hate, love.
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