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| mel/pati/fae | they | 21 | artist | writer | queer | virgo | ESL | european | dni if you’re gonna be mean or something lol | ask to tag, only thing i will not consistently tag (or even try to) are my fandoms | i block fairly liberally, sorry | check pinned for more info | 06.11.23 | 25.06.25 |

[fandom-fae]

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general:

about me

current main fandoms

casual/less active fandoms

non-fandom-related interests

current main favorite characters (across fandoms)

tropes i like (across fandoms)

directory:

my art tag

posts where i talk

my ao3 account (active)

other accounts/blogs:

my sideblogs: (ouat)

my pinterest account (semi-active)

my tiktok account (semi-active)

my instagram account (semi-inactive)

my twitter account (semi-active)

my wattpad account (1) (2) (semi-inactive)

my art fight account (active)

my cara account (inactive)

posts i want to highlight:

my ouat pan and felix vs death note light and misa comparison/meta

ask: what if misa and light were in ouat?

[evilsoup]

this is just truthslop.you believe it because it happens to conform to reality

[doubleca5t]

This is what Republicans sound like

[machiavelli]

[hotvampireadjacent]

[screencapcolle]

Kamikaze Girls (2004)

[kiyomitakada]

Kamikaze Girls is like a film from Misas perspective except its all about her friendship with a biker gang leader (and she's a girl). Trust me on this

GOD i have had kamikaze girls on my watch list forever because the lead really does look like misa...... i'll look it up one day. maybe i will watch it right after the dn movies because that one gifset i saw reminded me so strongly of lctw for no reason whatsoever.

[finpyre]

its sentient

[hartsnkises]

Alan Turing and Ada of Lovelace did not invent computer science for the girls and the gays to claim they can't do math

[smallsinger5901]

death note truly is the Your Punishment Is Getting Everything Exactly As You Wanted show

[luna-azzurra]

What helped me write trauma better is remembering that the nervous system learns predictions. If danger used to come after quiet, calm can feel threatening. If kindness used to come with a price, kindness can feel suspicious. So healing is not just “they know they’re safe now.” Healing is the slow, annoying, deeply unfair process of teaching the body that the old prediction is not always the present truth.

[storyweavingspider]

If you are a white person in a racialized person’s life, especially as a partner or close friend, you should go out of your way to ask regularly “hey is there anything you have been holding on to that I did?” and critically both fix it and NOT DO ANYTHING TO PUNISH THEM FOR TELLING YOU.

As a white person raised in a white supremacist society, you’re gonna fuck up sometimes. That’s just a fact. But racialized people often aren’t able/comfortable speaking up when y’all do some shit because of the power imbalance/not feeling up to educating when you may be resistant/don’t think the “fight” will be Worth It.

Show initiative without making it A Struggle or playing the white guilt card. Show you actually care about them, their struggles, and the way you interact with them BEFORE they have to have a bigger Conversation with you, beyond when they need to yell about someone else being racist.

And for fucks sake if they’re making/showing you something from their culture fucking act like you realize the importance of that, that they’re showing you shows they grew up with or making you food they made with their families, that they’re letting you in and trusting you more than other whites in their life.

[mintendo96]

This would honestly be life changing for me. The idea came up because I feel so incapable of telling the people in my life when they do racist shit. And like furthermore, actually respond beyond just an I'm sorry. Like for the love of god actually internalize the shit the Black and Brown folks say to you.

[mintendo96]

I'm seeing a lot of tags from white people saying something along the lines of please tell me if I fuck up and like that really goes against the point of the post. Racialized people have to swallow so much racism on a daily basis and it's impossible to tell who is safe to confront.

Even close friends or partners are not necessarily safe. I have had partners dismiss accusations of racism just off hand, I have had partners treat me like a repository for knowledge on Muslim cultural practices despite the fact that *my family has been Christian since Jesus,* hell I have had a partner say I was overplaying my pain at the genocide to get sympathy.

Racialized people are constantly waiting for the other shoe to job. Constantly waiting for their "antiracist" white friend to decide they have learned all they need to. We need you to ask. We need you to care enough to be proactive literally at all. Stop asking us to trust you without doing any fucking work to prove you are trustworthy.

[storyweavingspider]

To emphasize

IF YOU ARE WHITE YOU HAVE TO TAKE THE FIRST STEP OR YOU ARE JUST PUTTING MORE LABOR AND DANGER ON YOUR RACIALIZED FRIENDS FOR YOUR FUCKING COMFORT

Fucking reblog this each time you see it so that it gets drilled into other whites heads

[bebx]

[dumdogs]

i want to interact with people more but what if they kill me

[hiveswap]

Not now, kitten, m- da- m- your parental figure is in the middle of a gender crisis

[unheardoracle]

I love characters who are like "I'm a terrible person" but when you look closer it's more like

"I adapted to survive something and now I don't know how to stop being that version of myself."

[xx-r0t-dot-com-xx]

don't worry - it's all part of the act

[street-dog-bread]