flowers and pink, aro addition

aro blog • greyaro bi • polyam • romance favorable • he/it • 18 • not a discourse blog • taking back pink for the aros • icon by aronautic

[acesappho]

anyway aro sapphics are just as important as ace sapphics and I will shun anyone who says otherwise

[aroaceworms]

Aromanticism is not an extension of asexuality. Aromanticism is not the same thing as asexuality. Aromanticism isn't inherently connected with asexuality. Aromanticism is its own unique, beautiful identity with its own wonderful community.

[faeriearo]

golly, the disconnect between using this blog & my aro identity and me being romance-favorable in a relationship

[mothpride]

Aro Gay Man Theatre Moodboard !! I hope you like it ! flag by @whimsy-flags

[lovingitaromantic]

[ID: A aro gay man theatre moodboard.

first row: a green and blue tinted photo of a theatre headline; a blue-purple tinted image of a man and woman. the man is moving away and the woman is posed as if singing; a green and blue photo of empty audience seating and a person standing in the aisle.

second row: a blue-purple close up photo of theatre seating; an aro gay man combo flag. there are 7 vertical stripes in the colors gray-purple/light mint green/light gray/white/light gray-green/light green/light gray-blue. in the center of the flag are two interlocked circles in lime green and blue. the stripes beside the white stripe are much thinner than the others and the outside stripes are thicker; a gray-green image of an outdoor theatre.

third row: a blue and green image of a man’s silhouette; a gray-light green image of a person standing on a stage behind a table. vague people shapes are around them; a blue and green image that looks like a beam of light. End ID]

[mspecsolidarity]

romo aro stimboard !!

explanation of the term here

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flag created by me w/ @a-romantic–aromantic

[faeriearo]

im not used to romantic attraction this shit sucks. my friend that I have a crush sent smtn where they might have a crush on someone else and I feel bad about it

[faeriearo]

crushes,,,,,, weird

[daz4i]

“am i in love with you or am i just excited to have you as my friend” a novel written by me

[theprideful-deactivated20251201]

Alloaro Pride Headers

[fuckyeahasexual]

I deleted my aro feelings post because my thoughts were clearly not expressed in a productive way. It was meant to be a conversational point on specific issues I feel and I’ve discussed with other aros of all sexualities both recently and in the past. But since it wasn’t adding to the discussion in a positive way, I don’t think it needs to stay up.

I deleted the post so only the called out versions can be reblogged. That way something harmful doesnt have a chance to spread further, even though it still exists paired with the its criticism. It was not my intention to speak over any allo aro voices, and I absolutely see how it came across as that which reinforced my believe that that post should not stay up because it was causing harm.

[cloudcoveronclearnights]

yeah so. this isnt an apology.

this is you admitting you fucked up, accepting that you hurt people, and saying “leave me alone about this” which. you dont get to do when youre the one who hurt others. you dont get to say “i know i hurt you but i didnt mean to so im going to pretend i never said that.”

“i deleted the post so only the called out versions can be reblogged” which versions? im looking at the post on mobile and there are three (3) responses shown in the notes. two of them are by alloaces, so only one called out version can be found without actively searching for it. i know more people called you out - i follow several. you responded to their criticism by deleting their replies, blocking them, and ultimately deleting the op. if you want to own up to your mistakes, make them visible. reblog the callouts yourself, because right now it looks like youre trying to sweep it all under the rug. right now, most of the critisim is just going to get stuck in aro and alloaro circles because alloaces dont reblog from us.

you yourself said that this post was “meant to be a conversational point” but deleted anyone who disagreed with you. it wasnt going to “add to the conversation in a positive way” because it isnt a positive conversation. you started it by saying “i dont like the way you use words to describe yourself.” thats not a positive starting point. thats an attack, and we reacted defensively, and youre now playing the victim.

i dont think i have a point to this. i know youre not going to listen - ive seen this play out enough times to know that. im just asking that you do better.

please

[faeriearo]

consider: if you're not alloaro dont try to speak for us and definitely don't think it's your place to discuss or debate how we id ourselves

[aroaceness]

black aces and aros are an important part of this community

Black asexual people. Black aromantic people. Black aroace people. ANY BLACK ASPEC OR AROSPEC PEOPLE.

You matter to this community

[faeriearo]

being romance favorable arospec is like do I actually have a crush or is this just a combination of wanting romance and my hormones being weird making me think it is

[herefortheace]

Ace WoC are amazing and incredible and stunning

Aro WoC are awesome and lovely and breathtaking

Ace and aro WoC deserve love and kindness and the world

[rabbiitghoul-deactivated2014091]

yknow who needs some support? aromantic people.we grow up in a society where we’re taught that being in love is the best thing in the world and falling in love and getting married and having kids is literally the only thing you should want in life. and for aromantic people, or anyone on the aromantic spectrum, that’s just really, really shitty. 

[aro-acethetic]

Aromantic + punk + pink for the anon!

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